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All we do revolves around sex

Q.   I am 'meeting' up with this older guy (31) we met a year ago (i am 18) but all we do revolves around sex. We meet up every couple of monthes when he is working near me, he'll call me when he is horny to talk about sex we never had a proper ...

A.   28 October 2006: Perhaps if you want to find out for sure what this guy is about you should put all your cards on the table. Next time he calls you tell him straight that you do not want to be treated like a piece of meat and that if the only thing he is interesed ... (read in full...)

All we do revolves around sex

Q.   I am 'meeting' up with this older guy (31) we met a year ago (i am 18) but all we do revolves around sex. We meet up every couple of monthes when he is working near me, he'll call me when he is horny to talk about sex we never had a proper ...

A.   28 October 2006: No offense but it is glaringly obvious that all this guy is interested in is sex. I know from experiece that when you really like a guy and have feelings for him then you try and imagine that he might be feeling the same way. Trust me that this is ... (read in full...)

I don't like pubic hair

Q.   im 15. i don't like pubic hair. or anal hair. is it safe to get rid of it. and how? i tried shaving it once but each hair which the razor puled out a dot began to bleed so i stoped? please help soon its iritating ...

A.   28 October 2006: I am a female who shaves completely by using a battery powered lady shaver. Please do not use a razor because all this will do is make you itch and bleed as the skin is very sensitive. What i would do if i wos you would be to trim the hairs fairly ... (read in full...)

I want to believe that my boyfriend was so drunk he didn't know he was cheating...

Q.   Recently, my boyfriend got really drunk and cheated with a close friend of mine while I was away, out of town. She wanted them to not tell me but he couldn't bear it and told me a few days after I got back. He says he was so drunk he didn't k...

A.   5 December 2005: First of all if this girl really is such a ho then your boyfriend needs to get checked out for STD's at a clinic as soon as possible. If i was in this situation then i would split up for a bit to give myself some time to think about the situation ... (read in full...)

Seems like my girlfriend is trying to please her exes, rather than pleasing herself!

Q.   I have been seeing this women for a couple of months now. She told me right away that she is friends with a couple of her old boyfriends and I was comfortable with that. She also told me what happened to her as a child. About one month and half...

A.   5 December 2005: She sounds like she is playing games with all of you in a very selfish manner! This lady needs to have more respect for you, it is one thing having friends..but another when she is obviously crossing the line of friendship and taking everyone for a ... (read in full...)

How do you know when you have fallen out of love?

Q.   how do you know if u hv feelings for someone? and how do you know when you've fallen out of love?...

A.   28 November 2005: I think that sometimes in a relationship..especially one thats gone on for quite a long time you can fall out of love with someone in the sense that you still love them..but your not in love with them..if you know what i mean!? Your relationship may ... (read in full...)

Is it okay for your boyfriend to go to a nightclub?

Q.   When a boyfriend takes a "guys night out" and the guys go to a stripclub, do they think any less of their girlfriend when they come back? Do they compare the girls they see to their girlfriend? Is there any good way to suggest to my boyfriend that ...

A.   28 November 2005: To say that the girls are dirty or to be jealous of men going to these clubs is in my mind very primative. There is nothing to be jealous of..its just a bit of titilation and hardly like going to a brothel. The men can't touch the girls and the ... (read in full...)

Is it okay for your boyfriend to go to a nightclub?

Q.   When a boyfriend takes a "guys night out" and the guys go to a stripclub, do they think any less of their girlfriend when they come back? Do they compare the girls they see to their girlfriend? Is there any good way to suggest to my boyfriend that ...

A.   28 November 2005: Why don't you go with him one night? its actually really good fun, i used to be a waitress in a lapdancing club and its really just a bit of a laugh when guys go, after all the girls are only interested in making as much money as possible and aren't ... (read in full...)

Ideas for a christmas gift?

Q.   Hey everyone. umm.. I'll get straight to the point my boyfriend is 16 and I'm 15. I'm finding it hard to find out what to get him for xmas could anyone help me thank you....

A.   27 November 2005: Whenever i get my boy stuff for christmas its usually along the lines of....aftershave, shirts, ps2 games, jewellery if you wanna splash out..a ring or chain or something, posh hair sets..the ones where you get designer hairgels, shampoo, ... (read in full...)

Why are some men not afraid to have sex during a women's menstrual cycle?

Q.   This is a weird question, but I am very curious about it. Why is is that some men are not afraid to have sex during the girlfriends cycle, while some guys won't get near you? I know it is a very personnel matter. I just don't understand it. ...

A.   27 November 2005: Well you've said it yourself..its a personal matter..basically some blokes don't mind it and others think its gross! I mean if you were a bloke would you wanna get all messy in that kind of way..eeek...i definately wouldn't!! I never have sex when ... (read in full...)

I love him but don't trust him...what can I do?

Q.   Four weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a thid time. Says he didn't have sex with the girl but was wearing a condom. Turns out she said she no longer wanted to have sex with him but he claims that if he really wanted to have sex with ...

A.   27 November 2005: You know what you should do but you just don't want to admit it..dump him..he sounds like a complete loser! The longer you stay in this relationship the more stressed out and messed up your going to be. A leopard like this is never gonna change its ... (read in full...)

I think I love him but its taken him so long to text me!

Q.   hi....im sure you dont want to hear this...but this is what the site is for...so this problem all started when i started fancying this boy in the year above from me at school. i fancied him for ages, and then my brother found out somehow and told...

A.   27 November 2005: this probably isn't what you want to hear but the fact that the guy has sent you text messages saying he loves you when it doesn't sound as if he even knows you very well or has spent much time with you is rediculous. If he loved you seriously then ... (read in full...)

Do I tell my boyfriend about the messages I found on his phone?

Q.   We have been seeing each other for 2 years and we live together. About 1 month ago I was going through his phone and read some messages from a girl I dont know. It said "I don't like to share, call me when you're single". I don't know what to do, o...

A.   17 November 2005: The fact that you were looking through his fone in the first place suggests that you were suspicious about his untrustworthy behaviour. My boyfriend has done this to me twice before and i found out that he was texting other women, although he lied ... (read in full...)

When I feel shy, I drink too much... then I get too rowdy!

Q.   Hi, It's not really about relationship advice, I just wanted help. Saturday it was my friend's birthday so we all went out. I got wasted and the man I have liked for ages and who told me he liked me too was there. But when he saw me he went som...

A.   14 November 2005: When i was younger i used to be exactly the same, and i felt like i was really popular and the life and soul of the party when i was drinking. What you've got to remember is that its one thing meeting a guy whilst your under the influence of drink ... (read in full...)

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