He keeps asking me if I love him...
Q. He asks, seems like every time we are together, if I love him....
A. 20 April 2005: Has he got a reason to be worrying? If not, then say he will have if it goes on, cos it's driving you mad. And if he loves you for you then he should know that you truly do. If you have not been together long then he's more than likely afraid ... (read in full...)
Could the grass really be "greener"..?
Q. I am with a boy but I really like someone else. I don't know what to do....
A. 20 April 2005: It's not fair to keep this guy you're with hanging on! You're doing him more of a favour letting him go to move on. It's making you unhappy too, so tell him I'm so sorry but it's over, babe. By staying together it's just prolonging things. The ... (read in full...)
Looking for suggestions to drive my b/f wild...
Q. I want to keep my boyfriend excited in bed. What are some things that drive guys wild?...
A. 20 April 2005: Try to find out more about what really turns him on? blindfolds,handcuffs,oils,porn. Try the lot and have lots of fun. Dirty talking always works. ... (read in full...)
I have a lunch date with my ex, but I can't help wondering if she wants to get back together...
Q. Hello, About 4 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of two years. Recently she called me to talk as she was stressed about something. While we were talking she told me about a guy she is dating and she said it was not serious and they don't t...
A. 13 April 2005: This guy shes with is not all she needs, by the sound of it. If you want her back then tell her. It's not fair to put you in the middle of all the problems she has with him. That must be hard, to sit there and listen to it. Keep away if she like... (read in full...)
What's going on with my foreskin?
Q. I am 17 years old, when I get an erection the head of my penis will not come out of my foreskin Is this normal?...
A. 13 April 2005: Yes best to take a trip to the doctor's just to be on the safe side. Don't worry, the doctor won't even bat a eyelid. I'im sure he's seen plenty before. You're only young and you want to be enjoying yourself without this worry. And remember, always... (read in full...)
I want to be myself, but I still want boys to notice me... How do I do that?
Q. Hey! I am really annoyed because no boys seem to be remotely interested in me. I don't really flirt though and am still in school. It is weird because I don't really want a boyfriend yet, just to be liked by someone nice. I really like this boy in...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi, you're right, Missy; just be yourself. Don't try to be anything other than that. Boys when they're still at school don't look at girls for who they really are. They just want 9 times out of 10 what's in your pants. As they get older they star... (read in full...)
We've only been together for 6 months, but our sex life is getting routine already!
Q. I suffer from agoraphobia and live on the outskirts of a city. I find it very hard to go out and get quite depressed. I suffer from anxiety most days. Yet, I still am positive, try to do all I can and make the most of what I have got. I am worried ...
A. 13 April 2005: I agree with the person who answered your question all the answers are there with in your letter. you need to take a long hard look at your life and ask yourself do you want to live like this? I reckon that's a big no my friend. Start with askin... (read in full...)
Need tips for new and exciting sex!
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my partner have been having sex for about 6 months now and it's no long exciting or fun...what could I do to make it more interesting and fun for him..? He likes freaky things, so what could I do that is freaky yet comfortabl...
A. 13 April 2005: if he likes to be handcuffed or tied up and your not in to that then just do it to him.dont do nothing you dont want.agree to try but stop as soon as you want!if he loves you he will be happy to go along with that ok. ... (read in full...)
He just won't open up and tell me stuff, like I tell him! Is he out of love with me?
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for just over seven months now, and I tell him everything. I confide in him and tell him all of my emotions and things. I see him as someone I can tell anything to, and that he is like my best friend. The only thi...
A. 9 April 2005: I know how you feel babe. I have the same problem with my man. He loves me, he says we even have a child together. He won't open up, but to be honest I think it's just a man thing. I've asked him why; he says that real men dont talk about thing... (read in full...)
Eleven years together & we're talking babies, but he doesn't recognise my needs. Can we save things?
Q. I've been with my partner for 11 years and feel that he doesn't read my body language or recognise my needs. (my first love). We are thinking of starting a family but I think if I'm not happy now, how will a child make it any better? Can we ...
A. 9 April 2005: Children do not make things better,as lovely as they are. It's hard work and you need to be very happy to cope. Sort it all out first, I say. If you want to stay with your man for good. You will always have a bond if you have a child but will yo... (read in full...)
He knocked me back for sex, 'cause we agreed to wait... but I'm horny!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a month. So far he really likes me, he buys me things, calls me Princess etc. But we planned on waiting for sex and last night I wanted him so bad, but he shot me down. Now I feel terrible for trying. I don't want to ...
A. 9 April 2005: If he's knocked you back then he must really like you or he has a girlfriend! Guilty or a nice bloke? If he is a nice bloke then it's worth the wait. Other than that maybe he has a problem, like maybe he hates his body. Make him feel nice, cared... (read in full...)
The big question: what is love?
Q. How do you know when your in love? I thought I was in love with a girl, then I met another girl and thought I fancied her, but what atually is love and when do you know you're IN love?...
A. 9 April 2005: Oh my friend, when you're in love you know about it. It can be the best feeling in the world and the worst. It drives you crazy, can't think straight, only when you're gonna see that person again. I think if you left that girl to be with a other she ... (read in full...)
If I tell her my true feelings about her, I risk losing her friendship... but I want her to know!
Q. I have fallen in love with one of my best friends, but she does not know how I feel for her. We are both 17 and go to the same sixth form college. My feelings for her have grown over time, and I want to tell her how I really feel. I wish that th...
A. 9 April 2005: No, not if you want to stay friends. One of so-called best mates done that to me knowing full well I had a man and was happy. After, things were awful with us. I felt so uneasy around him after that and she will be the same I'm pretty sure. I... (read in full...)
Without a word of warning, she broke up with me. Now she won't tell me why!
Q. I need help. My girlfriend of 17 months has said that she don't want to see me anymore out of the blue. I have asked to speak her, she has said no. I have emailed her and she has not replied. I can't eat or sleep. I'm gonna get ill. Help, I don't ...
A. 9 April 2005: It hurts, don't it!! Well don't make yourself ill. If she loves you she will contact you. Give her space. In time she will see what she's missing. That's if you was good to her. Don't, whatever you do, keep texting and calling, or she will see you ... (read in full...)
Two years of sex with my partner and I'm not pregnant. Could I be infertile?
Q. I am a 22yr old female with a 4yr old daughter. I have been with my current partner for 2yrs but haven't caught pregnant. I have slept with someone else before him and wonder if it's possible that I may be infertile all of a sudden??? Or maybe it...
A. 9 April 2005: Hi I know how you feel. I had the same trouble happen to me with my now ex partner. Every month my period came and I got more and more upset thinking I had some thing wrong. Like you, I also had a child from my ex husband. Two years passed and he ... (read in full...)
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