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| | *oveIsStrongerThanPride's profile:Hello, I live in New York City and work as a licensed Realtor. I have been with my boyfriend for about ten years all though I have known him since I was 14 which would be 17 years. I love him very much and could never look at anyone the same. He is my soul mate. The only qualification I have to help others would be experience. Advice is just advice, there is no true answer to love, just what we believe in our hearts. |
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Husband Swinging Without Me
Q. About 5 years ago after 20 years of marriage, my husband started to talk about swinging. I thought he was kidding at first and he got angry when I siad absolutly not. We had a good sex life and had been faithful to each other. To please him I agreed ...
A. 24 July 2010: Tell him NO MORE and like everyone else said if he doesn't respect you tell him its over! I think this is sick. Marriage is for two people and sex between those two people not a hundred! I would never come close to this situation, I would say are ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex yet, how do I tell him to back off without being harsh?
Q. I was wondering your adivce on the best way to talk about having space with someone and slowing things down a bit, without going overbooard and scaring the other person away. I have been seeing this guy for just over 3 weeks now, and we get along ...
A. 24 July 2010: Smart smart girl....I think its a great idea and he will respect you more for that. Don't be afraid to talk to him as you just did on this site. Basically, you tell him, I really like you, am very attracted to you but im not ready to have sex, I ... (read in full...)
All I did was try for her but she fell out of love after 7 years of marriage
Q. I want to ask how to let go of a women whom you have married, grown to love for the past 7yrs and now wants to be alone and doesnt want to be in a relationship. She has been dating and were still married and after a house and two kids i thought she ...
A. 24 July 2010: Wow that is sad. You sound like a great guy. It does sound like she wants to have fun, doesn't want to be tied down right now. I think you should start making time for yourself, ask her to watch the kids sometimes and get your life back, get your ... (read in full...)
Should I write a letter to my ex's new girlfriend to let her know what a scumbag he is?
Q. I want to write a letter to my ex boyfriend's girlfriend telling her what a scumbag he is. I am really sick and tired of my ex boyfriend getting away with talking trash about me behind my back. I really think he is a psychopath, he has no consc...
A. 24 July 2010: People are referring to your column here. You care so much who and what he is doing. Ignore him, do not contact him, don't contact his "girlfriend". RUN AWAY and don't look back. There are many men out there. Why are you obsessed? The rumors ... (read in full...)
The Rock, the Hard Place and the One in Between
Q. I have a girlfriend. I have been with her for over four years. In all that time, it seems like we have never gotten through a day without a fight over something. I was already at my breaking point when I met the other girl. I met her through my ...
A. 19 July 2010: OMG I AGREE WITH JMC930.
My boyfriend did this to me, said they were just friends only when I found out about their secret friendship and that sometimes they hung out while I was with my grandmother, I found this out way later. He denies doing an... (read in full...)
Dating, sex, and his ex
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 questions put together.. I have been dating a guy for a month now. He is a year older than me and appears quite nice so far. Things between his ex weren't going well and he recently split up from her when he met me. He saw it coming b...
A. 19 July 2010: He probably still has feelings for her, thats why he is replying. Its way too early for him to be in relationship with you.... (read in full...)
Dealing with feelings after dropping an alcoholic....
Q. I have been with this woman for a year and could not take it any longer. I read what people wrote on here but like others thought I could fix the problem. Now I have to fix me cause I am addicted to her! I have been doing alanon and counseling ...
A. 19 July 2010: Eeeeeeeeeeek.......she is awful. She has no idea that she had such a good guy. She is so drunk that she can't see it. I guarantee you when she becomes sober she will REGRET her actions.
I think you have done enough, start concentrating on you,... (read in full...)
Moving past but perhaps not getting over it
Q. I don’t have anything to gain from writing this post. I guess its just a way to say what is on mind and get it off my chest. When you break up with someone, yes it is sad but then you move on. I’ve just had a rather drawn out break up, and fo...
A. 19 July 2010: Wow sorry to hear. Its very hard to move past when you are really in love. You are doing the right thing, stay busy, make friends and try to have fun. The sadness will go away, it can't stay with you forever. Also, is there anything you get lost ... (read in full...)
My husband is an island
Q. Help!!! My husband is an "island"...doesn't need input and doesn’t need anybody “telling him what to do”. There’s no sense in discussing anything with him because, by the time he brings up a subject, he's already thought of it and has the "sol...
A. 19 July 2010: Wow, I don't think he takes weddings seriously? Regardless, you are his wife and that is your house too. He should sit down and talk to you before he plans life changing events in your home. I think as you said it will be exhausting to come home ... (read in full...)
I feel such distance and we live in the same house
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for about ten years with short term break ups here and there. We were engaged last year. He took the ring back from me due to a large argument (long story) and I ended up leaving, I moved into my own apartment. ...
A. 19 July 2010: Wow why did I only get two answers. Thanks guys. Anyway things are better now. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 5 years has become disinterested
Q. I'm a 27 year old guy and have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We moved in together 2 years ago and for the first year everything was great, the 1st four years of our relationship was exactly what I wanted, we were communicative, we laughed, ...
A. 18 July 2010: I sort of agree with Traycie. I am in a similar situation. I have been with boyfriend 10 years and I have left him about 5 times. I want to get married and I want children, im 31 now and sometimes I feel like I just can't wait anymore but he is ... (read in full...)
Should I just pretend I don't know about my husband's one night stands as long as he comes home after the fun?
Q. My hubby treats me and the kids very well..we have been a loving couple for years. Recently I found out that even before we were married, he has been out for monthly one night stands (he usually says he is out entertaining clients when he comes home ...
A. 18 July 2010: I'm sorry but I agree with everyone, this is disgusting! He is a pig. Yes what if you get STD's from him, not a joke! Also don't you feel heart broken, humiliated? God I would of sent him packing if I saw him talk to another girl let alone sex. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend hiding something?
Q. I have my boyfriend's e-mail password because I helped him apply for jobs. He gets Facebook notifications of messages and wall posts sent to him to his e-mail. Today he mentioned that because he gave me access to his e-mail, he changed his Facebook ...
A. 16 July 2010: Join Facebook and add him.... you have a right to know who he is talking to but you can't demand it, you have to be careful because this insecurity can be a turn off to your boyfriend. He IS with you isn't he?... (read in full...)
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