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*112EricYYZ
writes:met this girl i reallllly like her i think she might like me too but im not to sure if she likes me so i really dont know what to do. im afraid if i ask her out and she says no it may ruin our friendship i dont know what to do im falling for her and i dont know how to know wther she likes me more than a friend is there any way to find out. but in a way that wont really risk anything so without her knowing how i feel Reply to this Question
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reader, 2112EricYYZ +, writes (2 July 2008):
2112EricYYZ is verified as being by the original poster of the question i would like to thank you two actually i didnt ask her out its a funny story my friend who i was telling all this information to had enough of nothing being done sooo he walked up to her and said im tired of nothing being done would u go out with him she said she didnt know the answer to tht question so i was worried thinking she didnt want to go out. but i went on msn talked to her she said did u really wanted to ask me out? (she didnt believe my friend when he said tht i wanted to go out with her) so i said yeah i do she was quiet so im like uhhh ohhh so i said if u dont want to and u want to remain friends i understand she said no and said that she wanted to go out with me. thnx for all your advice
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reader, kutie0712  +, writes (5 June 2008):
This is difficult. Talk to one of her girlfriends. She will have probably told her how she feels about you if she has feeling for you. If she does like you then talk to her before you ask her out and remember to mention that you would still want to be friends with her even if she doesn't like you in that way. Ask her if she would ever think about dating you. Thats what my boyfriend did with me. If she would then good for you. If she doesn't and acts strange around you after then I am so sorry.
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reader, loveguru23 +, writes (4 June 2008):
This question is alittle bit tricky. The safest bet here is to ask her how SHE feels about you. If she says she just see you as friend then don't tell her how you feel about her...that may make the situation alittle arkward.
Daniel Amis
www.relationshipadvice4you.com
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