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What would you make him do to win you back?

Q.   This will be really long and complicated because I am afraid if I don't explain it right then I will get advice when people still just don't understand and I'm getting enough of that as it is. I'm 16, so is my boyfriend, it's been six months. ...

A.   24 March 2009: boy what a nasty emotional situation your in. you want to know what to do to win him back. if it was me id be really pissed that he was that much into my friend, he must be in love with this girl. Ive only had my breath taken away by one man, and ... (read in full...)

He lies about small things, what else does he lie about??

Q.   MY bf of one year lies to me. Its only small lies like, im going to bed now when he is playing on his playstation and things like im now at work when he isnt. Just silly little things. The other day he lied to my face, even though he knew that i was ...

A.   14 December 2008: Wow! how many lies do you have to listen to before you realise that hes gonna keep on lying. Little lies, big lies, they are all the same. If anyone can, lie well then it doesnt stop at little lies. Move on, youre young you should be happy and not ... (read in full...)

Am I right to feel angry and frustrated???

Q.   My husband is healthy and does not have any reason for his lost sex drive. It makes me very frustrated, as if I would know he is sick, I would help him and understand him. I would never let him down... This way, I don't know what to think and makes ...

A.   14 December 2008: Im not sure how long you have been married or how good his sex drive was, but I do think that this has to be talked about as you dont sound happy with the loss of an intimate relationship. I really can understand your frustration, only you can ... (read in full...)

Threesome with girlfriend and her brother?

Q.   Hello, I've been with my G/F for a long time and have always found her and her brother to have an awkward but really good relationship. Everyone thinks so too that know them. She is older than him and when asked about their relationship wit...

A.   14 December 2008: Hmm! I'm not sure if the "turn on" is just for you or your girlfriend as well. I think it is a taboo subject and I think you should tread very carefully if you talk to your girlfriend about this. Brothers and sisters can have a very open ... (read in full...)

Should I text him to say I miss him?

Q.   Hi Aunts/Uncles I went out with this guy for a month in September, things were amazing, I really liked him and lost my virginity to him. It was my first proper relationship. We broke up just after we turned one month, he dumped me by text and stil...

A.   17 November 2008: Dont do it honey! If he missed you he would be with you now. Move on and get someone who is worth it. I can understand that youre feeling that you want him back, but youve tried and it hasnt worked. Forget him, theres many more good men out there.... (read in full...)

Can a cheater/liar ever change?

Q.   My husband and I have been together for 17 years, it has been a rough 17 years as he first cheated on me during our dating period. He even thought the girl was the girl of his dreams and moved out for a while. I having faith, took him back as we ...

A.   17 November 2008: Hmmmm, what are you thinking!! Let him go and get youself a new life that has happiness and trust. I, and I think many women wouldnt be treated like a door mat. The most important thing in a marriage is trust and respect, none of which youre man ... (read in full...)

I feel very lonely and depressed, scared to tell my boyfriend, as I fear his rejection!

Q.   Hello this is kind of long but I really need help. I have never been a needy person, one year ago I move to this country, to USA, because I received a job offer just out of college. I got the job of my dreams, and profesionally I feel very we...

A.   1 October 2008: I really think you should talk to your boyfriend, but I wouldnt let him know how insecure you really are. I dont think you should leave him as that would make you much more depressed. Maybe some counselling would help you at this point in your life. ... (read in full...)

We took a break during which I had sex with two guys. Should I tell him or not? He said he would not talk to me if I did this!

Q.   ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month but we're really serious im in college and i stay with him... we are so in love..but, we recently took a break and i had sex with 2 other guys...1 which i regret and the other i'm happy it ...

A.   1 October 2008: Hmm! I dont understand how anyone who claims to love each other and have only been dating for a month would have a break!!! Why was the break, and who suggested it? If it was my man who wanted a break after only a month and he claimed to love me, ... (read in full...)

I can't imagine leaving my family and mainly my son, but I desperately want to be with this other woman-Can I have advice please?

Q.   I have been married for the past 9 years and, like many others I'm sure, the past few years have been rocky ones. I have always done everything in my power to make my wife happy. We have moved 3 times to different homes because she wanted bigger ...

A.   30 April 2008: Maybe your interest in the other woman is due to the fact that you and youre wife are arguing over money matters and the lack of a sexual relationship. I can understand that having someone on the outside giving attention and the loving that you are ... (read in full...)

How do you know when you're going to be with someone forever????

Q.   How do you know when your going to be with someone forever????...

A.   27 March 2008: You cant know if your going to be with someone forever, but what you can know is that how willing you are to try and work together to make sure that happens. When we fall in love we all think that he/she is the one you want to spend the rest of your ... (read in full...)

My so called "friends" are making my life a misery, what can I do to stop this?

Q.   Just under a year ago, me and my best friends of years (all the way through first and middle school) kind of got to the point where we weren't good friends anymore. I would get left out a lot and when I spoke to them about it, it was just a joke to ...

A.   5 March 2008: A lot of bullying, which is what they are doing to you, comes out of jealousy. To them you are either prettier, more confident or smarter or all three. You seem to be doing the right thing by ignoring them, but have you asked them what their problem ... (read in full...)

Sexually inhibited...

Q.   Can some one please help, I am sexually inhibited, my husband is the best lover, he knows me well, but when it comes to talking to him about sex, my wants, desires, fantasies, I clam up and my brain goes into shut down. I do have fantasies in m...

A.   5 March 2008: The short answer that I have for you is, write it all down then leave the letter/note around so that he can find it, he may find this quite a turn on reading your thoughts, and then he will do the prompting when it comes to the bedroom. Give it a ... (read in full...)

At what age does a woman reach her sexual prime?

Q.   I have a question about a the sexual prime for woman. At what age does a woman reach her sexual prime? During this period of her life does she tend to want and or have sex more? During this time is sex more enjoyable for her? During this time is the ...

A.   3 March 2008: Im a 39 year old woman and I have been told that a woman hits her prime at 30. From my experience sex does become more passionate, maybe because when a woman hits her 30's she is more confident and knows what and how she wants it. Yes I do think ... (read in full...)

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