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... Send *aloletka a private message | | | *aloletka's profile:Hello. Three years ago i moved to the USA from Ukraine. Originally i was born in Ukraine, and English is my third language, after Ukrainian and Russian... I am engaged and will get marry in Ukraine in August 2006. Two years ago finished High School with an Gold Award.Currently going to college. I am so happy with my life... |
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Would she dump me if she knows I've never kissed anyone yet?
Q. I'm 13, 14 on the 26th. I haven't had my first kiss yet. I like this girl who's in most of my classes. She's naturally flirty around boys. I'm just wondering, if I did go out with her, I would be worried if she would dump me since I haven't had my ...
A. 22 February 2006: My first kiss was at age 18, anyways i felt so weird... He was my first boyfriend, and had more experiance... couple girls before me... Dont worry, anyways someday you gonna have your first KISS!!! Enjoy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
What age should you be to have sex the first time?
Q. Hey, I am wondering whether to have sex for the 1st time. I am 14 and so is my girlfriend. She has done it before and is kean for me to join her, but I am not entirely sure about what to do. Please help me! P.Enguin...
A. 22 February 2006: I am turning 20 in few days, and i am still virgin... and i am so happy with that... I am not counting my self as an old and unexperianced lady... i am preally young and am saving my self for the ONE who i love, for my fiance... We getting marry in ... (read in full...)
She's 16, living with and sleeping with a 28 year old man!
Q. My daughter is dating a 28yearold man she id only 16 years old they have been together for 7 months and have come to me and told me that they have been having sex and are deeply in love about 5 months ago i let her move in with him what should i do?...
A. 22 February 2006: NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry but you already did SOMETHING WRONG by letting her to move in with him... If i would do something like that, i would like my Mom, to tell me that i should do that and not let me move in with a guy who can be a father for ... (read in full...)
I am 17 and I think about having a baby, all the time. Is this normal?
Q. Im seventeen years old and i cant wait to have a child. i know im not ready for one now and im not intending on having one now. but is it normal to think about having a baby all the time? ...
A. 22 February 2006: It's normal WHEN you are married; have a good job to support your future child; have a good education (high school, and at least college...)... But if you want to be a single parent with no money, no place to live, no future... it's not a good idea ... (read in full...)
I need someone to talk to about my problems...without involving friends and family. What can I do?
Q. I need some sound advice on how to make myself feel better! I have no one to talk to, and my parents are so narrow minded they think of things too seriously, and only in ways to benefit themselves. I need to chat to someone about my problems and ...
A. 22 February 2006: Hello... I think you are too much concerned about your problems... Ofcourse i have no ideas what yours problems are, but if you will shortly describe them, we all will try to help you... You know, sometimes it's really important to hear someones... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and worried about my wedding night...
Q. Hello. I am getting married in August 2006. My question is: how to avoid first wedding night discomfort (bleeding, pain, etc...)??? At age 20, I am still a virgin (I believe in sex after the wedding) and I am so afraid of my first sex experience... ...
A. 21 February 2006: Thank you all!!! Your answers are really helpful...... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to marry the woman who's 30 years younger than me, but she says she wants me!
Q. I am 54 years old and my divorce was final at the end of June 2005 (married for 30 years). I met a 23 year old in May 2005 and we got engaged in sept 2005. She lost her father in Febuary of 2005. I think it's love but I'm not sure and I also love ...
A. 19 February 2006: O my goodness.... Are you sure that you are 54? YOu dont seem like... I think that man of your age should look for woman who is at least 40... You shouldnt look for a girl, but for a woman. Who is more mature, and who will really love you... I ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and worried about my wedding night...
Q. Hello. I am getting married in August 2006. My question is: how to avoid first wedding night discomfort (bleeding, pain, etc...)??? At age 20, I am still a virgin (I believe in sex after the wedding) and I am so afraid of my first sex experience... ...
A. 15 February 2006: Thank you so much for yours answers!!! They will be really helpful in upcoming future... I appreciate that you took your time to write me...... (read in full...)
