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Why does he keep staring at me?

Q.   Hi. There's this guy at school that i have a crush on. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend so i haven't been able to ask him out. So i try to avoid him as much as possible like...

A.   5 April 2009: he could have changed his mind ir hes trying to figure out if her likes you my boyfriend was like this he sed he wudnt go out with me n then asked me out a month later just give him some time to figure out but dont try and flirt with him after all ... (read in full...)

Will this stop her from being pregnant?

Q.   We have had lots of problems, all of them stopped =]. Last night we had sex for our first time and we were drunk, i came in her but she is on birth control, will this stop her from being pregnant? She had just got off her period the day before and ...

A.   29 March 2009: birth control shoulf of worked but its not 100 % effective also its really unlikey if she just got off her period as the release of the egg is normally day 14-17 of the menstrual cycle... (read in full...)

Does anyone else have this same problem like me?

Q.   Ok so obviously I know the response I am going to get from people are either "get over it", "seek counselling" or "everyone has them". However my question is more for the later. I am black, I have stretch marks all over my butt cheeks, other th...

A.   28 March 2009: i do im 13 and i had an underactive thyroid so i put on weight really quickly and even now ive lost the weight and im a soze 10 i have really bad strech marks on the inside of my legs and im white and they're still really noticiable and there hard ... (read in full...)

I really like him but all he talks about is HER!

Q.   I really like this guy but he already has a girlfriend. I want him so badly! When I talk to him all he really cares about is her! I know that makes him sound like a jerk but he's really nice guy. I want to go out with him but I don't want to break ...

A.   27 March 2009: can i just say how does he sound like a jerk coz hes talking about her she his girlfriend after all and it makes him sound really nice and also shes your best friend HE'S OFF LIMITS HES TAKEN jsut back off a bit and he'll talk to you about her ... (read in full...)

Help! Boyfriend troubles

Q.   hi , 'im just wondering if i can get some advice me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now ,, but recently i've noticed him staring at other girls practically all the time and he keeps giving my girl as friends and other girls ...

A.   27 March 2009: smack him one lol but you really need to talk about it with him maybe hes jsut good friends with her and your just ebing paranoid but trust your instincts there nearly always right... (read in full...)

Life is too short for...

Q.   I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...

A.   12 March 2009: this is soo true im in year 9 now and for the past 2 years i ve been with friends who i never trusted and i had to bve fake around and i went out with all the wrong boys and only lasted like 2 weeks and had petty arguments and then i got into year 9 ... (read in full...)

It's about time I gave up on a boyfriend,; it's not for me

Q.   hi after all my rejection in the last 10 years i think i should give up on getting a boyfriend its too much of pain.there is too much competion out there .the guys i like somebody else so i don,t think is much point, any boys perfer tall,gorg...

A.   12 March 2009: not all boys are like htat trust me i thought so too then i found the most amazing guy and he accepts me for what i am he knows i wont look perfect everyday =) and he dusnt care im not one of the slimmest people in the world. i dont think ive ... (read in full...)

She never says "I love you" first, what does this mean?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 months. She got out of a long term commitment last summer that was really hard on her. We've known each other over the years and we reconnected last fall. Our relationship has moved quickly and is very ...

A.   23 February 2009: i know im in the same position with my boyfriend im always the one to say i love you first in fact army medic answered my question about my boyfriend thnx for tht by the way. but maybe shes just shy and shes scared if she tells you she loves you ... (read in full...)

All my friends have boyfriends, I feel so unloved because I never had one!

Q.   I feel so left out! All of my friends yes all of them have boyfriends and I don't and I've never had a boyfriend. It's never really bothered me before but it's really starting to affect my self esteem I feel that it has to be something physically ...

A.   22 February 2009: love comes when you least expect it thats so true dont concentrate on finding a boyfriend just live your life. i was like you looking for a boyfriend and i could never find one and i thought i was really ugly all the time and then i just went right ... (read in full...)

