I'm down about not having much of a sex life recently...any suggestions?
Q. Okay, this is probably going to sound ridiculous.. But I keep getting really down about the fact I've not had much of a sex life recently. I last had sex/got intimate with someone in March, and last had sex with someone I loved a year ago.. And...
A. 17 August 2008: I agree with the answers given here, especially DoubleM....you should concentrate on whom you have sex with not how much sex you have!...it is like driving a car; if you try to drive faster after a week most probably you will have bad accidents but ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is sending me mixed signals, and I don't know if she wants sex or not, and I don't want to pressure her, please give me some advice?
Q. Hey Dear Cupid I have been going out with this girl for 2 months and she makes me go crazy for her. I love this girl. Lately I have been wanting sex... I don't know what to do because we would be making out and she just takes her top off and bra ...
A. 17 August 2008: I agree with the others as well...and believe me it is really worth waiting and postponing a couple of weeks more (2 months is a bit too early); tease her and tease her again and finally when she's confident and ready, she will push you onto to bed ... (read in full...)
I'm a very insecure man and I lied to her about really stupid stuff. Do I have a chance with her?
Q. I have worked with this woman for two years. We finally met in April and immediatly started to date. I am a very, very insecure man and I lied about some really stupid stuff. She found out one by one (there were three) and each time I told here ...
A. 17 August 2008: If it was me, I would book a table in a nice restaurant, do everything I can to convince her to come and before she says anything I would tell her everything honestly, why you did that and what was your final intention (to really make a hit on ... (read in full...)
This is doing my head in, I want him back, but I don't know how.
Q. i started seein an ex a couple of months ago. We were gettin on really well althogh he made it clear from the start that he didnt want anything heavy and committed, as he had just come out of a relationship. But naturally as time passed, I wanted ...
A. 11 August 2008: I think you already appeared too desperate there dear, texting him after just a week.....leave a couple of weeks go by without contacting him in any way and then plan to "accidentally" bumps into him while going shopping for example and watch ... (read in full...)
Is she the right one for me?
Q. Hi all, I have a question to ask and desperately need some suggestions! I have been dating this girl for 6 years now, yes that long and we have decided to move to another country to improve our standards in life. All is getting better and bette...
A. 11 August 2008: A big thank you to everyone for sending your views...
..keep them coming; I haven't made a decision yet; it is a very serious one and I am really afraid that I will destroy her life if I decide to end this relationship as she is really looking forw... (read in full...)
I'm having a problem with unscrewing a ball on my eyebrow bar, please help !
Q. I got my eyebrow pierced about 4 days ago. It isnt a problem or anything that i am asking but how do i get to take it out so that i can clean the bar? :P I had tried to twist the balls on the top and bottom but they are to tight. any sugg...
A. 11 August 2008: I am sure someone with a good amount of patience and someone who is careful enough can use two good long nose pliers and unscrew it. Most probably it will leave scratch marks on the bar and ball but I wouldn't worry about it, you can still get a new ... (read in full...)
I need help to cope with my confusing friend!
Q. My friends too confusing. Ive been good friends with my friend for around three years. Recently we have got loads closer and was seeing eachother/phoning/texting each other loads. There wasn't a day go by without half a dozen texts from her or a 2 h...
A. 10 August 2008: Hi,
I think the best thing to do is to ask her to meet somewhere you used to go to and talk this over a coffee or something...sometimes it's amazing how insignificant things can be interpreted in the wrong ways sometimes so the best way would be t... (read in full...)
How do I get to meet boys when I have no friends living close?
Q. hi there, okay so i am a 15yr old girl. I havnt had a boyfriend or even been kissed yet :( Like you watch films and read books and that with romance and whatever in it, and it just makes you feel you want to have a boyfriend - however sad that...
A. 10 August 2008: Hi, I think you should try to get out a bit more even if it's just shopping or running normal errands in town but don't become obsessed with it.
I've learned that if you go out 10 times and 9 of them you have in mind to get back home with a d... (read in full...)
Why do I never get invited out on a second date?
Q. I am 35yrs old I am fairly secure with myself I am confident of my self worth, my life, friends, personality etc but since spliting with my LT boyfriend 6yrs ago I have had only one boyfriend which lasted 6 months last year (2007) and around 10 ...
A. 9 August 2008: I agree with both ladies here: don't ever give up, your "one" might be just round the corner and yes why not give him a call a few days after your first date if you're interested? Some girls simply exclude the possibility of asking a man out ... (read in full...)
Oral Sex Phobia? What's his problem?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I give him oral sex at least 5 times a week. He has never performed it on me and when ever I ask him, he doesn't give me an answer as to way he won't perform on me. He has never given oral sex to ...
A. 9 August 2008: Face him openly: ask him if there's something wrong with your downstairs...if it is try anti bacterial delicate wash; it works for my gf. One more advice: don't threaten him that you'll not do more oral on him, just reduce the no of times slowly ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a porn addiction. He does't seem to find me sexually attractive.
Q. I have a problem and I really don't even know what to think of it anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He's kind, intelligent, gentle, loving, and generally amazing to me. The only problem is that he has a porn addiction. He's ...
A. 9 August 2008: I agree with baddogbj: does he and do you like camping out? Try planning going camping for a couple of days, it could be a good occasion to feel closer together and get more intimate with him since he will not have access to porn....unless he ... (read in full...)
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