Caught my husband cheating again; not sure where to go from here
Q. I have been married 12 years. About 3 years ago I found out that me husband was cheating on me. I found out through the text messages and phone calls being made from his phone. I guess there were signs that made me believe that this was going on so ...
A. 19 February 2010: @angzw you are so right. Men think there are no consequences when they cheat because we mope and cry to them thinking they will feel bad enough not to do it again. I am here to tell you that is so superficial they only nurse you back to do it ... (read in full...)
What kind of heart can you have to mistreat someone the way he has?
Q. Recently broke up with a young man i had been dating for about 4 months. When we started dating he was all I thought I wanted an exclusive relationship. However, as time past I learned that his break up with his ex was more recent than he had ...
A. 30 January 2010: thanx to all of my replies but I have taken his power and made the decision to retire this relationship. However, I will not say I won't chance it again if I feel he has truly resolved his x issues. I feel that if you love someone enough and it's ... (read in full...)
Why am I falling for a guy whose cheated in the past?
Q. what is wrong with me? why am i in love with a player? hes cheated on his past two gfs and im sure if i get with him he would cheat. i never liked him before only recently i have never done anything with him. i just think about him alot. he doesnt ...
A. 25 January 2010: It's just like the forbidden fruit. However, you know what he entails so basically you are entering at your own risk. Not to sound harsh but please don't allow yourself to fall because it's only a matter of time you will be writing back talking ... (read in full...)
Partner calls me from work but only talks for a second or two and I don't know why?
Q. Dear Cupid, From Monday- Thursday,the job where my fiance works allows him 3 breaks: 10 am (10 or 15 minutes), 12 pm (Lunch; 30 minutes), and 3 pm (15 minutes). Then on Friday's, he gets off at 11:30 am and his break is at 9:30 am (10 or 15 minut...
A. 25 January 2010: I am sorry but I don't agree with the comment from caringguy. Even if he is around other guys if his emotions are the same for you there is no reason he shouldnt express them. That's the problem however the ones that are teasing and making fun ... (read in full...)
Is it true that love can grow?
Q. Met this girl at school in October. She came off a bad break up with her "first love" in July and took it really hard as lots of promises were given and what not. He broke up with her. They fought alot, etc. All in all he was insecure so I think ...
A. 25 January 2010: Yes, I feel that it can grow. However, don't be her rebound (read up on this). You are headed in the right direction by taking it slowly and allowing her to get past her feelings for the ex. Not for you to be in his shadow but for you to be there ... (read in full...)
10 min and he still hadn't cum.
Q. i had sex with a guy am dating and he was pretty big and he took soo long to c'um so i got soo tired am gave up..he wanted to go second round.. but i was soo weak that i was in the mood to go another round.. we got kissing he was tryna make me ...
A. 25 January 2010: No, I honestly feel that it isn't your fault and don't beat yourself up about it. He didn't have to be so course about it and sex is more than physical penetration. When you are being intimate with someone they can make love to your mind long ... (read in full...)
Do or I or don't I have sex with my 31y/o virgin girlfriend?
Q. Hi all, I never thought I would come a cross this at this stage of my life and age, I meet this girl that I have been dating for about 2-3 months now, she is 31 and I am 40, she is great we like each other and I am not a starter in dating and se...
A. 25 January 2010: Honestly, virginity is a beautiful thing and is often rare. I would suggest you take the time to see if you are ready for a committed relationship before pursuing sex. I feel that if she has waited this long it should be shared with someone who is ... (read in full...)
How can someone take advantage of a person who showed complete loyalty?
Q. My question is how can someone take advantage of someone who has shown true loyalty and love towards them and they trample all over you like a doormat? We had been dating for about 4 months, initially things were really good. Then I would say ...
A. 24 January 2010: thanks to all I am usually a very level headed woman but this case has overwhelmed me. my ex played the role very well but as i read about rebound relationships and emotionally unavailable men I understand things a lot clearly now. However, I just ... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt this lovely girl who is crazy about me...but I cant forget my ex...what should I do?
Q. a few years ago i broke up with the love of my life, and meet a lovely girl within weeks. i chased my ex for over a year and finally we got back together. during this time i was seriusly ill and told my ex to leave me cause she was too young to deal ...
A. 24 January 2010: I must say it is very unfortunate for the young lady that really cares for you and you are in no position to commit yourself the way that she is. I say you need to work out your feelings about your ex because as long as you have those feelings for ... (read in full...)
My friends say he's not for me....any advise, please?
Q. I really like this guy i don't know what to do he is a bit on the large size and all my friends say he is not my type, any advise would be great, please?...
A. 24 January 2010: Please don't be influenced by what others say about something you want to pursue. I must say we all have been caught up in the physical. However, as a person who has been there don't look at the outside look for someone who will treat you with ... (read in full...)
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