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*uperbunny
writes:Okay, this is probably going to sound ridiculous..But I keep getting really down about the fact I've not had much of a sex life recently.I last had sex/got intimate with someone in March, and last had sex with someone I loved a year ago.. And it's getting me seriously down and I have no idea why but I wish it would stop because I don't want to have another one night stand because, to me, they are not satisfying..The last person I slept with I really regretted because I got pregnant and to be honest, he really really hurt me.. I don't want to go into details but I am not longer pregnant. It was all a mistake, I know, but things are sorted. Anyway, I just can't stand the fact he was the last person who I slept with....I was just wondering if there was anyway to satisfy myself properly or cheer myself up and get myself over this state of mind... xx
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reader, Limits  +, writes (17 August 2008):
I agree with the answers given here, especially DoubleM....you should concentrate on whom you have sex with not how much sex you have!...it is like driving a car; if you try to drive faster after a week most probably you will have bad accidents but if you concentrate on driving good, speed will come with time...take care.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 I'm afraid that I'll just sound like some old fuddy-duddy who just says, "Get over it." But you are way too young to be depressed at this point. I'd really like to know what is going on in the Kingdom where it seems that every young girl is fucking and sucking from the early teens on and gets depressed if not getting enough of it. I say this earnestly. What is going on over there? It would seem that I'm in the wrong place - Texas. Well anyway, you are really so young to be fretting over not getting enough sex, when you are most certain to have plenty throughout your life. There must be some good guy, maybe not the most handsome but nice and clean, who would love to make love to you and may even last a lifetime. My advice is to check around wherever you go, flash a smile when you spot a man remotely attractive (young or older) and you will find love.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (17 August 2008):
 Buy a dildo. Or a vibrator.
I'm not joking here. These things are amazing. They sometimes satisfy you better than a man.
Don't feel ashamed for owning one. You probably won't regret it once you use it.
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