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writes: I've been with my partner for 11 years and feel that he doesn't read my body language or recognise my needs. (my first love).We are thinking of starting a family but I think if I'm not happy now, how will a child make it any better?Can we rectify this?I always wanted to have one love only forever, we have come this far, can we save it? or should I cut my losses? Scary decision! Reply to this Question
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reader, misty +, writes (9 April 2005):
Children do not make things better,as lovely as they are.It's hard work and you need to be very happy to cope. Sort it all out first, I say. If you want to stay with your man for good.You will always have a bond if you have a child but will you always have his love and support cos you will need a lot of that? If you're not the littlest bit sure then wait.
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