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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months now. I think I love him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Why hasn't he said I love you yet? Does he expect me to say it first or is he scared? He was previously in a long term relationship in which lasted 3 years; could this be the reason? I just want to know that he cares but how do I get him to tell me? Please help!!!
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reader, kayla  +, writes (4 November 2005):
 When the time comes I think he will tell you if he loves you. I f he doesn't tell you then maybe the time isn't right for him or maybe he doesn't fell the same way about you. Tell him how you feel and see what he says.Good Luck
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reader, caffeinequeen +, writes (31 October 2005):
Does he prove his love to you? Are his actions respectful and loving? Is he saying " I Love You " by the way he treats you? Then you are very lucky.Maybe he loves you but can't express it. You could write him a romantic note and leave it somewhere for him to read alone.This way, you set up the mood for sharing romantic thoughts.If he has time to read it alone, he won't have the pressure to answer you right away,it will give him time to come up with a romantic gesture. Then,you will see how comfortable he is with communicating his feelings verbally.Depending on his reaction, you can decide whether or not you are ready to say" I love you ". Good luck!
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reader, MissMariah1984 +, writes (31 October 2005):
Well being in a relationship for three years and depending upon how it ended could have a lot to due with this. If he got emotionally hurt then he may be scared to just open up and let someone know his true feelings again. If you geninuely love him though then tell him..... Life is too short to not tell people how much they mean to you each and everday. By telling him first this could open the window for him to tell you.... and if he doesnt then at least you can talk to him and find out what he really feels and what is going on with him That is the only way to find something out.... to talk good luck xoxoxo mariah
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