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*erlyn
writes:I have been married for a short time... well this is my third marriage at age 39. Won't go into the first two.My wife is deployed and I am currently out of the service by about 10 plus years. This is her first time being deployed and my first time being the one at home during a deployment.A few question have come up about our relationship and if she and I will be able to make it through this. I can't tell if she is being faithful or if it's just me being paranoid from the first two women I was married to that had no understanding of the word faithful. Should I be concerned and should I question her about it out right or slip a question in here and there. Or just let it go and see how things go when she gets home.- Me being frustrated Reply to this Question
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reader, merlyn +, writes (8 September 2007):
merlyn is verified as being by the original poster of the question a few picture were passed on to me that show her grabbing the inner thigh of one of her fellow soldiers. More closer to his groin than not. and it isn't just one picture it is 5 of them. I know what things gop on during deployment i am hopeful that it is just from past experiences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): This is a tricky one, you didnt mention why you are suspicious of her being unfaithful.
Truth is, she probably isnt but is just finding the long distance thing hard.
I understand you have been hurt in the past and may find it hard to trust but you have to give her the benefit of the doubt.
However, the longer you wonder, the more paranoid you will get. I think you should tell her how much you care about her and that you are willing to wait for her and that you hope she feels the same. Hopefully, from her response you will find an understanding into how she is feeling and maybe take the conversation from there.
Good luck with this, and remember, not everybody cheats and hopefully you have found your true love xx
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