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writes: hi....im sure you dont want to hear this...but this is what the site is for...so this problem all started when i started fancying this boy in the year above from me at school. i fancied him for ages, and then my brother found out somehow and told the must untrust worthy girl in the school! she went and told him that i fancy him, and he looked pissed off, but then he was talking to me and asked if this was true that i fancy him loads, i told him it was, and he said he was ok with that. we got talking and he was being really nice and he asked for my number so i gave it to him.then about a week later he told me he fancyed me, i was so happy, then he started txting me saying stuff like 'i want to go out with you, i dont want my girlfriend, i love you, im crazy about you' blah blah blah, i thought he was so out of order doing that to his girlfriend but i was'nt complaining. anyway it was the half term and he dumped his girlfriend, but then he went out with another girl! i was so upset and wanted to hate him but i couldnt because i liked him too much, i always thought about him and when ever i saw him i just wanted to scream in his face because of what he done...thankfully i contained myself. about a month later i finally got over him but thenafter about another month of not talking he txt me saying 'helo darling hws u?avent spoken in a wile, beginin 2 wury u dnt lyk me nemre!i stil fanci u so much, ur amazinly hot!tb love you xxx'i was pissed off but so happy at the same time. there was one part of me that wanted to forgive him but another part have a massive go at him, i said something like i wonder why you think i dont fancy you! you havnt spoken to me for ages! he txt back 'u avent gon off me tho ryt?i hope u avent! wneva i see u at school i think,HOT!HOT!HOT! i really do fancy u! u probly dnt wanna hear dat! tb love youxxxxx'....anyway...the point is i have totally falen for him again! i cant stop thinking about him i evcen think im in love, but i feel stupid saying that at this age. he said in one of the txt that he loves me. i dont know whether to believe him or not! im still so angry at him though! aarghhhh please help me!! i dont know what to do!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2005): i think that this boy is just a little coward. he hides behind his text messages so he can get people to like him but he cant actually show emotion when talking face to face. he likes the attention that he gets and because you were upset and stopped texting him he'd lost one of his admirers so he text you and you fell for it. get rid of his number and blank him in school. why would you want to be with somone who treats you like that?
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reader, Tim +, writes (27 November 2005):
 I think this guy is more like who wanna be in business till he is done and then dump and jump to another one without any explaination do u think a guy who switich from girl to girl will stay with you who txt you after months, he might wanna take the advantage of your feeling and your love and use you for sex and them dump you for another girl. Idiots like are after sex and nothing else if you believe him that is ur business. Remember one thing a guy who goes with other girls out and who has girl friend and fancy her, you are not his love and you can never be his for real and he never loves you for real he pretends and uses his tricks here. kick his ass tell him to get lost, I think even if you trust him as far as you told us u are deeply in love with this wrong guy he might in the middle of your relationship txt other girl that he fancy or loves her, do you really derserve to have a broken relationship with wrong guy knowingly? the answer is no ignore him and change your phone number. nothing personal i told u the truth about wot he is upto just to use you for **sex** that is all, i can't see any love here neither feel in love for you in this txting relationship, u better fancy a honest guy, rather than wasting you time for losers and heart brearker. I hope u get my point and this go straigh into your brain in way to help you and stop you from hurting yourself by his txt or his look or whateva melts your heart and you fancy him for ages, you fancy a guy who has already a girl friend uuuuuuu, dont ruine people's love. staying single is better than loving a liar and creating too much headache and pain for yourself and in your life and then sit back and regret why did i do it and why did i trust this loser from day one.Good luck with ur endless love
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2005): Let's see if I got this right. You fancy a boy who had a gf. He starts texting you, coming on hard and fast 'before' he dumps his gf. (Red flag). Then he starts dating another girl!? (Red flag) Where did this leave you-hurt and confused? You get over this guy and then out of nowhere, he's back in contact! Ever get the feeling you are just being "toyed with"? If not, you should be. You not a "back burner" girl..just someone he takes up with when the girls he "wants" to date, no longer interest him. What are his actions and behaviours telling you, dear? This guy is a player, hun. You've already discovered that his actions don't match his words. It's the actions which are the real clue to anybody's character. Someone who flirts shamelessly with you but dates others, is giving you much-needed information about whether or not you can trust him. And you know the answer to that. Leave him in the dust and find someone decent. Be really careful who you give your heart to..you do deserve better. You are so much more worth the future heartache and pain, this guy will create for you. Feelings are fleeting, and change depending on emotional and physical states. Don’t base your life on them. Keep using your gut instincts and common sense...it's trying to tell you something. Take care and be strong.
Hugs, Irish
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reader, louiseBaker +, writes (27 November 2005):
this probably isn't what you want to hear but the fact that the guy has sent you text messages saying he loves you when it doesn't sound as if he even knows you very well or has spent much time with you is rediculous. If he loved you seriously then he would not be going out with other girls and messing about with you like this. You have to keep your dignity and ignore this idiot. The sad truth is that he is probably sending you messages at times when he is bored or something just to amuse himself and is indulging in the fact that you fancy him which makes him feel good. Everyone likes to have an admirer and he is enjoying the attention. If he genuinely likes you he would have made a serious move by now and would not be messing you about sending you silly texts. I hope i havn't annoyed you by saying this but seriously its for your own good..you can find someone better than this silly childish bloke.
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