Boyfriend broke up with me, wants to be friends but I don't know if I can because I want to talk about what happened!
Q. My boyfriend of 3 months, dumped me yesterday. In the middle of a class, in front of quite a few people. Not sure if they heard what happened, but they were there. I left early to try and collect myself. I ended up going home and crying harder t...
A. 20 April 2010: If you do not know the reason why he dumped you, then it is easy to feel the way you do. I would suggest talking to him about it because you need closure in order to move on or at least the reason why he did what he did. It's only fair that he tells ... (read in full...)
Help!! I'm physically, spiritually, and emotionally drained from my lazy husband.
Q. My husband and I have been married for nine years and we have three wonderful kids. He works at the local sherrif's department and I work at a local lawyer's office. I work from 8:00a.m.-5:00p.m. and he works from 4:00p.m.-midnight. During the ...
A. 20 April 2010: Do you think maybe you can be a little grateful about what your hubby does do for you? Just a little? I mean he seems like a good man, he works long hours, he has medical problems and is a hard worker, he takes care of his wife and children and ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any creative ideas on how I can meet girls?
Q. Hello. I'd like help because I don't really have many good friends. I'm lonely as a result of this. Im 25 and I've never really had a girlfriend as such. I'm highly educated, successful and make a lot of money. I'm into my music, play drums and l...
A. 20 April 2010: You may have to come out of your shell a little bit. You must be confident in who you are and love yourself! You seem a little depressed but you have to look at the good side of things. Being single isn't all that bad. Being in a relationship takes ... (read in full...)
I feel that in return for having a child, he should get a vasectomy! How can I make him understand?
Q. I am 33 years old, run my own business and have been independent most of my life and need to add that am also financially independant. I am 5'3, I enjoy working out and currently got engaged to my 46 years old boyfriend. I financially take care of 3 ...
A. 20 April 2010: This sounds like a deal breaker for the both of you! It is not fair that you both put expectations on each other that you can not meet. You are asking him to have a vasectomy against his will and you seem like you are only willing to have a child ... (read in full...)
Does no sex = no relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together 10 years. She is 47, I am 36. When we first met (as is usual) we had sex frequently. Within a year of my moving in, sex became less frequent and slightly painful for her. She went to her doctor and I was...
A. 20 April 2010: First you need to find out medically why it is so painful for her. Go to the Dr with her to make sure she isnt lying to you. Get documented proof that there is something wrong with her. If there is, then you need to be supportive in getting it ... (read in full...)
She's trying to sabotage my relationship with my boyfriend! Help!
Q. I think my boyfriends' roommate who is also his best friend is trying to sabotage our relationship. We started dating a few months ago, but I have known him and his roommate for years. His roommate is a girl and we were ok friends before i started ...
A. 20 April 2010: There has to be a way to seperate all of this drama. It is going to be hard since she is his roommate and best friend. He is naturally going to defend her and it must be hard for him too because he is with you, I am sure he feels like he is in the ... (read in full...)
Can't let go of a past one night stand, he had...am I being too paranoid?
Q. I posted a similar question a few days ago but I'm still a bit confused on how to handle this situation. Sorry for the long post guys. In July last year I met two guys I was intersted in. I went out with both of them on dates, no sex or anything ...
A. 20 April 2010: You need to let go of this issue it is the past and neither of you can change it. You have to understand this all happened before you two got serious so you really can not blame him for what happened. In all fairness you were talking to two guys at ... (read in full...)
My ex says she misses me but doesn't mention reconciliation
Q. My ex has written me back again. This time telling me that she's learned a lot during the no contact period but has been missing me very much, incredibly much and is confused on whether or not talking to me will make things more or less painful. ...
A. 20 April 2010: Hi you are on a good start, missing you is a sure sign of getting back together. Give her space and time to be sure about you. Be supportive and let her know you'll always be there. She's telling you she's confused about things so let her clear ... (read in full...)
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