My co-worker is in a relationship, but it still feels like there's an attraction between us!
Q. I am a single guy between relationships (understatement!) and have become very attracted (also an understatement!) to a woman at work. The problem is that she is in a long term relationship, and yet, even allowing for the typical male tendency to ...
A. 31 October 2005: From a girl's perspective.... it is really easy for us to flirt with a guy and even possible be attracted to others when we have a boyfriend, but very rarely will we act on it if we are involved. My advice is to just stay her friend and get over ... (read in full...)
My ex is looking for a woman nearer to his own age, but he still wants me close, too...
Q. I have been seeing a younger man for 4 months. He broke up with me to find a more age appropriate woman. Yet he keeps calling me and wanting to see me and have me in his life. He says I am his best friend, that I am nicer to him, and that he enjoys ...
A. 31 October 2005: The next time you talk to him.... be straight up with him... ask him if you two are ever going to get back together. If the answer is no, then stop talking to him. It is never good to keep in contact with someone you break up with right after a ... (read in full...)
Two guys, neither wants what I want right now. Do I wait or carry on?
Q. Hi, I am a 28year old girl and have been seeing a fantastic 37 year old man for the last 2-1/2 years and had a really great time with him. The problem being this man does not want the whole marriage and kids thing and just wants to have a good time ...
A. 31 October 2005: Don't settle with someone just because you are having fun... if he doesn't want what you do, then leave him. You may hurt him but it is just hurting you now to be with someone who isn't ready for what you are. Now the married man, if he is saying ... (read in full...)
No "I love you", even after 9 months. Is he scared?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months now. I think I love him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Why hasn't he said I love you yet? Does he expect me to say it first or is he scared? He was previously in a long term rel...
A. 31 October 2005: Well being in a relationship for three years and depending upon how it ended could have a lot to due with this. If he got emotionally hurt then he may be scared to just open up and let someone know his true feelings again. If you geninuely love him ... (read in full...)
My husband has a double-life, another woman and another child!
Q. Hi, I am in the biggest dilemma of my life and need some help. I am 26, Indian, female. I had an arranged marriage 7 years ago when this really sweet guy from UK came to my house in UK and said he wants to marry me with his family. He seemed r...
A. 31 October 2005: You do not deserve any man to treat you like this. I understand there is a child in the equation and that can often make things complicated, but what kind of life is this for her?? Seeing her mother unhappy and later on somehow finding out her dad ... (read in full...)
I gave him lavish gifts when we were a couple. If he leaves, shouldn't he give them back?
Q. I am a 23 year old gay male. My best friend and I (since we were six) decided to become boy friends about 6 months ago after five years of relationships with others that never worked because we found we were looking for each other in our partners. ...
A. 31 October 2005: No man should ever tell you "we can get back together if you can prove to him you are with him." You know your own self worth and it should never be decided by another. This guy ended things with you and that was his decision and honestly it sounds ... (read in full...)
My boyfrriend has dumped me twice, because he wants to try dating others...
Q. I'm 20 years old and I've been dating the same guy for the past two years. We are normally very happy and have an awesome time together. However, 2 months ago, we broke up because he was scared he was never going to date anyone besides me. After 2 ...
A. 31 October 2005: You don't deserve to be toyed with and although you may love him and care about him, you should be with someone who wouldn't break up with you for anything in the world. Granted we all make mistakes from time to time and make bad judgements,he had ... (read in full...)
How can I not be "the same woman" he fell in love with?
Q. I have been with my man for almost 2 years. For the first 13 months it was long distance then me and my oldest son who is 4 moved in with him. Then we found out we were pregnant. The baby is now 3 months old, we just bought a new house, he has a new ...
A. 31 October 2005: If you are genuinely concerned that you might be suffering from post-partum depression, then you should seek medical assistance as soon as possible. Now to address your next question.... you need to talk to him.... ask him how he feels as though you ... (read in full...)
Why am I such a nasty bitch to my friend? Can I stop it?
Q. Hi, I know this might sound pathetic but, I have 2 best friends. One of them I can be nasty to at times - in fact most of the time - and she's a real good friend for coping with me. But I want to stop being this nasty bitch. I have tried so hard to ...
A. 31 October 2005: I think sometimes it can be easy to be rude or "bitchy" to other females, especially ones that you know will cope with it, and as you said, you know this friend will cope with it. My advice to you is anytime you are getting ready to say something ... (read in full...)
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