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writes: I have been with my man for almost 2 years. For the first 13 months it was long distance then me and my oldest son who is 4 moved in with him. Then we found out we were pregnant. The baby is now 3 months old, we just bought a new house, he has a new job and I just started working; however our relationship is very rocky right now. He says he wants space because I am not the woman he fell in love with. I need help because he doesn't treat me the same either. He used to tell me how beautiful I was and how I was everything to him. Now all I get is a hug or kiss before he goes to work. I don't know what to do. I think I might be also suffereing from post-partum depression. Ccan you help me?
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reader, MissMariah1984 +, writes (31 October 2005):
If you are genuinely concerned that you might be suffering from post-partum depression, then you should seek medical assistance as soon as possible. Now to address your next question.... you need to talk to him.... ask him how he feels as though you have changed. If he can't come up with a lagitumate answer and give you reasons on how you have changed, or if you don't agree with him, then maybe it is him that has changed and not you. I find it hard to believe that a person can change so drastically that one may seek space from the other. Just talk to him and see if his point of view is worth exploring and if its not, then loose him because no man is worth telling you you are not good enough. Hope everything works out xoxoxo Mariah
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