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Mixed Signals from Ex-Wife... Very Confused. Is she trying to rekindle things in a no pressure environment?

Q.   So about two months ago, while married and living in California, I accepted a job in Utah. My wife was to stay behind in California until she got a job in Utah, and then move with me. She even wrote dozens of cute little notes telling me how much ...

A.   14 July 2008: Speak with her and find out once and for all what she wants. If she want to get back with you, then make that decision and decide if you still want to be with her. If not, then you should definately move on. Daniel Amis www.relat... (read in full...)

I wanted him back when I found out he was seeing someone, he told me to be patient. What does this mean?

Q.   Three years ago I left my boyfriend after four years together. We remained friends the past three years but neither of us expressed to each other that we should give it another try, although we both made hints about the possibility. Recently, my e...

A.   14 July 2008: I truly believe you need to go on with your life. He has obviously gone on with his. Getting back with an ex can bring along many problems..they're your exes for a reason. Start a new relationship with someone else. Becuase if you wait, you may ... (read in full...)

I've been hesitating between these two men for a year now, do I go with my heart or my mind?

Q.   I have lived with my ex-husband since 1996 we originally married in 1990, but I met a man that makes me feel "alive," Though my ex is a really nice guy, there is no passion or connection but there is financial security and I do love him and he ...

A.   14 July 2008: Hi! Follow your mind and follow your heart. You obviously need to know that he is your "ex" for a reason. I really wouldn't recommend living with your ex becuase it can complicate things...as you can see. If you're feeling like you have agood fe... (read in full...)

I am very unhappy with my boyfriend's actions towards me, please give me some advice, I can't stand this??

Q.   Im so confussed on what to do. The problems is my boyfriend is a super against me drinking, cause i got drunk like last month and he got super ticked off! so now anytime im not with him and im with other people he gets worried and starts to freak ...

A.   11 July 2008: It sounds like you're pretty upset about this. Try this exercise: Make a list of pro's and con's in your relationship. It seems like you listed alot of negative stuff in your relationship...but what about the positives? Figure out wi... (read in full...)

I've come to the point where I feel like I'm relying on him,

Q.   I think Im losing myself. Basically things in the past have happened between me and my married boss (I realise the effects and consequences of this etc,but if you please, this is not the point I wish to discuss now). Basically we slept together a...

A.   6 July 2008: You've grown feelings for him and it's understandable for what you've two been through. What you must understand is that you are NOT a patehtic person..just someone who has gotten caught up. What you should do is focus on someone new...an... (read in full...)

I get very emotional reading questions and answers here. I feel I'll never be in love.

Q.   hey i am a 14 year old girl. i ahve noticed that lately i have been really emotional, like jsut a sec ago i was reading a question that ssays "what is love?" and i was reading the answers and i felt like "ill never be in love! ill never find a guy ...

A.   6 July 2008: It's understandable if you feel that way..but you're still young. There will be plenty of guys in your life for you to choose. Right now, what you should do is make a fun list of the things you want in a boyfriend. And BELIEVE that you will get a ... (read in full...)

How do I get him in the mood... dressing sexy doesn't work, dirty talk doesn't work, nothing works!?

Q.   So my boyfriend says he hasn't been in the mood for sex lately and that the last few times we did it he didn't really want to. He says it isn't me and I believe him. I can easily get him hard, but he just never wants sex anymore. This has been going ...

A.   25 June 2008: Try to communicate with him and find out what exactly would he like you to do to get him in the mood. If he doesn't know, then it's possible it's a psychlogical (stress, too tired, etc) or medical condition (erectile disfunction, side effects of ... (read in full...)

We agreed to take it slow, I want to think of a possible relationship in the future, but I can't seem to tell if he wants to be with me or not!

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for 2 months. Prior to him I had been on several bad dates and wasn't looking for anything serious, but felt different with him. He on the other hand went through a break-up 7 months before we meet and later after we were ...

A.   25 June 2008: Well...by not really knowing how he's thinking, the best thing you can do is ask one time more...and ONE time only where you both stand. If he says this time that he only want to be friends and go slow...then go slow. You should still try to date ... (read in full...)

My relationship is completely wonderful except...there are location differences! Help!

Q.   My relationship is completely wonderful. Everything is totally right between us, and we are filled with love for each other. It would be perfect except for this one REALLY BIG THING. Location. How the hell do you figure this stuff out? I met...

