Should I go ahead with the PhD? Or not?
Q. I'm currently in a massive state of indecision about my future and I was hoping for some advice. I'm 8 or so months into a postgraduate degree in chemistry, and the option to extend it to a three year PhD course came up a few months ago. At ...
A. 18 May 2012: Never loose a chance to study more.Go ahead and do it.You may have to struggle for a couple of more years but if you did it upto now why not do it for 2 more years.At least you wont have any regrets after that.If I was your friend , I would not just ... (read in full...)
I can't trust a single word he says ever time he opens his mouth my thoughts are lie lie lie..
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for about two years now but I am so mentally drained is my boyfriend a narsassistic psychological abuser and doesn't really love me? Or am I just over thinking our relationship and what has happened? Hear is alittle bit ...
A. 18 May 2012: You are not in an equally powerful position with your husband.There are financial problems too.He is a capricorn right ? It is very difficult to correct these people.Actually the only way to correct them is to make him realize your importance by ... (read in full...)
My wife had sex with 10 guys by the time she was 19 Is that normal?
Q. I am 35 and my wife is 34, and she has had sex with 11 men in her life including me. That might not sound like a massive number of partners relative to her age, but the other 10 guys were all between the ages of 15-19. From 19-30 she was with one ...
A. 18 May 2012: what is killing you is that earlier you used to think that you were the second person in her life but now you know that you are standing at the 11 position.This has decreased your importance that you held with respect to her.So basically you are ... (read in full...)
I don't understand how he got over me so fast
Q. Okay so to start off, me and this boy went out for 1 year and a couple months. We are both 17, young I know. Everything was great until the last 2 months of our relationship. We had been arguing a lot, but at the end of the day we always made up. ...
A. 18 May 2012: He tried to make you happy all the time.Now its your turn to make him happy :).Just Let him go with this girl.Let him experience this change.Let him move ahead in a different direction. Don't drool over him , don't think of him to come back either ... (read in full...)
Will I be more than just a hook up?
Q. I have fallen for my sometimes hook up. We see each other only a few times a month. We chat every other day or so. He is not into having a relationship. I knew this and was ok but something about him is so amazing other than sex. I tried to break ...
A. 18 May 2012: Hi, Let him do whatever he is doing for you but don't remain in a hope of something coming up in the future.Just enjoy your present.Be in the present with him and don't really bother about the hopes that he gave you. Don't believe in his h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was ill on my birthday and I didnt get to see him, should I be mad at him for this?
Q. Do you think i should be mad at my boyfriend for this ?. He has been ill with flu for a few days, and it was my birthday yesterday, but he didn't meet up with me. I was supposed to go round to his house for a few hours. I wanted to go out somewhere ...
A. 17 May 2012: You are thinking that he feels that you were enjoying on your b'day while he was sick. There is one principle of life which comes to my mind.We always think that the other person is living his life to the fullest when he is with his friends/... (read in full...)
He's going on the cruise we planned to go on together without me! Am I wrong to be upset with him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. A few months into our relationship his sister invited him on a cruise because his nephew couldn't go at the last minute. At the same time he got laid off from his job so the getaway was good for ...
A. 17 May 2012: You have been supportive and understanding about so many things with him.You are helping him in his bad times,thats great.Believe me ..once he finds a job ..he is going to be really nice to you. And yeah he is not a bad guy or selfish guy.He is just ... (read in full...)
Is this a sign he doesn't want to be seen with me?
Q. ...Still close with my Ex, do everything together...but he didn't invite me to his Birthday Party...? My ex split up with me a year and a half ago, his mum died and he felt like he could not handle a relationship no more. I respected his wi...
A. 17 May 2012: Hi, Some of the people whom he invited have been there since his past relationship.They are his friends and his ex-wife friends.He doesn't wants to break his friendship with them because friendship is one thing he never wants to loose with anyon... (read in full...)
Ex Boyfriend wants to be friends after mother dies....is there hope? Or this is the end?
Q. ....We met when he was going through a devorce...5 years ago.it was amazing and magical....i didnt open up to him too much due to past relationships...i wanted to know if he was worth me doing so...i was not ready for a relationship....he was ...
A. 17 May 2012: Yeah I can help you on this. 1.Tell him that he is the first person whom you fell in love with and he will be the last.Tell him that you will not fall in love with anyone else ever after.Yup!! go tell him this. 2.Tell him that if both of you are ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that I'm moving away and wont be coming back?
Q. Iv been in a relationship with a guy for some months now, we started dating when we were schooling together. We are happy together but the problem is, i have moved to a different country and i dont think i'll be returning due to some pesonal issues. ...
A. 17 May 2012: Hi,
If you tell him now, he will breakup and find someone else and you will find someone else.In this way both of you would be happy.Its always better than talking to him for 6 more months while holding a confusion in your mind.Tell him and don'... (read in full...)
What are the pro's and con's of having a fake relationship with my gay friend to trick his mom?
Q. So, I've been really close friends with this guy since 6th grade, we're both now in 9th, and he's gay. He recently told his mother about himself. She was very angry about it and yelled at him about how he's never even experienced with a girl and ...
A. 17 May 2012: There are somethings that you should remember your entire life.
1.You can never help a person by faking a relationship.
Its not going to help him for a long term as someday or the other his real nature would become clear to this world.
2.Never t... (read in full...)
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