The gossip has taken all the good that I do and turned me into nothing.
Q. Hey Cupids, My questions are about moving on after divorce/separation. I met my beautiful lover earlier this year when he was in an unhappy marriage. We started seeing each other but feelings were serious enough that he left his wife after 7 wee...
A. 20 February 2019: Thank you all for taking the time to offer comfort and advice. Over Christmas I did have a breakdown which looking back was a long time coming. I am feeling much stronger in myself now, and I am starting to know myself better each day. I don’... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me to move in with him but he can't see a marriage or family for another 10 years!
Q. Hi everyone, ok so my problem is probably quite common but I still have no idea what to do so I would really appreciate your advice. Basically, I'm 28 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He recently asked me to move in with him...
A. 4 August 2013: You could go for fertility testing for your own peace of mind. They can tell you how fertile you are and even estimate how long you will fertile for several years ahead.
It's not an exact science but it may give you one less worry and give you a ch... (read in full...)
Wife is driving me crazy! Can't I have a morning to myself?
Q. My wife is driving me crazy. I have been unemployed for the last few months and finally found a new job that I started last week. When I was off work, I woke up with the kids each morning because I'm a pretty early riser. I would get them r...
A. 10 October 2010: Hi There,
I dont think that you are being selfish at all - I bet there are loads of wives out there who would love a husband who is as involved with family life!
Unless she has a reason for wanting to sleep in (is she pregnant... (read in full...)
My wife won't help around the house!
Q. Ok I am in the military and work full time on active duty however I also work full time at home, I cannot get my wife to do anything around the house to help! I am not the kind of guy to say she should do 100% at the house but she don't do anything ...
A. 24 September 2010: Hi Buddy,
Sorry to hear that you are finding things so tough at home, it must be hard to juggle so many things with little support.
I do think that it sounds like your wife may be suffering from depression, has there been any history of this ... (read in full...)
Son looking at pornography on the computer?
Q. I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was ...
A. 14 September 2010: Hi Honey,
I think you probably acted out of shock - any mother dreads her babies growing up, and you were obviously shocked and upset by what you saw, as well as you both being very embarassed!
Once you feel ready to, have a chat with him about th... (read in full...)
We have sex 5X a week and he still needs porn?
Q. Hello. My bf and I have sex about 5 times a week, but he still watches porn alone and masturbates. I have never had a problem with him watching porn, but does this reflect on me? Am I not enough?...
A. 14 September 2010: Hi Honey,
If you are happy with your sex life then I wouldnt worry too much.
If he was choosing porn instead of having sex with you then yes, some cause for concern, but it sounds like this is not the case?
Are you happy with everything e... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think. Boyfriend is still on dating sites.
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. Living together for 3 years. A couple of months ago I seen on our internet history he had been looking at escort websites. I confronted him about it and he said he was just curious and ...
A. 13 September 2010: Hi Sweetheart,
Dont marry this guy. If you are ok with him looking at porn but you have told him how upsetting you find him looking at prostitutes, then he carries on doing it what does he really think of you? It is so disrespectful!!!
He obviousl... (read in full...)
Would you have a problem if boyfriend was still in touch with a Fbuddy?
Q. OK, just a simple question. If your boyfriend stayed in touch with a girl while seeing you, who you know used to be a "f*** buddy" would you be concerned. I mean, even if he told you they were just friends etc... would you have a problem with him ...
A. 9 September 2010: Hiya,
Personally I would have a problem and would have to be honest with him about it.
F*buddies are NOT friends, they f***, so what is there to talk about except f***ing, which when you get down to it he should be doing with you and only you.
If... (read in full...)
Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner?
Q. Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner? Of course most wives will never be as attractive as skinny teen porn stars - because they are not teenage any longer, pert boo...
A. 9 September 2010: Thanks all for taking the time to reply.
He is adamant that he doesn't have a problem (even though he has also been caught looking at prostitutes on his iphone).
I think the only logical answer is that he just isn't attracted to me any more. No... (read in full...)
Can a woman get Thrush even if she is not sexually active?
Q. Hi, I know what Thrush is. Can a woman get it even if she is not sexually active?...
A. 17 August 2010: Yes, a woman can get it if she is run down, on antibiotics, wears tight clothing, as a reaction to certain types of contraceptive pill, pregnancy etc etc.
However if left untreated it can be passed between partners like an STD so it is very impo... (read in full...)
How can I make my husband want me?
Q. Hi, Can anyone help me do sex with my husband for longer and how to make him need me all the time and think of me only what will attract him as i see he's not giving any attention on anything i do? i want to change and make him need me all the time...
A. 17 August 2010: Hello,
Have you ever talked with your husband about his fantasies? Or what kind of things turn him on?
Without talking to him it is very hard for you to know what his wants and needs are, and although it may be embarassing at first a lot of the t... (read in full...)
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