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reader, missprissybk  +, writes (5 September 2008):
You have definetly fallen out of love when kissed turn into mere smiles,or huugs become snares behind eachothers backs. I know because sometimes I feel as though I have completely fallen out of love with my 5 year long Boyfriend....At times it may just be as if you have been running in circles all alone...which is by far the worst feeling ever
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): i think when youve fallen out of lobe with somone is when the spark is gone. you feel no urge to touch or kiss them and no excitment when you see them. you start to feel numb and although you know you love them as a person and you care about them so much you dont want to break their heart,every time you see them you have an aching feelin inside that its over and you dont feel for them the way you once did.
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reader, Bestfrend +, writes (28 November 2005):
You have answered this questions yourself-by asking-you have fallen out of love!
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reader, louiseBaker +, writes (28 November 2005):
I think that sometimes in a relationship..especially one thats gone on for quite a long time you can fall out of love with someone in the sense that you still love them..but your not in love with them..if you know what i mean!? Your relationship may change to a stage that your very fond of one another and get along like best mates..but a certain spark and chemistry has gone. I think lots of relationships still survive in this state..everything may still be there but you may just not be sexually attracted to each other anymore..i dunno its really complicated to understand. Some of the signs that things aren't right may manifest themselves in ways such as cheating on your partner..maybe with a few different people because your not satisfied with your relationship anymore and are looking for a thrill, you may find excuses not to see your partner as much and start going out with your mates and drinking more. I think deep down you know when something isn't right anymore.
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (28 November 2005):
you just know. Someimtes you can love someone but not be in love with them if you know what i mean. If you are in love you just know it, theres a feeling inside you that is undeniable. If you have feelings for someone you also know. If you dont know you are in love then your not
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