What should I do about my husband?
Q. I have a big problem. For some reason, my husband won't tell anyone he is married. We have only been married a month. He really hurt my feelings as there is a wedding photo of us on the wall and I noticed this morning it was hidden behind som...
A. 4 July 2009: Why did you get married? Is there a reason he wouldn't want people to know you're married? Maybe that neighbor guy he trades movies with is gay and there's something going on between them. He should want to shout from the rooftops that he's ... (read in full...)
He guards his phone with his life! I'm suspicious and tempted to look through it. What should I do?
Q. I've been married to my husband for 4 years now. I trust him but his behavior with his cell phone gets me thinking. He guards his phone with his life. Wherever he goes, he takes his phone with him. Should I be concerned? I feel tempted to look ...
A. 4 July 2009: You should check it. It sounds sneaky and it is, but he's probably hiding something. Sorry guys, but you know it's true - whether it's porn, texting or calling other women or Lord knows what, it's something. My boyfriend knows I'm the jealous ... (read in full...)
Brother molested me
Q. when i was 5 years old my parents went out for a couple of hours so my oldest brother who is 14 was baby sitting me and my 6 year old brother, we were all in my parents room watching tv and my oldest brother told my younger brother to go down stairs ...
A. 4 July 2009: Yes, he absolutely can be arrested. And it sounds like he has a record already, so if you're too scared to talk to someone in your family, go to the police station and make a report. It's that serious. Let me be clear: HE IS A CHILD MOLESTER. HE ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I just exist. How can I pull my life back together so I enjoy life?
Q. Where do I begin. At the moment all I do is exist. I only have one close friend, never had a girlfriend. I sit at my computer all night because I havent got anything to do with my time. I sleep as long as possible just so I dont have to face ano...
A. 4 July 2009: You've got to shake yourself out of it. Step out of your comfort zone and I promise you won't regret it. Without knowing more details about your life here are some suggestions: start going for walks, it's not going to help you meet people but ... (read in full...)
Husband has gym addiction!
Q. My husband told me I should get a sex buddy on the side because he's not into sex for now. He insisted sex would affect his ability to do well in the gym. I asked him why, and he said there's no-one else, he's just become TOO addicted to the gym,...
A. 4 July 2009: Okay Marie, this sounds kind of weird. My first impulse is to think he's screwing some woman who goes to or works at this gym. Or he's attracted to some woman at the gym and he wants to look hot for her. Men like to have sex. Why doesn't he want ... (read in full...)
We keep calling each other for stupid things but aren't getting back together!
Q. To start off, let me tell you I am sending this from my cell phone. So I apologize for mispunctuation LOL. I'm going to make this to the point the best I can. December of 07 I start seeing a girl, never knowing she will end up being the girl I...
A. 4 July 2009: Okay, here's a woman's perspective. She's either calling you because she's bored and she knows you'll give her attention, or she's truly into you again. I can't honestly say because I don't know you or her. If you really want her back talk to her ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm going to wind up just like my sister did!
Q. k so i just turned 18 and just had a grad party and the night of my grad party my boyfriend and i had protected sex. i had my period the day before we did anything but im still really scared. i havent had my period since then and my mom found out ...
A. 4 July 2009: Okay, when was your last period? Do you keep track of them? If you took a pregnancy test and it was negative that's a good sign. But you need to figure out if you're late for your period and if so by how many days. Be proactive - maybe go get ... (read in full...)
He has left me financially insolvent and hasn't shown any affection for years.
Q. Yahoo!My Yahoo!MailMore Can anyone give me some advice? I'm a little nervous writing this because i really dont want any nasty comments just some advice please. 6 years ago I worked at the same place as my then fiancee and a good friend. I ...
A. 4 July 2009: It sounds like you unfortunately had two bad guys in row. Do you think you have a tendency to let men walk all over you? I know that sounds harsh, but if your current man isn't and hasn't been affectionate with you for a long time why are you ... (read in full...)
Does my guy friend like me?
Q. Hi I need some advice about my guy friend.I need to know if he likes me. My guy friend is really nice to me only.Well,we met through my brother at first i didnt think he liked me but he knew i liked him.So he tried to aviod me.After a few years ...
A. 4 July 2009: It definitely sounds like he's into you! Is he a nice guy? Be sure it's for the right reasons. It sounds to me that he's giving you a lot of attention which would indicate his affection or attraction for/to you. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Was he playing me all along?
Q. Hi I met this guy while on a school trip together, and we kept in contact since then. I developed a little crush on him, and when I told him he said he did like me back too, but wasn't looking for a gf since he was so close to moving away to u...
A. 4 July 2009: This guy sounds lame. Does FB mean Facebook? If so, what kind of a guy gets a 'girlfriend' in one month over the internet? I'm sorry but that's just ridiculous. If this guy really wants online love with someone who lives across the atlantic ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I am ready...
Q. I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...
A. 4 July 2009: You already know the answer to your question. You said yourself you're not sure, which means you're really not ready. It is difficult when a lot of your friends are starting to have sex and acting like it's normal and it's not a big deal, but when ... (read in full...)
I am going CRAZY. I don't want to just let go and regret it.
Q. I know this is probably a common question but I haven't been able to pinpoint a situation that I feel I can completely relate to. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now (I'm 19 and she's 24). The first half of our relation...
A. 4 July 2009: Okay, if you're 19 and she's 24 I'm assuming she has more freedom to go to bars, clubs and go out with her friends. She also has more life experience than you. Are you being clingy? You said you know for a fact that she hasn't lost interest in ... (read in full...)
How should I maintain my small figure for the duration of pregnancy?
Q. So, i'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my husband has a thing for thinner models like kate moss and the like. He once told me he married me largely because he knew I'd always be one to stay naturally slender, because of how naturally skinny...
A. 4 July 2009: I call fake post as well. And if it isn't fake here's my honest opinion: 1) Your husband sounds like a shallow jerk. Wouldn't you rather have a husband who rubs your belly and gets excited that that's his baby growing inside of you? All he c... (read in full...)
Irregularities with my period make me worry I might be pregnant after unprotected sex, what should I do?
Q. I had unprotected sex on May 25, 2009 and I got my period expectedly on June 18, 2009. But it wasn't normal; it was very light and all of the blood was brown. Now it is July 3, 2009 and I just got my period again but now my period is normal. I'm ...
A. 4 July 2009: It is always a good idea to mark your periods down on a calendar. If you don't have one at home, try doing it on your cellphone calendar or simply write it down someplace you'll always remember. The average woman's cycle is 28 days - so that's 28 ... (read in full...)
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