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writes:I really liked this girl that I went to high school with but we hardly talked. I was-kind of a loner and she was very social. She would give me signs that she liked me but it would happen every once in a while. I sent her a couple messages on myspace and did not get an answer - the first question was me asking her how she was doing - who I was..stuff like that. anyway,she did not block me from her page at all. I can still send her messages. I am no longer at her school(graduated) and am scared of making another move. She is not making it clear that I am bothering her because I had friends ignore me and after a few messages...there they were. I know that she could be ignoring me but I just want to talk to her. should I send her messages until she finally sends one back? or should I forget about her?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Do you have her regular email address? I really hate MySpace email system and think it's annoying to use. If you've got an external address, try that instead. Personally, I wouldn't read too much into a MySpace snuff -- if she hasn't told you to buzz off, then yes you can still keep trying to reach out to her...
But, I would suggest that you set a personal timeframe for those messages. Like if after 2 more months of casual conversation, then I'd bail on this and look for another romantic contact.
Last point: like I've said, MySpace is not my fave... if you're in the same location, try to meet up someplace like Starbucks and chat face-to-face. Oh and you don't get anywhere by being scared -- take the risk to be happy.
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reader, loveguru23 +, writes (4 June 2008):
She may recieve tons of messages on Myspace and may not have the time to respond to all of them. without appearing stalker-ish i suggest you meet her face-to-face and strike up a conversation with her, let her know how you feel and see if she's involved with anyone (that may alos be a reason for her not getting back to you). So bottom line, don't send any more messages to her on Myspace...try to talk to her a different way.
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