My ex distanced himself from me, is this because he took interest in another girl?
Q. Hey. I'm almost 18 and I was with this guy for a year almost. He was the nicest, sweetest guy at first and we had such a laugh. He made me so happy. Anyway we argued a lot, he didn't like me speaking to other guys and would always question w...
A. 18 July 2011: Since you're 18 now, read the book, Why Men Love Bitches. It basically talks about what the last comment discussed. I totally agree. You shouldn't give him the time of day. When my ex's womanizing bf finally got a girlfriend, he got left in the ... (read in full...)
Where have all the genuine people gone?
Q. So I clicked article just above the box I'm currently writing in, I believe RANT is the more appropriate word, but it's the nearest thing. So recently, over the past few months, I've noticed a huge change in a LOT of people. I don't know whether ...
A. 15 July 2011: Similar crap happens at college and even the workplace! Just do you and at your HS reunion in 10 yrs, you'll see those so called cool people are obese, under educated, losers. I'm not joking!! Be true to yourself. You sound like a very insightful ... (read in full...)
At times I just feel like I should just let myself be used, but at least then I'll have somefriends...
Q. dear Cupid, I have a problem finding quality friends. It seems with in my circle of aquaintances of people I know the drama queens, mooches/users,pill poppers,selfish,materialistic, boastful/self important and just the average jerk seem to have all...
A. 15 July 2011: I went through a similar issue at different turning points in my life. After college, I saw my so called friends as just ppl who used me to help them study. I couldn't believe ppl I helped out so much, who pretended to be so grateful and friendly, ... (read in full...)
Is the ex just bitter or is he a lying cheat?
Q. hi yeah how are yeas ok im 20 and my bf is 25 we have been going out for almost a year. He left his pregant gf for me well anyways she was angry at the break up and she said he was a cheat he said she just saying that cos she's p****ed so fast ...
A. 15 July 2011: A man who bashes the mother of his child is trash. He banged her so she should deal with the consequences. Both you and the gf should dump him asap. ... (read in full...)
How do I prove to her that I do trust her?
Q. how can i get through to my gf that i do trust her? my gf says i give vibes of not trusting her. she says i don't trust her because im not ready to give her my cc info and car insurance info for rental cars or hotel reservations, i don't want her ...
A. 15 July 2011: You share that info when you're married or cohabitating. She's being selfish. ... (read in full...)
Hard to trust him with so much going on between him and his ex, what should I do??
Q. Hello everyone! I need opinions on this please! Is there such a thing as lying by omission or is it just flat out lying? If someone doesn't tell you ALL the facts and you find out later is that lying by omission or flat out lying? I'll give yo...
A. 13 July 2011: Why doesn't she ask her fiance for money?! This is totally absurd and you have every right to be upset. Watch them when they are hanging out. Are they making goo goo eyes? Do they have inside jokes? I would evaluate the dynamics between them. I ... (read in full...)
Am I handling this mutual breakup right? I miss him so much.
Q. We just broke up a week ago. We are both 23 and he is my first boyfriend and I am his second girlfriend. We have been dating for 3 years and to the day we broke up we were still best friends and very civil to each other and still inlove. It was a ...
A. 13 July 2011: Google baggage reclaim. It has been VERY useful to me since breaking up with my ex a few months ago. I think u did the right thing w no contact. Why should he use up your time? He would just give you false hope. I think this time off will help ... (read in full...)
I feel left out and it makes me depressed!
Q. I work at a day camp in Vancouver. I am friendly with most of the staff but I don't talk to them too much because I don't know what to say. I also have social anxiety disorder. The other staff are friendly with me but there are parties every ...
A. 13 July 2011: When u have social anxiety, sometimes its hard to read social cues and mingle with others. When you wanna approach someone, what are you feeling inside? Do you get really nervous? Sometimes when ppl get nervous/anxious, we send a vibe that others ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my teacher, who is also my step-uncle, and my friend text him to tell him! What should I do now?
Q. Okay so my dad he divorced my mom 8 years ago and well...he married a woman last month but they've been dating for like 7 years. Her younger brother is my science teacher at school. I didn't know at first. I knew it when I saw him at Helen's ...
A. 13 July 2011: Any guy who is old enough to be your dad( because I have met 13 yr old parent), its soo wrong. Tell him it was just a prank. And he said in case he needs your help?! Very unprofessional. Its fine to crush on older guys but you're just a teen. ... (read in full...)
How do I break things off without hurting her, so we can just be friends again?
Q. Okay, so I'm dating this girl, lets call her Jessica* who used to be my best friend, we just took it a little further. In the begging I was madly in love with her, then Jake* asked her out and she got all excited and said yes and they started going ...
A. 13 July 2011: Hi
I think she may be treating you like insurance or Plan B. There are girls who treat their male friends as pseudo bfs until the next guy comes around. It sucks that you guys might have had a passionate connection only for her to get dist... (read in full...)
It started out so great, but now I'm crying and wondering if he's going to break up with me
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, my best friend and his best friend are dating, and they hooked us up because they thought we were a lot alike. He was great to me in th beginning and even drew me a yellow rose because he knows its my ...
A. 12 July 2011: I agree with the other post that you should be happy he didn't lead you on for longer than he already did. It seems he left you fragile so my advice is to do things that make you happy. A man can't be your source of happiness because even Prince ... (read in full...)
Will he ever leave her for me or am I just being selfish ?
Q. I realize how this all sounds and I know the easy answer will be leave him; but I need some honesty. I have been dating a guy 10 yrs older than me for a year now. We met at work, planned to hook up once and that's it. Somehow once became twice, an...
A. 12 July 2011: So this other girl is what, 19?! You're in your late 20s and this jerk is a middle aged man!! He is TRASH! He is using both of you for his own selfish needs. Yes it hurts but the longer you wait, the more you are prolonging the pain. I dated an ... (read in full...)
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