Why can't women just say no?

Q.   im new and im pretty horrified at some of these stories, why is there never a lack of lerking guys waiting to take advantage of these younger and somtimes underage women, its like theres a perv lerking in every family, on every street waiting to ...

A.   13 February 2009: i know i said no i was very nearly raped when i was young by a friend i punched him in the face when he tried needless to say he left me alone and then a caretaker locked me in a classroom but i managed to get out i agree some women and girls are ... (read in full...)

14 in love with 31 year old!

Q.   i am in a secure unit and there is this one woman called angela and omg she is stunning i mean i am head ova heels in love but she is about ten years older than me and she has just dropped a bombshell on me she is leaving i am broken hearted ...

A.   13 February 2009: whats a secure unit??... (read in full...)

First date! Any tips?

Q.   Hi Ive asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips?...

A.   13 February 2009: i mgoing for a date to the cinema tomorro lol but its not my fist date with him. just be yourself thats what i like the best in guys that i go out with ... (read in full...)

Love at first sight - do you believe?

Q.   do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...

A.   12 February 2009: no i dont i used to but then i started going out with my boyfriend and its like hes perfect for me but before we went out he was my best friend but he anoyed me but even now after we've been going out for 8 months my heart still skips a beat when i ... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as "love of your life"?

Q.   How many of you believe ,that there is such a thing ,as ''love of your life' ''soul mates'' And so on... I thought I live with one of this, but I'm not sure if I just want to force this on me, or it is true. It seems to fall apart but I'm stil...

A.   12 February 2009: of course but you have to make sure its love and not lust its soo easy to confuse the two some times. lust is intense but it only lasts for a short period of time love is when you know the other persons flaws but accept them ... (read in full...)

How can I not fall for him?

Q.   Hi! I guess I get easily emotionally attached to people because I kissed a player type guy at a party and now he is all I think about. While we were kissing, he kept touching my boobs and put my hand down his pants. I knew that I really shouldnt ...

A.   11 February 2009: leave him well alone. my friend went through exactely the same thing me n our ova m8 tried to tell ehr that he was a player, now ont get me wrong this guy is one of the nicest friends you'll eva hav, but he hooked up with my m8 n then a different m8 ... (read in full...)

Why is love hard?

Q.   Okay this is not a question I just want an opinion. Why is love hard? Well my opinion is that love isn't hard its only something dificult to understand. Many people think that love is something u could find easily and live it without getting hurt. ...

A.   11 February 2009: i know its so complicated ive got the most amazing boyfriend who never pressures me into anything and i love him so much and our relationship is based a lot on trust and all htat (he was my best m8 b4 we started going out) but our friend she really ... (read in full...)

We have been dating for the past weeks but I don't feel attracted to him, what should I say?

Q.   I recently started going out with a guy who I have known for a few years and who has always been a great friend of mine. A few weeks ago, he asked me out, and it sounded like a good idea to me becuase I have always really liked him. As we have been ...

A.   11 February 2009: i did this. i went out with one of my best friend it was so awkard so i ended up finishing him but on the good side him and me are so close now. i'd say if your not attracted to him finish it theres no point going out with someone that you dont ... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose her as a friend by dating her with the possibility of a break up! Please help!!!!!

Q.   Alright i have a few questions.... i have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. we have alot in common, and i have the sence that she likes me to. she is always giving me random hugs and what not. so i think its ...

A.   9 February 2009: DO IT if you dont you'll regret it you've only got one life you might as well live it. and if you break up you might still be m8s my ex is one of my best m8s and we're even closer now than before we went out. and a friendship is one of the best ... (read in full...)

Best kind of venues for a first date?

Q.   What are some good places to go on you first date with a guy you really like?...

A.   9 February 2009: cinema ? cafe ? town i went to a like a park kinda thing for my first date with my boyfriend it was brilliant but its up to andd what you like.... (read in full...)

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