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I feel like my parents are taking over my life sometimes

Q.   My parents are driving me crazy!!! They hardly ever even let me out of the house and if they finally say yes then they're nosy about it. I know theyre my parents and they just love and care about me but it's starting to get old. I never get to hang ...

A.   28 April 2011: You are right. They are your parents and they are restricting you only because they care for you. Maybe they don't want you to go in a bad way since you are really young for all this. They know the best. You should follow their rules and when the... (read in full...)

How close can a guy be with a female friend, when in a committed relationship with another girl?

Q.   How close can a guy be to him female friends when in a committed relationship with a girl? What are the things that a boyfriend can and cannot do with female friends when he is committed to someone?...

A.   22 April 2011: Obviously not closer than he is with her girlfriend... (read in full...)

Heroin use during first 3 months of pregnancy... Should I abort?

Q.   I am 9 weeks pregnant (my first time ever, and it was unplanned), and I have an abortion scheduled for 5 days from now. Up until today, I was positive I was not going to continue with the pregnancy and was for sure going to get an abortion. Because ...

A.   22 April 2011: Am pretty sure, This have already affected your baby. If you really want a baby, and decide to go for an abortion for this one. There is a risk of you not being able to conceive throughout your lifetime or you may have recurrent miscarriages. ... (read in full...)

My wife admitted she cheated on me when we were engaged!

Q.   Hi, my wife of 6 years just confessed to me that she cheated on me while we where engaged, she said it was a one time mistake and has being faithfull since then. Am hurt and am thinking of divorce. How can i trust her again?...

A.   21 April 2011: Actually Your anger is justify. I think The moment she realised that this one was wrong i mean by cheating her fiancee she should have confessed it to you. Ok maybe then she was afraid of you breaking the alliance. Then atleast after marriage she ... (read in full...)

Guy I fooled around with from work has not responded. How do I act now?

Q.   I fooled around with a guy from work one night that I like, I waited a week to see if he'd text me but he didn't. I saw him at work again and we barely talked but had some small talk. Earlier I texted him casually but he hasn't replied. He seemed in ...

A.   21 April 2011: Actually yeah you look desperate because maybe You have starting to develop feelings for him. But What about him? I mean What you think you? Was he out with you just to enjoy or maybe he has something for you in his heart? You know what? You'r... (read in full...)

Should I consider having anal sex?

Q.   in the last year i have had twins. i love them to pieces, but being a single mother is hard. in the last 2 weeks i have had sex with 2 people. now, for the 1st time un my life, i wasnt tight downstairs. they litterally just slid it up and there was ...

A.   21 April 2011: Certainly i believed that anal is surely not love making. I have never tried anal but i have heard many cases whereby the girl who has experience it says it hurts loads and this pain is on for many days. I guess this is because of no lubrican... (read in full...)

How do I keep routineness from taking over in our relationship?

Q.   Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We have a really great relationship, with so many fun times. We even went through a year of long distance relationship, when I was at another school far away. We went through a lot. G...

A.   21 April 2011: I agree with you that at first love seems to be like a rose, full scented one. But as time passes only, its thorns is visible. Well thats quite natural and either your partner will find fault into you or you might fault in your partner after al... (read in full...)

When receiving oral sex it feels like I have to pee?

Q.   I'm having a problem with oral sex. When my girlfriend gives me fellatio it feels very sensitive and i feel like i need a wee? this has happend to me in the past on a one night stand. but never with anyone else. It is starting to cause problems ...

A.   21 April 2011: Am not really sure if it is normal for that. But i know that sometimes its mostly girls that have such types of problems. You can search on it on web or if nothing is fine, you should consult a professional... (read in full...)

Is it normal for 15 year olds to masturbate?

Q.   Ok so I'm 15 and I masturbate. I know it is perfectly naturally but I can't help but feel awful afterwards. I don't want to but I can't help it sometimes. Is it normal I know guys masturbate but is it normal for girls especially 15 year olds ? Also ...

A.   9 April 2011: Actually religiously its bad to do it. but i have heard its somehow good for the health. yes it is quite natural to do it at this age because it is this age that you became more curious about your own body and feel more attracted towards the opposed ... (read in full...)

Too many guys! And which one to choose?

Q.   Hi everyone, I am in my first year at university, and while it is going great, I am finding all the male attention a bit overwhelming. It seems every guy I talk to is interested. Currently there are two I am potentially interested in myself, while ...

A.   9 April 2011: Yeah your method is right as well and i think your second question will solve the first one to quite some extent. If you choose the player boy, that might be perfect for you in the beginning with romance (given that he is experienced being a ... (read in full...)

I'm worried that later on in life my boyfriend could become abusive

Q.   My boyfriend always treats me way good and does nice things for me but when he gets upset he kind of scares me. He has never hurt me or anything but he flips out and it gets crazy. I'm worried that when we are married he will get worse. Should I ...

A.   8 April 2011: yes you should ask him to control his anger a bit...else after marriage it might become difficult for you to cope with this..leading to various other problems... (read in full...)

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