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I am from Chicago, IL.
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Do guys like toys too???
Q. Do guys EVER like vibrators on there cocks? if so where on the balls? i want to try it on my BF but he's never tried it so any advice would be great!!...
A. 1 August 2010: Prostate is actually about 2 inches inside anus towards the front. Pressing on it while giving him oral will intensify the feeling.
Some men do not like being probed at the back. So, you need to know if your man likes it.
If he is not into a... (read in full...)
He said he needs sex to feel commitment!
Q. I asked a question awhile ago and the answers I got were not the ones I was looking for, so I am going to add more detail and ask the question a little different. I have known my boyfriend for 2 years, We have been dating now for 7 months. His o...
A. 31 July 2010: At his age sex is the first thing that will attract him.
You do not need to have sex to feel committed to someone or love someone. Sex comes after you have committed to someone.
At your and his age the hormone are running wild and you both are... (read in full...)
Do guys like toys too???
Q. Do guys EVER like vibrators on there cocks? if so where on the balls? i want to try it on my BF but he's never tried it so any advice would be great!!...
A. 31 July 2010: Oh man! I am not sure about other guys but I will not want another cock near mine. But if it is a vibrating thing then it will feel so good right under the balls (ever heard of prostate?). Try Fleshlight for him (google it).... (read in full...)
Help, I'm so confused about my sexuality...
Q. I've always liked girls but the last three years or so I've had nuthin but bad luck with them.... I was telling one of my brother's gay friends about my problems and he said that I might be gay or bi........ so i did soem work and im not sure and ...
A. 31 July 2010: Dr Ski, you are right on. I couldn't agree more with you. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know how much our sex life is bothering me
Q. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over a year. We only have sex about once a week, sometimes not even that, or twice a week at a push. I want to have sex a little more often (twice a week every week would be great), but my ...
A. 31 July 2010: I so much agree with jmc930 response. Take it up with him now. Its not that you are bound to him (marriage). You are very young and have the right to pleasure and happiness.... (read in full...)
Had sex twice, but did not feel anything physically, why??
Q. Hi. Well this is pretty embarrassing to talk about but I'd like to know if this is an issue so here goes... I had never had sex until I was with a prostitute a year ago. The second time was with a prostitue also, earlier this year. I guess I ...
A. 31 July 2010: Thats a pretty tough question to answer without being in the same spot as you. If you were impotent earlier then it could be that you have insensitive nerves in your penis which is why you didn't feel the sensations and pleasure. Truly speaking you ... (read in full...)
Guilt about cheating...
Q. Can a relationship survive one partner's guilt over being unfaithful, and keeping it a secret? Will our relationship be able to grow and survive if I don't tell my partner that I cheated on her and vow to myself to keep it a secret forever and never ...
A. 30 July 2010: It will be easier to tell your partner that you cheated and share your burden. You will feel good and lighter. But then your partner will have weight on her shoulders. So, basically you will punish her for what you have done.
Another perspect... (read in full...)
I feel I just can't say no...
Q. I'm a male and after a divorce I didn't want to have sex with a woman again. I didn't believe I was gay but was followed home when leaving a rest area. The guy followed me home and right into my apartment without an invitation. I had heard stories ...
A. 30 July 2010: You are letting yourself get used.
Move your residence and dont let anyone know. Change your phone number. Get out of the situation.
Secondly, you enjoy doing what you do with your sex life. Dont think too much about it and go with what you wa... (read in full...)
I had an affair and I feel I can't escape it
Q. i really need some advice...i was involved in a an affair a couple of months ago with someone close to my husband...i ended it because i knew i was doing wrong..my husband really loves me and honestly i dont know why i did it...well maybe because i ...
A. 30 July 2010: I feel sorry that instead or feeling your pain many people on the board are beating you up. They are entitled to their thoughts and wishes. I respect that.
But if you truly want an unbiased advice go to a marriage counselor yourself, alone. N... (read in full...)
Husband cheated and staying in the marriage only for the kids
Q. My husband cheated on me and he is staying in our marriage because of the kids only and he thinks maybe later his feelings for me will come back. He said his affair is over but they still communicate but says they dont cross the line anymore. Weve ...
A. 30 July 2010: Talking to someone close or someone who is an elder will help you. Dont ride the wave alone. Take someone in confidence. Someone who is qualified..not a close friend because close friends will generally give one-sided advice.... (read in full...)
I had an affair and I feel I can't escape it
Q. i really need some advice...i was involved in a an affair a couple of months ago with someone close to my husband...i ended it because i knew i was doing wrong..my husband really loves me and honestly i dont know why i did it...well maybe because i ...
