Why is he like this?
Q. There's this guy in class who took my number from a friend and started texting me. We texted for a few weeks and in class he keeps on looking at me and we smile to each other but we've never talked in person before. Recently he stopped talking to ...
A. 13 July 2011: There is no way for us to know for sure. Why don't you ask him?... (read in full...)
Rejected by her once before, but should I try again or will I make a fool of myself ?
Q. Hi all i was wondering what is everyone's views on a guy proposing twice. should he do it? to be more exact there is this girl whom i dated for a month and we got really close. as a matter of fact you would have sworn she was more into me than i w...
A. 13 July 2011: Hey, I read your whole post. I would probably ask her why she didn't want to be in a relationship with you the first time around. It could be any number of reasons. Communicating questions with her, even questions that may put you in a vulnerable ... (read in full...)
My neighbor thinks I still like her and I don't
Q. About a month ago my neighbor found out that I liked her. I have moved on and an completely over her by now. But sadly she still has this crazy notion that I still like her. She has a boyfriend that lives with her, and they constantly talk rea...
A. 27 January 2009: If you don't like her, then ignore her. Don't send her text messages, don't poke her on Facebook, don't give her smiles, don't wave at her - basically, don't lead her on in any way. And if she still thinks you like her, let her think that. Wha... (read in full...)
Can his problem be fixed or Is it his age?
Q. I am a 34 year old women and my boyfriend is 46.my boyfriend was real sexualy active and big.up til about 2yrs ago he has not been so active his penis has gotten small.when we do have sex his penis gets hard for a few minutes then goes limp.what can ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hello; communication with your boyfriend will be the key. Being very sensitive and sincere, talk to him about the issue. 46 is still pretty young. And he should be extremely excited to be in bed with a woman more than ten years younger. Ask ... (read in full...)
Why do girls think I am looking at them?
Q. The problem is every time I am around a girl they always think that I'm looking at them. Now, I don't know if it is just curtain girls being really vain, or if it is something that I am doing to make girls think that I am looking at them. Sometimes...
A. 27 January 2009: I agree with your girlfriend. Who cares what other people think? You have a right to look at anything you want. Looking at someone is not a crime, and neither is looking like you are looking at someone. By the way, how do you know these girls... (read in full...)
He can't seem to perform and only wants oral sex
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for little over two months now. We have a wonderful relationship overall, but have been facing some issues when it comes to sex. He seems to love (almost prefer) oral sex and we do that the majority of the time. ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hi, thanks for sharing. As with many other relationship issues, I think the key to your solution is COMMUNICATION. There is absolutely no way to tell what's on his mind if you don't ask him. There could be a million different reasons a guy is... (read in full...)
Why is 1st love so hard to get over?
Q. Why is it always so hard (so fucking hard) to get over my first love?! It’s killing me inside really. Well, not really, but it’s almost equivalent to something eating me from the inside. Is it harder to get over someone you’ve lost your virgin...
A. 27 January 2009: Your first love is especially hard to get over for the simple fact that it is your first time experiencing true heart break. Things will get better, but it will take time. As many wise men have stated, behind every heart break is an even greater ... (read in full...)
Why am I not considered girlfriend material?
Q. Every single guy that I have been with treated me badly and I dotn knwo why. Im smart, fun, tall and pretty (people tell me I look like a model) but not like fake tanned blonde bimbos, I harldy wear any make up. Im also interesting to talk to (I ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hello, you sound like a wonderful woman. You are young, pretty, have many positive qualities, and you can genuinely say this with no arrogance or conceit. I would love to date you and see if we are fit for a serious relationship. However, it so... (read in full...)
Guy who says I am his future girlfriend but cannot date me now due to the ex baby mama?
Q. Recently, after knowing a cute male coworker for awhile he asked me for a kiss at happy hour. I did not kiss him since he had a girlfriend but they were breaking up. Anyhow later the girlfriend discovered she was pregnant so I really did not want ...
A. 26 January 2009: He said he loves you but you haven't heard from him since Halloween of 2008? This doesn't sound like a promising relationship.
Chances are he is using you for emotional support. The breakup with his baby-mama was very hard for him, and having y... (read in full...)
Do you think my wife will love me again?
Q. Dear sir,madam I'm a married man, my wife is from philipinnes, I'm from ireland... recently my wife told me she don't love me any more, she said she's met someone else?... now we are ok and she don't have contact any more with that person.. she ...
A. 26 January 2009: In my opinion, marriage is the most sacred of commitments. Your wife was obviously attracted to you and loved you enough to marry you, which is fantastic. Now that some time has passed, she must CHOOSE and DECIDE to continue to love you.
The s... (read in full...)
Like me, like me, or lusty lusty?
Q. It's this boy at my school that me and two of my homegirls like. He gave one of the girls' some hickeys on her neck and touched on her, and the other irl a kiss. He always spoke to me and I know he likes me, but he never tried to touch, kiss, ...
A. 26 January 2009: It sounds like he likes you a lot. Often times guys have no problem being a player with girls they don't care about. But when a guy meets someone he likes, possibly even loves, he gets much more emotional and careful. Let him make the first m... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is making me sad/depressed
Q. Dear Cupid, I am going through a really hard time in my life right now with a guy. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now and all of which has basically been off and on. We fight all the time now and break up almost every couple of ...
A. 26 January 2009: It sounds like you need to leave this guy as quickly as possible. Stop hanging out with him, stop seeking comfort from him. Break off your relationship with him. The most important factor in any relationship is communication, and if he's not ... (read in full...)
I don't think he has enough room for her and me
Q. ok how should i go about this relationship and am i wrong to feel this was? that is the question now here is the scenerio...i have been dating this man seriously for near a year, he is overall good to me and a joy to be around BUT he has an ex that ...
A. 26 January 2009: You are absolutely correct. A good man chooses and has room for only ONE woman.
Name a fairy tale where the prince and princess live happily ever after along with the prince's ex-girlfriend. No such story exists.
Your man needs to get rid... (read in full...)
Battling my thoughts vs obsessive vibe
Q. Sorry if this is long, but any input will be appreciated. I am currently 22, and in all of my relationships I have always been the type of guy who was never fully committed. Even is I was taken, I would still hold sexual conversations wi...
A. 26 January 2009: It sounds like you are overcomplicating an extremely simple issue. If you love the girl you are with, do not cheat on her in any way, shape or form. Period.... (read in full...)
I recently moved in with him but now I want to move on!
Q. How do you tell your partner of 4 years (with whom you have recently moved in with) that your heart is just not in the relationship and that it is time to move on. This will seem really out the blue, and i am so afraid of breaking his heart. :(...
A. 26 January 2009: Hello, thank you for writing. It is very admirable that you are considering his feelings amidst your upcoming breakup. As in most cases with relationships, open communication is key. You need to tell him exactly how you feel. If you're heart ... (read in full...)
I feel undesireable as a friend & a girlfriend
Q. I don't feel my friends or parents really udnerstand it, and I was hoping you would. I feel frustrated because I ahven't had a boyfriend for almost two years now. I am about to begin student teaching and I feel nervous and unsure of myself. I fe...
A. 26 January 2009: Hello anonymous, thank you for sharing your feelings. I can tell from the few words you have written that you are a wonderful person. You talk about love and making friends. Best of all, you have one of the most wonderfully rewarding careers ... (read in full...)
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