Should I follow my heart and stay with him, or did I make a mistake by choosing him over my career?
Q. Ok, so at the moment I'm really freaking out. I have just left my job in Germany to move home to Ireland. I didn't want to go to Ireland, given the job situation, but my boyfriend, who's French by the way, is going to do a masters here and I said ...
A. 12 July 2011: I tried to talk to him, but as my sister told me, happy people rarely take the negative feelings of those around them into consideration. I don't really believe in LDRs so I came back in the hope that we could make it work. Even last night, his mom ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend treated me really badly at times but now that we are broken up I feel really sad
Q. Ok I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years, im 26 years old, he's 35. We met at the restaurant he worked since he's a chef, and at the time I worked part time there since I was still a law school student. Along the way in our r...
A. 3 January 2011: Nobody likes to be alone, and obviously you saw something in this guy, but from what you say here, the love that you felt was not reciprocated by your ex. Love is when you don't have to ask the guy you're with to be there, he will be because he ... (read in full...)
Learning to pleasure myself without pain?
Q. i don't know how to masterbate, i mean, i do know, but almost every way hurts except the running shower, what are some ways i can sucessfully get an orgasm without inserting anything "up there", oh and what postions are best...
A. 20 December 2010: Masturbation is about learning about yourself and your body. Take things slowly. Gently stroke your clitoris to begin with. You don't have to do anything penetrative to orgasm. As the last person said, it's about feeling turned on. Think of things ... (read in full...)
How do I make him realize it's over?
Q. Dear Cupid, I know this is really long, and I'm sorry. I need to tell the whole story because I'm lost right now. I hope you take the time to read it and give me some help. I don't know what to do. I was dating this boy for a while and then...
A. 8 December 2010: I agree with what others have said here. Don't respond to this guy, in any way. You don't want to be with him, and it's better for both of you if you cease contact altogether. Other than that it's like adding fuel to the fire. He obviously doesn't ... (read in full...)
Am I too ugly to be loved?
Q. im ginger, ugly and fat im 19 and i ust cant get girls to like me they never talk to me and the ones that do talk to me are the ones that just do it as a joke any help please ...
A. 7 December 2010: Look, red hair is individual and trust me, it can be very appealing, but women don't usually fall for a man because of their hair colour:). If you're overweight, you can change this by going on a healthy eating plan. You obviously have some ... (read in full...)
Yasmin contraceptive pill instructions?
Q. Hey, really confused here! I'm on Yasmin contraceptive pill and earlier on I vomited about twenty minutes after I took it, so I took a another pill directly after and have kept it down. I'm just wondering if I'm on it for twenty days instead ...
A. 7 December 2010: You should ask your pharmacist to be sure, I'm sure they'll sort you out. ... (read in full...)
We live together but I haven't seen him for 2 months due to his work schedule!
Q. I know that I'm being selfish but I'm not happy and I can't pretend to be. My boyfriend and I got back together in July and moved in together in August. I had just moved to Germany to start work and decided to move from Ireland to Germany to be wi...
A. 6 December 2010: Thanks for the advice. At the moment, I'm in a wait and see phase and I'm trying to be more patient. I mean, I know he loves me, and wants us to have a future and I am not willing to give that up yet. At some point (if I see him ;))I'll need to try ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else like really rough sex?
Q. So, I'm wondering. does anybody else love really really rough sex? i mean, i feel weird asking, but i dont want to be the only one. like, i love being slaped, called dirt names, and thrown around, choked (not hard but yeah). i love it, but i feel ...
A. 5 December 2010: It's totally normal. I mean everyone has their own set of things that turn them on. I love bondage, some hairpulling, and spanking and I'm willing to try other things. Of course I think that you need to be with someone you trust and love, but why ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and I'm left feeling confused!
Q. Okay, so my question is should i break up with him or stay with him and see if it will work out? So i was dating my current boyfriend for 3 months and it was going perfect. i couldn't have asked for a better boyfriend. then a week before our 4 mon...
A. 5 December 2010: I went through something similar. I moved away and my bf cheated on me and he broke up with me. I was devastated but I moved on. However he put himself back into my life and I got back together with him 6 months later after he said he was an idiot ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to strike a balance with his gaming?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for two years now; got engaged a year ago. We're getting married in March (St. Patty's Day theme) and he's obsessed with video games. Now, of course I understand that guys and girls alike have an immense interest...
A. 5 December 2010: I completely understand. I have the same problem. My friend who's married does as well. She like to call us "battlefield widows"
To be honest I don't know. I wish I did. I find that suggesting things to do outside of our apartment helps. Like goi... (read in full...)
I think I'm still in love with the other guy!
Q. So, my boyfriend broke up with me back in around april, we had been together for years! I was so hurt and heartbroken. I started hanging out with a guy and around like the third week we were already talking about dating. I wanted to move on from my ...
A. 4 December 2010: It is very possible to love more than one person at a time, and it's very possible to fall in love in 3 months. I think you need to ask yourself why you got back with the first guy in the first place? and whether you are really considering getting ... (read in full...)
| *sClara's friends
These are mutual friends, so *sClara has
added them and they have added *sClara!
|
