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writes: hi there,okay so i am a 15yr old girl. I havnt had a boyfriend or even been kissed yet :(Like you watch films and read books and that with romance and whatever in it, and it just makes you feel you want to have a boyfriend - however sad that soundsI dont get out much coz all of my friends dont live anywhere near me!so basically I am trying to ask how do i get the attention?any sugggestions or ideas would be really helpful!thanks for your time, X Reply to this Question
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reader, Limits  +, writes (10 August 2008):
Hi, I think you should try to get out a bit more even if it's just shopping or running normal errands in town but don't become obsessed with it.
I've learned that if you go out 10 times and 9 of them you have in mind to get back home with a date, it is on the 10th that you'll meet someone, maybe on a visit to the local supermarket....so patience is the key and don't make it a point that you must kiss someone by that age or have sex by that age; that is bs: it is better to kiss the first time at 25 and have a really nice romance than go on and off between several dates and still not finding what you expect.
I think it is better to concentrate on detecting those signs of interesting parties when they come...good luck.
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 i had a sweet sixteen! i think my first kiss was after my 16th birthday. and imagine, i went to an all girls high school... it wasn't easy meeting boys! and although we are a long way off, i just want you to know that the media skews everything. it shows people kissing and having sex at young ages... i didn't lose my virginity until college!
now i know more boys than i know what to do with! so take things slow, i haven't regretted it!
if you do want attention though, just go to public places with friends and have a good time. focus on making your social group larger. the more guys you know, the more friends of guys you can meet. the more girls you know, the more hot brothers you are bound to run into!
if you just try to make friends with everyone, eventually someone will want a little more than that. good luck!
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reader, thats_not_my_name  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 hey! well first of all you are not alone on the whole 'never been kissed' thing....i'm 15 and i've never been kissed either! i have very few friends who are boys and the only one i vaguely like lives far away! so i feel your pain! maybe there are some youth groups or clubs in your area that you could join? somewhere where you can meet boys your own age who live in your area. but also don't feel like you need to rush into getting a bf and don't fell pressured into doing it, wait until you are ready. there's plenty of time! :) hope i helped if you ever need to talk just message me :) xxxxxxx
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