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30-35,
*pendy
writes:i had sex with a guy am dating and he was pretty big and he took soo long to c'um so i got soo tired am gave up..he wanted to go second round.. but i was soo weak that i was in the mood to go another round.. we got kissing he was tryna make me wet again so we could to it..but i wasnt not getting wet..he was not turning me on. usually when a guy kisses me for long. i get wet..but he doesnt kiss me tongues so i couldn't get turned on..he took me home.. and when we were in the cab..he was all going on about how i couldn't take his di.ck and how i only done 10mins and he didn't cu'm blah blah... and calling me lazy..soo embarrassing..why was he behaving like that?? is not my fault he takes too long to c'um and werent kissing me with tongues.. now i feel kinda bad:(was it my fault??thnx..x
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reader, veronika  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 He was behaving like that because he's an idiot.
10 minutes? Please, that's not even enough time for foreplay for me. If he was complaining that he wasn't coming after 10 minutes, then he needs a reality check - a lot of people take longer than 10 minutes to reach orgasm.
It wasn't your fault, he was just being impatient and rude.
Sounds like he's also learning his bedroom etiquette from a porn movie, which isn't desirable. "Can't take his dick"? Ew.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (25 January 2010):
 It sounds like you were on top doing the work. If that happens and you get tired, just change positions and get him to do some of it for a while.
If you like tongue kissing, then simply ask if he has any objection to it, ... he might not do it thinking that you don't like it.
That all said, if the lazy comments were delivered harshly rather than in a light hearted stirring manner, then I wouldn't be kissing or having sex with him again.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (25 January 2010):
No its not your fault his actions were very rude and he seemed selfish. However most guys take more than 10 minutes. My ex and i usually went for at least an hour and a quicky to us was 30 minutes so there is nothing wrong with him either he is just not a minute man which most women would like. Find a better partner and see the benefits of a partner who can last cause lets be real multiple orgasms are the best and only come from a partner who can control themselves.
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reader, lostlove76 +, writes (25 January 2010):
No, I honestly feel that it isn't your fault and don't beat yourself up about it. He didn't have to be so course about it and sex is more than physical penetration. When you are being intimate with someone they can make love to your mind long before they actually touch you. So many guys are thinking about only their needs that all they want to do is get one off and this can be a turn off and your body simply won't respond to this. My advice to you is you need to find a partner that stimulates your mind and the rest will follow.
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