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I have unexplainable depressions... but then I'm OK again...

Q.   Hi, I hope you can help me. I've been depressed for the last year but don't know why. I have a nice family and have a good social life. When I'm out I'm happy, then I just go on a downer and I dont know why. I don't talk to anyone for days and j...

A.   26 April 2005: i have the same problem. when im out with my friends im a happy go lucky person up for a laught n a joke but when im alone im depressed and quiet and just a simple advert can set me off crying. i found that having a hobby or interest, mine being ... (read in full...)

I've always been the one my friends rely on, but when I need help, nobody's there for me...

Q.   I have always been the person everyone relies on, always there to give advice and help whereever I could. My husband said that I was a pushover and did too much for everyone in my family and with my friends. I do have a hard time saying "NO" to ...

A.   26 April 2005: i am going through the same kind od thing. i feel that i am constantly helping others out of either financial problems or emotional problems yet when i need help with my problems no one is there. this used to bother me but no iv started to say no ... (read in full...)

Mum says she'll fire me if I take my b/f back and I'm so confused!

Q.   Im 22 & have a 2 year old little boy with my ex-boyfriend whom I was with for 3 years. We have been through some bad times but we want to try and make our relationship work. My parents hate him. My mother is my boss and she said if I take him back...

A.   25 April 2005: I had the same problem when I met my husband. My parents hated him. He was banned from their home and when I took our children to see them my husband could never go with us. In the end I grew distant from my parents due to them making it very har... (read in full...)

Foreskins and oral sex... what do I do?

Q.   I want to know when you give oral sex to a man what happens with the foreskin?? Do you do your stuff while the skin is down or do you pull it up? Does it hurt if you pull it up?...

A.   25 April 2005: Myself and my boyfriend love oral sex and after asking him how he preferred it, he told me he likes me to move the foreskin up and down with my mouth while pleasuring him. ... (read in full...)

Married for a month and my wife has lost interest in sex!

Q.   A few months before I got married (just four weeks ago) my wife had to stop taking the pill for health reasons. She seriously dislikes condoms and as a result has lost all motivation towards sex to the point that she's almost scared of it now. She's ...

A.   25 April 2005: I was also on the pill but had to come off it for health reasons. I was uncertain of other types of contraception but after talking with my doctor I decided to have the coil fitted, and it's the best thing I have ever done. It's fitted by a doctor ... (read in full...)

My third child is on the way, and my partner has left me!

Q.   I am 22 years old. I have 2 children and a third on the way. I have been with my partner for 7 years and he has left me. What do I do? ...

A.   25 April 2005: I think you need to face up to the fact youre going to be a single mum and let him go. I'm also a single mum of 3 children and since realising I can cope I've done so very well. There are plenty of organisations out there to help you and don't feel ... (read in full...)

I don't want to let my girlfriend go, in case she doesn't want to come back to me...

Q.   My girl friend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. For the longest time in the relationship everything was perfect but recently it seems that something is missing. We both realize this but can't pinpoint what the problem is. We als...

A.   25 April 2005: If she loves you she'll come back. xxx... (read in full...)

I've decided it's time to end it with him... so how do I do it?

Q.   I am finding it really difficult to end my 4 year relationship. I have a 3 yr old son with this bloke and he is a good dad when he puts is mind to it. The thing is together we are not a good match and today he hit me, it was a long time ago that ...

A.   25 April 2005: I was also in a violent relationship that lasted for 8 years. I realised one day that I would be better off getting myself and my children out of it. After trying several times to ask my husband to leave I decided it was best if I left instead.... (read in full...)

She flirts, I drink, we argue, we split. We do this again and again. Do we quit?

Q.   Me and my partner have been together for three years off and on. We argue because she flirts with guys. She is possesive, she tries to control everything I do. I normally start drinking, as am an alcoholic. I go to mum's and then stop drinking, ...

A.   25 April 2005: It seems as if your relationship is stuck in a rut and both of you need to sort out what the real problems are. If you both do better without each other then maybe its time you called it a day.... (read in full...)

If I take a chance and date the new guy, I might get hurt again. Is it worth the risk?

Q.   I went out with this guy for a year and we were very close, but then we started to have problems and we broke up. I was devastated! I stayed in my room and cried A LOT! But one of my guy friends was there for me and I went out with him two weeks ...

A.   25 April 2005: Not all relationships end up the same. Sometimes you have to take a chance and see what happens. If you go into a relationship thinking you're going to get hurt then you will not give your 100% self into it. Rrelax and enjoy yourself because you ... (read in full...)

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