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Learning to pleasure myself without pain?

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Question - (20 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i don't know how to masterbate, i mean, i do know, but almost every way hurts except the running shower, what are some ways i can sucessfully get an orgasm without inserting anything "up there", oh and what postions are best

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A female reader, MsClara Ireland +, writes (20 December 2010):

Masturbation is about learning about yourself and your body. Take things slowly. Gently stroke your clitoris to begin with. You don't have to do anything penetrative to orgasm. As the last person said, it's about feeling turned on. Think of things that are pleasurable to you. Sexual pleasure is 3 quarters mental and 1 quarter physical.

Good look and have fun experimenting :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010):

Use your mind and your vaginal muscles. You don't have to touch a thing.

And it is guaranteed to not hurt .

You will develop visions of situations that seriously and erotically turn you on.

Can take a while to train yourself in this technique. Eventually 10 mins is all you need to come. Though if rushed you can come in less than that. Once your body is aware your vaginal muscles will give you rolling continuous orgasisms. Sometimes

it's hard to turn your pulsating muscles off.

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