Short of hiring a lawyer and pursuing legal action, how can we stop his ex....?
Q. How do you get someone to stop using your mailing address without your permission, short of hiring a lawyer and pursuing legal action, which we cannot afford? My b/f's ex g/f who now lives 1000 miles away and has been gone for over 5 years, stil...
A. 28 June 2008: Ok no flag came up so i'm not sure where you live, but if you go to the post office they can put on redirect on mail thats in different names, return to sender is the best way. If any letter comes through write 'this person no longer lives here, ... (read in full...)
Metrosexual or egotistical?
Q. What do you do when your boyfriend suffers from vanity? He wasn't always like this, but about a year and a half ago he got a job at this mens underwear store. Totally brand new place which features live models as well. He got hired on as manager, ...
A. 28 June 2008: You are not being sensitive, he's being a fool thats let things go to his head. The world will bring him down,you have two options - 1) Either wait for him to stop being so into himself by what the world will teach him. 2) Or if the relationship is ... (read in full...)
How to get over some nasty people, so I can start enjoying my school?
Q. Hi, Okay so there is this girl at school and she hangs round in a group of 7 with her other mates, i get along really well with the other mates apart from one. Both of them hate me for something that happened in the past but it didnt even invo...
A. 28 June 2008: This is gona sound harsh hun, but there are idiots like this everywhere! Every school, work place etc. They are dumb for holding stuff from past that doesn't involve them. People that do things like this are actually very insecure, you may have ... (read in full...)
I self-identify as straight, so why do I have these urges?
Q. I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship...
A. 28 June 2008: Ok don't panic etc, I think everyone has thoughts at some point about the same sex etc. But I would think twice about acting anything out on ur mate unless they feel the same way, it may spoil ur friendship. Just chill and give things some thought, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still gets mad about stuff I did in the past. Help me please!!
Q. Hi, I have some issues, I feel totally lost, like I don't know where I'm going in this relationship! Ok, my bf and I have had our issues because he asked about my past early in the relationship, and I lied about it, and later when I came clean, he b...
A. 28 June 2008: Well hun I'm sorry but he needs to either put up and shut up, or move on. He cannot make you suffer for your past he has no right. I would back off slightly from telling him you love him etc etc, as in a way giving him the nod to carry on being ... (read in full...)
Please help me out, I cant get him to find where to please me.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, when we have sex i cant get him to find where to please me. It's really difficult because i dont want him to feel that he is doing something wrong and upset him. What shall i do? please help...
A. 28 June 2008: Few things you could try, make foreplay last longer, sort of find each other in that (music, lighting etc) can all help find the mood. Try role play, though it may seem a little embarrassing it can really work for some people. Change of scenery, ... (read in full...)
Please help me save my relationship!
Q. how do you say "im sorry and i will never do it again" to a man I cheated on twice? I really really regret it and I love him to death. I am so mad at myself for ruining this relationship. He left me after 6 months of finding out. I tried EVER...
A. 28 June 2008: Hun, once is a mistake but twice is harsh. You must actually look at why you did it, once you find the true underlying cause you will then know if this can be saved or not. He is not getting back with you because of self preservation, and that must ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex girlfriend, I miss my kids' mom and feel terrible. My boys have never seen me cry and I fear they might hear me at night...
Q. Hello. This is somewhat difficult for me to talk about but here it goes. I am a 36yr old single father of twins. I have raised them since they were born. Their mother is in prison and is out of the picture. I have no regrets about raising my ...
A. 28 June 2008: I agree with Tamsine83, you are allowed to miss the mother of your children, and in some ways you probably feel cheated out of the family you should have had. I am very sorry that you are going through this, and altough right now you feel you will ... (read in full...)
I revealed to my closest friend that I am bisexual and she said I should tell this to other people soon...
Q. Okay so here it goes... I have been thinking for a long time about this and i'm still not entirely sure but i think i migth be bisexual... and i know there is nothing wrong with it... Just yesterday i had a chat with my closest friend and told ...
A. 22 June 2008: ok,if your family find out last they might be even more upset,also if ur family or even some of them can support u its strange that you may feel like u can take the world on with this. If ur friends are weirded out then they are silly,as they should ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I feel like I'm losing the plot!!
Q. I am very unhappy at the moment, I am6months pregnant by a man who doesnt love me at all, i love him 2 bits but there are things about him that are beginning to get too much for me 2 take. We met in Jan 08', and i found out I was pregnant in March, ...
A. 22 June 2008: I tried to lay some ground rules down,and tell him how i'd like things to be.It didnt work at all,he seems to tell me how it is,and if i moan his answer is that i decided to keep the baby so i should take what comes and deal with it. In my heart I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex gf is always around!! Should I ask him to cut ties with her or tell her to back off??
Q. i need help!! please! my bf's ex gf is constantly in my life. we tried to be friends but she then decided twice to go after him. she always talks about him telling everyone she loves him and soon he will be back with her. we have mutual friends who ...
A. 22 June 2008: I feel awful for you and this is tricky! Your BF needs to tell her straight that he isn't interested and that anyone putting their fingers in the pie also needs to butt out. Sometimes men enjoy the banter over them,and being wanted etc, so also make ... (read in full...)
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