Can you cheat in an open relationship?
Q. So I've been in a long term relationship with my partner for the past 9 years. We talk about having children one day and getting married and we already own a home together. We have an extremely happy and healthy relationship and are very open and ...
A. 14 August 2014: Hi, kind of just repeating what many others have put but yeah, there's nothing wrong with the dynamic if that's what made you both happy. But it's clear you're no longer happy with the one-sided rules. A relationship should be equal, and on both of ... (read in full...)
We are going to a costume convention and the other girl is wearing the same outfit!
Q. I need advice, though not really relationship advice. My boyfriend and I are going with a group of (his) friends to a costume convention. Think comicon if that helps. This is my first time going to one. We came up with a theme in the beginning of ...
A. 14 August 2014: You put in all the effort so enjoy yourself. This is purely your own insecurities making you feel this way, so think to yourself how good you felt when you first put the outfit together and focus on having a great time with your boyf. Yeah it's a ... (read in full...)
Can all of these negative feelings and anxiety I have be due to the fact he cheated?
Q. Hey everyone so lately I haven't been feeling like myself lately at all!. I can't sleep what's so ever at night. I'm up all hours of the thinking, worried, and stressed out over every little thing! My ex and I broke up in June due to our ...
A. 14 August 2014: It sounds like you probably are stressed out by the whole situation and it's very easy for that to keep you up at night. I know it's hard to walk away from someone when you want to make things work, it's always worth 'one last try' but then ask ... (read in full...)
I've come to a point in my life where I feel like I have no long term goals or desires. Can someone help me out?
Q. I'm at a really confusing and kinda boring stage in my life and I need some advice. I'm almost 18, and of course any young 18 year old to be should feel young and free and all of that jazz, but the thing is I feel lik...
A. 5 July 2014: Hi I'm sorry you are stuck in a rut, it is very easy to feel that way no matter what your age is. However, a kind word of advice is I do think this is very much to do with your age. You're just eager to become an adult and become independent etc ... (read in full...)
Been single for 2 months, met someone nice. Is it too soon to be venturing into something new?
Q. I am 16 years old and I think for the first time in ages I have met someone nice. So far in my life I've been in two relationships both of which have been violent, abusive and I've just been cheated on and been stupid enough t...
A. 25 August 2013: Hi there answer from a UK perspective! :) I can tell from the way you've written the question you're intelligent, articulate and it appears you're quite mature for your age, so in my mind the age gap isn't that much of an issue as the answers befo... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't do any work at home and then complains that I should help her
Q. My wife is a stay at home mom, while I work 10-12 hours a day. My wife doesn't do anything at home, I always come home to a mess. She always complains that I should help with the house work. She doesn't do laundry until it absolutely needs to be ...
A. 24 August 2013: Ok, you don't mention what age your child/ren are?
If they are very young and she is full-time caring for them then it very unreasonable for you to expect her to be juggling everything. It is not 1940, you cannot expect a mother with young ch... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't allow me any space, what should I do?
Q. At the beginning of my first year at university I split with a long term girlfriend who I had been dating since I was 14. We reasoned that it would be difficult to maintain a relationship over long distances especially in what would be a trying and ...
A. 24 August 2013: This is a really tough situation I can see you're in.
Firstly I admire you seem like a genuinely considerate and loving boyfriend and son, but it seems like your prime concern is pleasing your mother and your girlfriend (which is great!) but you ... (read in full...)
Wife had bad day at work, crying but won't tell me what happened!
Q. I need some insight into the female mind...no easy task I know. My wife comes home crying. She started a new job about 2 weeks ago. She said she had a horrible day. So I hug her and she cries. I ask whats wrong but she said she didnt want to ta...
A. 23 August 2013: you are reading into one bad evening as your wife being unfaithful and that's not a fair accusation. It may be that she is just adjusting to her new job and this is the first day things haven't gone well for her, it's obviously not going to be a ... (read in full...)
We're great together but I'm frustrated by his lack of maturity
Q. Hey guys! So me and my bf has been together for almost 2 years now and we have an amazing relationship. Hes only a year younger than me but i feel like he has so much growing up to do and it literally drives me crazy! My biggest mistake was taking ...
A. 14 April 2013: You're his girlfriend, not his carer and it's so frustrating being with someone you feel you have to look after and nag all the time! It's clear you've outgrown one another from everything you say and you do not picture a future together. Don't ... (read in full...)
Is he commitment phobic? He told me he loves me but then destroyed my trust in him. What's his problem?
Q. Hi, Would like some thoughts on the following... Dated a guy for two years and for the last seven months we have been going through a rough patch about living together. We arranged to sell our houses and live together. I sold mine first and ...
A. 14 April 2013: You come across as a rational, intelligent woman in your question who got caught up with some idiot who messed you about. You deserve a million times better than his false promises and apologies. Any person deserves honesty and respect in a ... (read in full...)
Is my ex confused about his feelings for me?
Q. Is my ex confused about his feelings for me?. One of my exes friends told me a while ago that my ex said that he regrets that we broke up and that he likes me. My ex has text me and called me sometimes, asking how i am and what i have been up to. I ...
A. 14 April 2013: Just don't go there. If you and your ex really did have serious feelings for each other it more than likely would have worked the first time around, stop playing games. Listening to rumors and confessing your feelings for each other whilst out ... (read in full...)
I'm getting frustrated with my boyfriend's girl friend but I do like her. What should I do?
Q. Argh this is a horrible question and I've been debating with myself on whether to post on it for ages now but it's just got to the point where I can feel it getting on top of me and I need someone to talk some sense to me! Basically, my ...
A. 14 April 2013: Yeah nip this in the bud now, the first answer was spot on, it's nothing to do with this girl. It's clear he's got nothing to hide and doesn't see anything wrong with his behavior. Just be direct, playfully suggest he puts his phone down a... (read in full...)
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