I've hooked up with a married man, I don't want him to leave his wife - an ex friend of mine, but it would be nice if I could see him more, any advice?
Q. im a 26 year old girl in love with a 38 year old married man...for the last 2 years hes been married 15 years with a 12 year old daughter..the strange part is that i dont want him to leave his wife,its not about the money because i have enough,or ...
A. 17 January 2008: LOVE YOURSELF! A lot of times we dont love ourselves and thats why we get into the worst situations. You got rid of that awful ex, for the better, and now you have time to focus on you. You attach yourself to this married man because he treat... (read in full...)
My friend just told me his loves me, should I reciprocate?
Q. A coursemate of mine who has been a close friend for sometime now, just told me he is in love with me. Am so confused that i dont know what to tell him.Should i accept his proposal or not?...
A. 17 January 2008: If you dont feel the same way then you shouldnt start something you are not ready for. It can turn out to be a hurtful situation. If you are truly friends be honest with him and he will respect your honesty and you will still be able to be friends.... (read in full...)
Whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. What's wrong with me?
Q. I've found that whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. I went on a second date with a guy I am attracted to, and when we were kissing, I didn't feel turned on or feel any pleasure. Is this normal? Is ...
A. 17 January 2008: Kissing is a sensual and meaningful thing for me. When I kiss someone I take my time and I make it memorable. Maybe your kisses are, for a lack of a better phrase, JACKED UP, because there is no meaning behind them. I would suggest waiting ... (read in full...)
Pregnant , with my bf but why do I keep thinking of an ex bf who I was with for 9 years.
Q. Hi I am in my mid twenty's I have been with my b/f for little over a year and I am pregnant with his child but I still think a Lot about my ex which I was with for 9 years is it love or not? ...
A. 17 January 2008: YOU CANT TURN LOVE ON AND OFF LIKE A FAUCET. I think what you are feeling is totally natural. You were with the guy for 9 years. That doesnt just go away. Your life is about to seriously change with the new addition. I also thought about my ex... (read in full...)
Should we be communicating daily in order to stay in sync or is this not a big deal? J
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and I am begining to worry about our lack of communication. We use to talk everyday but now we rarely talk on the phone. We don't live together and our schedules don't always cordinate but we don't ...
A. 17 January 2008: The big deal is the time that you do have together. Do you make the most of that time? You should. You both have lives outside of each other and dreams and goals that you're trying to achieve. Sounds like the new new has worn off in the relation... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's and it upsets me!
Q. I need help!!! my boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's (yes there are two and they both have boyfriends) and it really upsets me. I don't want to be the type of girlfriend that doesn't allow him to be friends with whoever he wants but ...
A. 17 January 2008: If they are his friends then he should, out of his feeling for you, make them respect the fact that you and he are a couple. They should not adress him huni or anything of the sort. I dont think there is anything wrong with being friends with you... (read in full...)
He wants anal sex, I don't as it sounds really bad, am I overreacting?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to try anal sex. I have never done it and for some reason can't bring myself to do it. anyone have any words of wisdom. am I overreacting or is is as bad as it sounds....
A. 17 January 2008: Before you agree to anything,GET YOUR MIND RIGHT. This includes researching the subject and as you are doing now asking others what they think.
Ultimately its up to you. With all sex remember to be safe and be comfortable with it.
If he is pressing... (read in full...)
He spent mone at a strip club, I dumped his butt, now he wont speak to me, what is going on with him?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years after finding out he spent a large amount of money at a strip club without telling me. I told him not to call me until he wanted to be honest about how he spent the money. He didn't call me for five ...
A. 17 January 2008: Girl, WHATS GOING ON WITH YOU? If that's not something you are willing to tolerate then stick to your guns and let his butt go.Ask yourself," do i want to marry someone who enjoys strip clubs?", because if he is doing it now he may do it married. ... (read in full...)
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