My sister and I are very close, but she's married now and we're drifting apart. What can I do?
Q. Hello. Me and my sister are only a year apart and are really very close. However she got married a year ago and we've kinda drifted apart. She spents alot more time with her husband now and I'm getting kinda jealous. I know shes married now and I ...
A. 14 February 2006: Ooooo... That is wonderful that your sister is married. Me and my sister gonna have double wedding at the same day in August. I am so excited!!! Ok, lets back to your situation... If your sister dont have enough time to spend with you - try to find ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want kids until we are much older...how do I talk to him?
Q. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 25. He has said to me he wants to wait until we're 40 and he's 42 to have kids. When I said to him that he doesn't want children at all, he denied that, and said that he does want kids, just in later life when he's g...
A. 14 February 2006: WOW that is a problem! I have no problems with my fiance, he wants kids and he is just 22 and i am 20. I want kids too. I would be the happiest mother, and will be so happy to see my honey as a loving father...
To have kids after 40? That is not ... (read in full...)
He's a strong christian-I'm athiest. I'm not as virtuous as him..think we should date?
Q. hi, I'm 19, and at uni, and recently I've started fancying a guy on my course. I would like to move things onto the next level (ie dating), but I'm a bit worried because I'm an athiest, agnostic type, and he is very christian (he carries a pocket...
A. 14 February 2006: ...This situation is so simple: girl fall with love with a guy... But they have a different believes and different styles of life... Dont worry that much... If he like you he will try to understand you, BUT you try to understand him too... I am ... (read in full...)
Guys opinions wanted... Do you think that guys like a virgin? Or not?
Q. This question is more of a female wanting male opinions ( but all are welcome!). What do you think if a girl is a virgin? Would you less/more interested in her? What if she was a virgin but wanted to lose her virginity to you? My friends and I are ...
A. 14 February 2006: GUYS??? Maybe they just afraid to be responsible by taking someone's virginity... I think they respect her... but afraid...... (read in full...)
I feel hurt that she lost her virginity to someone else
Q. My fiance and I live on other sides of the world. We both ended up cheating on each other and she ended up losing her virginity. I dont deserve nor am proud to be upset about her cheating on me. I did deserve it. Im mostly hurt because she gave...
A. 14 February 2006: Sometimes mistakes happpens BUT we have to deal with them for the rest of our life!!! I always questioned my self, why person who is not virgin would get a virgint girl... Everyone deserves to have TO have only one, and to be the ONE FOR HER/HIM!!! ... (read in full...)
Sleeping with my best friend's boy, but now I've fallen in love with him!
Q. Somehow I've found myself in a situation where I am sleeping with my best friend/roommate's boyfriend. What should I do when I have fallen in love with him, too?...
A. 14 February 2006: Just be honest with yourself, breaking someone's happiness you wont build yours... I would prefer to die than hurt my friend... Or maybe she is not your real friend... Just be careful, maybe he is not serious about you!!! Good luck and hope u will ... (read in full...)
For my 14th birthday, my BF wants us to lose our virginity to each other, but I don't know if I'm ready...
Q. Hi everybody I am a 13 y o and turn 14 on the 20th Feb but my bf and I are going out to celebrate. We are going to a kids' nightclub and I'm really exited. He has been saving up for 5 months for my present and I am looking forward to it, but then ...
A. 14 February 2006: Hello. Dont do something about what later on you will feel sorry. Maybe he is not the "prince" of your life, and you should waste any second more on him... Virginity is really serious, and you should take it seriously... I am 20, still virgin. I ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me but wants to spend all his time with me. Make sense?
Q. What would you all make of a guy who breaks up with a girl after a year of dating but continues to want to spend all his time with her? He says he’s in love with her, and he’s not interested in dating anyone else. He calls to ask her to go to ...
A. 14 February 2006: Hello. I had the same situation. We broke up, then come together, then broke up again... What i did i said STOP, i dont want hurt my self anymore... Then i met a wonderful guy and we are getting marry this August. I am so HAPPY.
Just tell him "We ... (read in full...)
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