If my long-distance guy wants to marry me someday, why doesn't he make time to call me?
Q. im a 21 yr old girl and have been in a relation for 4 yrs...at first it was great..he was in another country then..later he moved to my city..it was great till then..last month he moved to another city ..he is having some problem with his work and ...
A. 7 November 2005: If i lived at the other side of the world from my boyfriend i would still find the time to call him on his birthday, im sorry but that isn't a good sign that somebody loves you. If he can,t manage 10 minutes out of his day to talk to you whats it ... (read in full...)
Is the fact that my husband "needs" time with his friends normal?
Q. Hello, I ve been married for 10 months. I love my husband and I know he loves me too. He has this habit of going to the cafe across the street and sit with his friends, talk , play cards and stuff. I made it clear that I am not really excited a...
A. 7 November 2005: No you don't need to ask him to change, he's doing nothing wrong. Everyone needs there own time alone or with their friends if your together all the time you will drive each other crazy.It's not as if he's in the pub every night coming home blind ... (read in full...)
He can be thoughtful, but he can also be judgemental and insensitive...
Q. I am recovering from agoraphobia and trying to build my confidence every day. I kind of slipped into working for my boyfriend. I did it because I love him and now I work for him every day. He doesn't pay me. I pay him rent to live in his house. I ...
A. 6 November 2005: hi im sorry to hear about your illness and im glad your getting better, you should be so proud of yourself but having all this to deal with will not help you at all. I think your boyfriend could be partly to blame for your illness he takes advantage ... (read in full...)
Can my boss dismiss me, just because she's embarrassed that we slept together?
Q. Hi, I need some advice on what to do about a rather tricky situation. A couple of months ago I slept with my boss who is female. I am 25 and she is 40. The attraction had been there for a while and this only happened afer a work party when I was ve...
A. 6 November 2005: No she can't dismiss you if your work is as good as you say it is. Things like this happen at office party,s all the time you just have to put it behind you and get on, it's obvious she can't. I think you should get some legal advice tell them the ... (read in full...)
Is my soulmate still out there, while I'm still here with my boyfriend?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for four years. It has always been nice. He's supportive, a good listener, an honest, hard worker, and awesome at night. We get along very well, like best friends. I'm very comfortable and happy with him. But sometimes I ...
A. 6 November 2005: For goodness sake girl i really don't know what your complaining about, most people would give there right arm to be with someone like him and be as happy as you are. Your longing for perfection and it does,nt exsist the grass isn,t always greener ... (read in full...)
Not sure how my best friend will react when I tell her that I'm bi...
Q. Recently I have accepted myself as being bisexual. I'm comfortable with it myself, but I'm not sure if others will be so I haven't told many people yet. I have three best friends (all girls) and only one of them knows about it. I want to tell the...
A. 5 November 2005: Yes i do think you should tell her because she is your closest friend,if she finds out from someone else not only will she be shocked she will be hurt you didn't confide in her.When you tell her explain to her how you feel then give her some time to ... (read in full...)
I was looking forward to seeing an old flame... until he sent me a weird and raunchy sex questionnaire!
Q. I have been in contact with a very special old boyfriend who is overseas and wants to come back and see me in January. We have been flirty and I sent him a picture of me in frilly pants to keep him going until then! I would have said he is a ...
A. 5 November 2005: Hi i think this man has made a drunken mistake, 15 years is a long time to go without being in a serious relationship. He probably sent you the questionnare to find out what you like sexually, as he,s had little experience and does,nt want to let ... (read in full...)
The chance for sex came around, but I panicked because I'm inexperienced....
Q. Im 22 and still a virgin. This hasn't been a problem for me in the past because I don't have any trouble getting girls, I just haven't wish to sleep with any of them because I'm more of a relationship kind of guy than a one night stand one. However, ...
A. 5 November 2005: Hi well you dont find many men like you around, i think i'ts great you havn,t rushed into sex. So many people,s first time is with someone they hardly know and it's such a let down to how you imagined it to be.Your first time should be really ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend with my friend's husband and I'm so ashamed...
Q. I am nearly 17 and have been in a relationship with my partner, who is older than me, for about 8 months. Last week I went to my friend's party and ended up sleeping with her husband. He took me home in the morning and on the way he suggeste...
A. 1 November 2005: Your still young and you've made a mistake, one you have already learned from. You've done the right thing in telling your friends husband to stay away, im guessing he was a lot older than you and he's taken advantage of you.Keep your distance from ... (read in full...)
How do you ask someone out, if you're not sure they like you?
Q. There is this girl that is said to like me, and I am not particularly sure if it is true or not. How can I ask her out if she does like me, and how do I find out if she likes me in the first place?...
A. 1 November 2005: Just go for it, if you dont ask you dont get. life is full of rejection so if she says no look at it as practice,tell her you like her and would like to take her out somewhere nice, ask her when noone's around and you will feel more confident. good ... (read in full...)
When I started falling for someone new, my ex came back on the scene, full of romance and promises!
Q. I am stuck in a love triangle! My boyfriend and I broke up nearly 2 months ago. We had been together nearly 3 years. I am 25, he is 26. We both live with our parents still but we were planning on moving in together and planning on having a futu...
A. 1 November 2005: Get rid of the ex he had his chance, he only wants you back because he knows your happy with someone else. Trust me ive been here and when your feelings are gone there gone. From your ex's point of view he does'nt want you but does'nt want anyone ... (read in full...)
Can online romances become the real thing?
Q. I have fallen in love with a married man. I am married too. I met him online 2 years ago and we have been emailing each other on a regular basis. There are no plans to meet, but I find myself thinking of him all the time. He says he loves me, but ...
A. 1 November 2005: I think something's missing in your relationship.If you still love your husband he's worth fighting for.You say this man loves you even though you have never met,i think your both living in a fantasy that's never going to come true.You think of each ... (read in full...)
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