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I'm terrified I'm going to see her with someone again and I get this sick feeling in my stomach. How do I deal with all of this?

Q.   So my girlfriend of five years and I broke up about two months ago, and until recently ive been okay because it was like we were still together. We live in the same buildings paralle from each other, and friday night I was having a smoke and I saw ...

A.   22 August 2011: Aw i feel for you 5 yrs is a long time maybe she was just testing you to see your reaction although that is low and mean, just give her some space she obviously doesnt care about you to do it right on your doorstep only time will tell you may/not ... (read in full...)

I'm 17. My family have banned me from seeing my 29 year old boyfriend

Q.   Hey I'm 17 years old and live in England with my parents, brother and sister. I don't really get on with my family, my parents have said on numerous occasions that i'm a disappointment to them, and they favour the other two children over me. I ...

A.   22 August 2011: First of all your family do care about you, this guy is 12 yrs older than you why would he want to be in a relationship with a 17 yr old im wondering? surely somethings not right here, what if you did leave home to be with him there maybe things you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is too quiet in bed! Is this normal?

Q.   My new boyfriend is so damn quiet in bed that I dont even know when he orgasms. This is becoming quite embaressing because I keep going and I dont realise that he has already come. There is no noise, no movement, no facial expression, no nothing. ...

A.   20 August 2011: it might be because the relationship is still new and hes holding back a bit or feels a little nervous... (read in full...)

Thoughts on engagement rings?

Q.   A friend of mine recently got engaged, and then broke the engagement off last weekend. Her now ex-fiance stated "that was a total waste of $4500" (meaning the amount that he spent on the engagement ring.) I personally agree that $4500 is too much to ...

A.   20 August 2011: it shouldnt matter about the price be grateful if he asks you!... (read in full...)

I left my lover to return to my wife. my lover just wants to be friends now. nothing more

Q.   I am a married man with 2 wonderfull children but I just don't love my wife anymore. For this reason I have has a lover for the past year. That is until recently... I left my wife for my lover briefly, but I missed my kids and couldn't handle b...

A.   20 August 2011: i would let her get on with her life you are messing both these women about and quite frankly its not fair on eiether of them how would you feel if the role was reversed? first its your wife then this woman now your wife again? you cant have your ... (read in full...)

Falling in love was great but now it hurts like hell. I am 50 she is 18. Will she come back to me?

Q.   i am a 50 and male,and i have been working with this young woman who is 18. She is the owners daughter so I first was aware of her when she was 11. About 8 months ago,we fell in love,believe it or not, both our first love... i have never dated be...

A.   20 August 2011: sorry but i doubt it would last, maybe she just saw you as a father figure, surely theres a lovely 50 yr old woman out there for you, it would be wrong to get involved with this young girl if it was my daughter i would do the same and would wounder ... (read in full...)

Pregnant and not sure how to tell my fiance.....we decided we didnt want kids yet!

Q.   I found out I was pregnant this morning and havent told anyone. My fiance and I decided we didnt want kids yet as we are way too busy with our jobs (hes a rugby player and i am a busy primary school teacher). Neither of us believe in abortion and i ...

A.   16 August 2011: first of all congratulations! you need to tell him asap and face to face your obviously much inlove with eachother and im a firm believer things happen for a reason, as long as you have your family and his they will support you during your pregnancy ... (read in full...)

Why isn't he doing the little things like kissing and forgiving me?

Q.   Should I stay or go? I have on and off (more on) with my bf for about 18 mos. now. He s divorced and has full custody of his kids one girl 4 and one boy who is almost 2. He works alot and sometimes it seems that he just don't have the time I need ...

A.   12 August 2011: if you loved him that much why did you cheat on him? he prob doesnt want to get intimate etc because of this, how would you feel if the role was reversed? he hasnt long been divorced and marrige and kids are prob the last thing on his mind, just try ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend moved out, but he's still wearing the ring I gave him! What does this mean?

Q.   hi i need help me and my boyfriend split up a few days ago and hes moved out i saw him today and he still has his ring on that i gacve him on our first valentines ady basically its a wedding ring, as he got me an engagement ring, plus he still has a ...

A.   12 August 2011: i have told him to take it off he reckons his hands are swollen! we have a child thats why i see him plus when i was talking to him by his car the photo was still on the sun visor where its been for the last 4 years, we still have to talk reguarding ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend moved out, but he's still wearing the ring I gave him! What does this mean?

Q.   hi i need help me and my boyfriend split up a few days ago and hes moved out i saw him today and he still has his ring on that i gacve him on our first valentines ady basically its a wedding ring, as he got me an engagement ring, plus he still has a ...

A.   12 August 2011: he mow says its because his finger is swollen and will take it off asap but the photo of us is still in his car :(... (read in full...)

My boyfriend moved out, but he's still wearing the ring I gave him! What does this mean?

Q.   hi i need help me and my boyfriend split up a few days ago and hes moved out i saw him today and he still has his ring on that i gacve him on our first valentines ady basically its a wedding ring, as he got me an engagement ring, plus he still has a ...

A.   11 August 2011: its still on his wedding finger... (read in full...)

My partner walked out and now I'm worried about how it is affecting our children....

Q.   iv recently broke up with my boyfriend, im really worried about our oldest hes 4 and seems very quiet constantly staring into space, hes usually a outgoing little thing, i feel for him as hes used to going to bed getting up and seeing his dad before ...

A.   10 August 2011: dear janniepeg thank you for your advice, yeah he said hes staying at a friends, we havent been getting on as well as we have lately, last time he left it was because we were constantly arguing and i didnt want him to leave me as he was going out ... (read in full...)

Why are beautiful people the ones with the most insecurities, when there's nothing wrong with them?

Q.   How is it people who are beautiful end up being the ones with most insecurities, even thought there's nothing wrong with them? My best friend who is bloody gorgeous and gets told it by so many people, has more insecurities then anyone would ever ...

A.   10 August 2011: no ones totally 100% happy with themselves, male or female its sad because in this day in age normal is seen as boring!most people want to look like a barbie doll you see children as young as 14 with a full face of make-up and a skirt and clothes so ... (read in full...)

He helps out around the house, but it would be far more helpful if he could pay his way! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend lives with me and basically his maintenance for ex and child leaves him with no money for himself, he honestly has nothing left, I have to keep giving him cash handouts. He seems to think that he can even out the differences in ...

A.   10 August 2011: it sound sto me that hes just using excuses, try and help him look for jobs etc, papers,internet, agencies. Im sorry to say but i think hes got used to the easy life and is taking advantage a bit, why would he want your dad to pay for the wedding ... (read in full...)

5 years of dating we break up over silly argument and now I'm all mixed up

Q.   Im literally torn been with my ex boyfriend for 5 years got 2 beautiful kids together, we do have our ups and downs but on the weekend we just had a silly argument which resulted in him not coming back all night! i texted him the next day asking for ...

A.   9 August 2011: dear mrg123 thanks for your reply, basically we argued over the fact i wanted to go to college to do a nursing course he has benn dead against this from the moment i mentioned it, he said he feels iv taken advantage of him how i have i dont know he ... (read in full...)

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