A.   21 June 2008: Location can be alittle tricky. You both have to compromise on a few things. But here's a few thoughts... Since he is a graphic designer there are places he can go (on the east coast)that can guide him in the right directions. He may even ... (read in full...)

Has anyone felt as you don't matter to the other person after the split up?

Q.   Does anyone after a relationship has ended that they didn't matter to the other person at all? I have been feeling this way. Broken up since October last year. Trying to be friends now- not going too well. Even though I am not attracted to him for ...

A.   13 June 2008: Some people have a different way of expressing how they really feel. He may not show that he cared about breaking up but he most likely did. Two and a half years is a very significant time. So just try your best to get over the break-up with him and ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to focus on ME and my lips not just my boobs?

Q.   hey guys, I have a boy problem. There is this guy that I have liked for almost 5 years on and off and we have a lot of history. He was my first kiss. He and I have been there for each other growing up as our parents got divorced and we ...

A.   13 June 2008: Well by just assuming that he's a young teenager also, it's obvious that he's starting to get to that arrousal stage...alot. It's going to be difficult for him to focus on anything other than your body parts. What you need to do is talk with him... (read in full...)

Could he be he is scared of commitment because he was a virgin?

Q.   i was my my best friends first. he was a virgin. i am in love with him but he dosent want to be in a committed relationship right now..... but yet we continue to fool around. does he love me? could he be scared of commit ? or is he just in it for ...

A.   6 June 2008: Communicate with him and find out where he stands. If he's just in it for the sex, you have to make a decision on whether or not you still want to be with him. Daniel Amis Author & Relationship Coach www.relationshipadvice4you.com... (read in full...)

I am confused by her signals............

Q.   I really liked this girl that I went to high school with but we hardly talked. I was-kind of a loner and she was very social. She would give me signs that she liked me but it would happen every once in a while. I sent her a couple messages...

A.   4 June 2008: She may recieve tons of messages on Myspace and may not have the time to respond to all of them. without appearing stalker-ish i suggest you meet her face-to-face and strike up a conversation with her, let her know how you feel and see if she's ... (read in full...)

He tells me he just feels 'content' with me, are his meds masking his true feelings?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We're very attracted to each other. When we're together, we're very happy and extremely amorous. When we say goodbye, we both cry. When he's with me, his heart beats faster, his eyes dilate and he ca...

A.   4 June 2008: I'm not a doctor or psychologist...but I can say that anti-depressants does play a huge role on your mood and how you feel about things. He says that he's "content", but I think from what you've described in the beginning of your passage, that ... (read in full...)

Should I ask her out and risk a friendship or just stay friends?

Q.   met this girl i reallllly like her i think she might like me too but im not to sure if she likes me so i really dont know what to do. im afraid if i ask her out and she says no it may ruin our friendship i dont know what to do im falling for her and ...

A.   4 June 2008: This question is alittle bit tricky. The safest bet here is to ask her how SHE feels about you. If she says she just see you as friend then don't tell her how you feel about her...that may make the situation alittle arkward. Daniel Amis www.relat... (read in full...)

My ex is probably attending a mutual friend's baby shower, how should I act? Should I speak to him? Ignore him?

Q.   We share a Mutual Friend who’s having a Get-together. He might Show, He might not. I its been over for 4 years (Quite some time) But I am Still Madly In Love With Him. Not So long ago I was out at front of my Apt Building Cleaning My bab...

A.   4 June 2008: Without REALLY knowing the reason he has given you some problems, I could assume that he is still in love with you but scared of where it may lead him....or...he's just doesn't want to be with you anymore. My advice to you is to try to communicate ... (read in full...)

Why does he keep hanging around?

Q.   My ex never told me it was over, he just distant himself.In the beginning it was good. He did things wrong just like I did. There was no cheating and I felt that the only way to get his attention was to lash out at him or leave him silly voice ...

A.   23 May 2008: He still misses you. Some people take a longer time to get over a relationship than others. See if you could speak to him one more time and express to him how you feel again, then see if he's ready to talk about his feelings. Daniel Amis ww... (read in full...)

How do I prove to my Ex that were still ment to be together?

Q.   How do i prove to her that we shoudl get back together?! Me and my ex girlfriend had a long bumpy road but we always made it through, with love. We are now broken up but we both still have feelings for eachother and are still seeing eachother almost ...

A.   23 May 2008: I always tell my clients that it's not such a good idea to hook back up with their exes becuase it only complicate things. My advice to you is to try to stay as far apart from your ex as possible. That way both of your feelings don't get mixed up. ... (read in full...)

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