A. 30 July 2010: Hi! You are a kind hearted soul. You love your husband and thats the most important thing. We, humans, make mistakes to learn from them. We are not perfect and that is the reason we are born...to learn..to improve. There is no learning without going ... (read in full...)
Husband cheated and staying in the marriage only for the kids
Q. My husband cheated on me and he is staying in our marriage because of the kids only and he thinks maybe later his feelings for me will come back. He said his affair is over but they still communicate but says they dont cross the line anymore. Weve ...
A. 30 July 2010: I am sorry about your situation. Perhaps a counselling will help you both. You may want to start with just for yourself to get help in preserving (growing) your self-esteem and strength. It will also help you discover what sparked your relationship ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to have a fantasy like this?
Q. So ive had a fantasy of hooking up with a random guy, not for sex, but for oral and stuff, and like, meeting him in a club or somewhere and doing stuff like that somewhere risque. Is it bad to have a fantasy like this? Is it unhealthy or healthy to ...
A. 29 July 2010: Personally I think there are no issues with your fantasy and you can act them out safely. Life is meant to be an experience. Just be safe.... (read in full...)
Two days after anal sex and I'm still bleeding. Is this normal?
Q. I tried anal sex for the first time with my bf, and it hurt so I told him too pull it out even before it got all the way in. When I got home, and used the restroom -number2- I realized my anus was bleeding. This is the second day that it's been ...
A. 29 July 2010: Ouch! This fantasy is supposed to be pleasurable. Pain and bleeding indicate incorrect approach.
It will get well in a few days if you take care. If not then it will take weeks to heal and will hurt.
You may have ruptured the veins inside. He... (read in full...)
My husband is lying about his porn emails!
Q. I have found items on my husbands email that are porn. I asked him about this and he sweetly told me I was wrong that he ordered some inhancment drug and started getting these after that. But I found an email for an account before. I am so upset. I ...
A. 29 July 2010: Hey sis, your man may have a higher desire for sex. Watching occasional porn is alright. Masturbation and releasing energy buildup is good for his health and mood.
And he may be right about spam porn emails. One mistake of giving your email ad... (read in full...)
Why will my wife not have sex with me more often?
Q. Why my wife won't have sex with me more often? We've been married for five years and together for six, apart from the first heat when we've met, she never asks or offers to make love! and when I ask or make a move she says why? it's like a chor...
A. 29 July 2010: Oh man! If she has suggested to see a doc for counselling, then it is the best ting to do. Go for it. You will really uncover the true reasons behind this and will get a real good advice on how to fix it.
I pray that everything resolves well for... (read in full...)
Can men stay without having sex with their wives for 3 to 4 weeks?
Q. can you please tell me can men stay for a long time i mean like 3 or 4 weeks without having sex with his wife? is this true can man stay without touching his wife for more than 3 weeks as my husband never keep attention on me why is that? is that ...
A. 29 July 2010: Simple answer is Yes. He can go without touching you in any way whatsoever for months.
Job stress and busy lives are the most common reasons why people lose interest in each other. If he is not having intimacy with you, it does not mean that he ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to see how nasty he is when depressed?
Q. Mod note: OP'S own title: My partner gets very down and can be very nasty about simple things. I mentioned that I would like to take my son, 12, camping for a couple of nights. He started telling us off and saying how ridiculous this was and how ...
A. 29 July 2010: Hi, try to get some counseling for him. A good tactic would be to go for counseling for yourself first and then invite him in. Hope it works out for you.
I pray that everything works out well for you and your husband.... (read in full...)
Sexual problems In third year marriage
Q. MODS NOTE: OP's own title: I have been married for three years now I have two daughters, one is 20 months and the second one is only four months. Our first year married was awesome, we went out, we had fun, we made love often, even more than twic...
A. 29 July 2010: Hey there. This seems like a common complaint among men. I fully understand you and sympathize with you.
Generally women's libido goes downhill after bearing children. So, can't help it there.
Firstly, try not to set expectations with your wi... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't find me attractive!
Q. My husband and I have been married for nearly four years and were together a year before that; my husband is 32 and I'm 25. In most aspects of our lives we are happy together - alot of things seem to be falling into place recently. But unfortunat...
A. 28 July 2010: Hey, your problem seems so much like mine. The only difference is that I am a man and I get the treatment from my wife (like your husband does with you).
Just like you I take care of myself byt getting dressing up well, maintaining good hygiene ... (read in full...)
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