Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!
Q. Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...
A. 19 March 2015: Maybe you're just chasing after the wong girls? Talking to girls who already get a lot of attention usually aren't the ones who will act interested in anyone else. Those gals are used to being in the spotlight and have no reason to take any inte... (read in full...)
I'm married and have fallen for a boss at work
Q. Hi, I'm really hoping someone can help me. Im facing the worst predicament I've ever had in my life. I'm 27 and have a very good job, I am exceeding in my career and facing a huge promotion in a few months time. I'm married to a very nice man an...
A. 19 March 2015: Don't cheat on your husband and child. You will ruin your future. This man obviously isn't willing to leave his wife, so the most you could ever be is a mistress. But being a mistress would also make you a cheater. Do your really want that? Just... (read in full...)
I know this sounds daft but could he be the guy for me?
Q. I'm all very confused by what to do, this is the full story. This started ages ago at Nursery, we were 3 and inseparable, we came out of school together first week and our Mums became best of friends, still are to this day. We followed each ...
A. 19 March 2015: Maybe he's just intimidated by you. He likely thinks you're attractive and because he's known you forever, probably thinks he doesn't have a chance with you.
If you're interested in him, why not tell him? What do you have to lose if your moms are... (read in full...)
Are we too young to settle down?
Q. Am I making a mistake by not dating others and exploring my options? I'm twenty and my boyfriend is nineteen and we've been together for almost three years now. We've been through so much together. He helped me overcome my anxiety and depressi...
A. 19 March 2015: You know, my grandma told me this, and her mother told her this: The more you see of others, the less satisfied you'll be with what you find. In other words, they were saying that dating around often makes your expectations higher with each new ... (read in full...)
There is no sex in our relationship and I can't figure out why!
Q. ive asked for help on this site before and do appreciate any insight on my issue. im a 48 year old female living with a 30 year old male. the issue is sex... he wont touch me and says its not me. i cant help to think that it is. he has made many ...
A. 19 March 2015: Wait, what? Back up. He said it's 'not you', but makes excues of it being 'your age' and 'just not attracted to you anymore'? How is that him not blaming you? I'm not saying this is your fault, because it is his. However, he is clearly blaming ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my FWB man. Should I end it? I don't think he'll leave his g/f for me
Q. I'm in a total quandary! I've been in a "friends with benefits" relationship for over two years with a guy who has a girlfriend, but whom he is mostly only with for financial "trapped" reasons. Debts and life's stresses mean it is nigh on impossible ...
A. 19 March 2015: She cannot force him to have sex with her. He is consenting. Whatever blackmail she's using against him still isn't forcing him, as he still has the option to refuse. After all, if she lets go of her blackmail, he's technically free, isn't he. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my FWB guy and feel bad about it!
Q. okay dont judge me, but I know this guy who i met through work, we became friends but our friendship went to friends with benefits. we have been like that for about 3 years now. but recently i met this new guy at my new job who i thought was ...
A. 19 March 2015: Friends with Benefits usually indicates that you aren't exclusive, and are open to doing it with other people. You're not boyfriend/girlfriend, merely friends who have casual sex to mutually satisfy one's needs until one of you settles down.
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Why do some people twist everything around to make themselves look the victim?
Q. So last year I was in a bind. I needed some cash. Asked my baby daddy to help me call a few friends to see if they can help out. They did, except for one friend. This is the one friend who always acts so concerned and caring, always wanting to know ...
A. 19 March 2015: Unfortunately, some people are just rude and selfish. This woman is both. She has to be the center of attention, and what better way to do that than become the victim? But where would her victim pleas get her if she didn't involve her children? They ... (read in full...)
Comments about his best friend's new girl really upset me, am I being too jealous?
Q. I don't know if I'm being stupid or not with this but I would like help and advice as these sort of things go over and over in my mind. My boyfriends best friend moved to Australia a couple of months ago and he messaged my boyfriend the other da...
A. 19 March 2015: The fact that he showed you these messages suggests that it wasn't intended to mean anything, and was merely a friendly gesture between him and his friend. Unless your boyfriend has specifically said he has a thing for 'fit' girls, then you shou... (read in full...)
He broke my heart and I can't trust him, but I really want him back!
Q. So I need help getting over my ex, we split up last summer after being together for just over a year as i found out that he had been cheating on me after several times after i had already forgiven him for doing it once before. And the thing that ...
A. 19 March 2015: I can feel for you. Getting over an abusive relationship, and yes, that was abusive, is a hard thing to do. Unless one has gone through such a thing, they simply don't understand. This is what worked for me, and I genuinely hope it works for you... (read in full...)
He now lasts an hour and a half and I can't help him that long! Is this normal?
Q. I wondering if this was normal or not. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now. Before that he was single for 7 months. When we first started dating we fooled around every night for about a month and a half. At the beginning he woul...
A. 19 March 2015: Unless he has a medical condition, it could possibly be due to him getting used to your usual moves on him. He might be building up a tolerance for the feel of your hand and mouth, and while he still enjoys it, he just doesn't get the same thrill as ... (read in full...)
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