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I told my friend I liked a guy at school and she promised not to tell anyone... And now everyone knows!

Q.   I admitted to a friend recently that i really like a guy at school but i made her swear not to tell anyone. However the day after everyone of my friends knew. I confronted her about it but she just denied it. Later, she came to my house after school ...

A.   7 May 2006: i can understand where u r this i also had a friend who done this but she went a step further + slept with my husband who i divorced+i forgave her but when she tried it on with my new man well i dumped her,no decent friend would do that 2 any 1, u ... (read in full...)

Its all over and I wish I could erase the memories we shared!!

Q.   I've been in a long distance realtionship for two years with my girlfriend who has a five year old son. I found out from someone that my girlfriend was pregnant for someone else where she works and she was at least 4 months. She never told me. I ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi we can never erase the memories of the past only move on from them you say ur in lv with this girl yet u want 2 split what she done is bad but 2 become pregnant 4 her is worse if she trully lvd u she will have 2 live with the concequences .living ... (read in full...)

My partners ex came round and the exs best friend is always hanging around our house!!

Q.   Help,I am in steady relationship, my partners ex came round to the house on a Saturday pm, and played with thier son for an hour ( late evening ), must add that I work away from home..Am I being paranoid, I told partner that this is not right, but ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi no i dont agree that his ex should come round when ur not there or her friend its time u stopped this as it will destroy your relationship ur man should make arrangements 4 his ex 2 pick up her child at a reasonable hr if this is not possible ... (read in full...)

What's the difference between "loving" and "being in love with" someone?

Q.   Hi, My partner and I had a discussion on 'just loving someone' and 'being in love'. He doesn't see a difference. He believes that when two people are in a relationship and they love each other then they are 'in love together'. This came abou...

A.   1 May 2006: hi put your mind at ease ur man is very much in lv with u iv been in 3 failed relationships so i should know every thing uv said there tells me so bein in lv+ loving ur partner is not much different at the begining of a relationship we feel excited ... (read in full...)

I feel like an idiot and my self-esteem is zero! All because he watches Porn. Advice needed

Q.   Should my partner view porn on line know that we live together?? I am not a prude, have owned a vibrator, have watched porn with my partner but for some reason i thought that once we moved in together, personal satisfaction would not be required so ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi im not really a big fan of porn+can understand why ur feeling this way my only advice is 2 talk 2 him explain that u feel degraded that he'd rather watch porn than spend time with u tell him u love him + would rather he make lv 2 u than watch ... (read in full...)

I slept with the father of my son but I dont want to be back with him and dont want to hurt my bf!!

Q.   What am i going to do? Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months and love him to pieces.My sons father came over and stayed the night and i ended up sleeping with him. He told me he cares for me and would like us to get back together but i dont want ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi if you really want to end your relationship with your boyfriend the go ahead tell him but if u do lv this man 2 pieces dont ul only hurt him + he will walk away from you,but you really need to ask ur self why did u sleep with ur ex was it 4 sex ... (read in full...)

He's in jail because of me, but now I miss him!

Q.   I am in a relationship that has lasted four years. my partner has been abusing me starting four months into the relationship. we have a two year old child. my partner has an alcohol addiction. I have had a restraining order since I was pregnant. ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi first of all stop beating ur self up over this ur man is 2 blame 4 this not you ,uv had a lot 2 deal with he is the 1 with the addiction the 1st time he raised his voice there +then he should have seeked help living with an addict of any kind is ... (read in full...)

I slept with a girl on Holiday before we dated, but I told her I didn't, I'm feeling quilty.

Q.   I have told my girlfriend that I didn’t sleep with this girl on holiday. It was before we started seeing each other. This type of thing has come up before and she has already told me that she would finish with me if I told her that I haven’t slept ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi stop getting ur self tied up in knots u where not with her when u slept with this other girl if your girl will in some way cross paths with the other girl then by all means tell her but on the other hand if not then dont its none of her buisness ... (read in full...)

I dated him and found out he was a she, we split but now I miss him!

Q.   This is an embarrassing problem, so if you have nothing worthwhile to say, buzz off. Nearly two years ago, I met a guy via long-distance, and ended up dating him after two months or so. He was my first boyfriend and I ended up getting VERY attached ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi i can understand ur very confused u entered a relationship assuming ur partner was a man by the time u found out he was a she you where already attached trying 2 walk away when ur hearts saying other is hard i dont think u are a lesbine i think u ... (read in full...)

Everything is fine but for some reason I dont trust him anymore!

Q.   hiya.. I've been seeing my boyfirnd a couple of months now..it was going great at first, we enjoyed doing the same things, watching the same films.. I think i am falling in love with him but for some reason i dont trust him anymore!! I dont see the ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi i think you are scared that your falling in love as it takes away ur control over things thats whats making you feel this way find out how he feels about you as it might also be that your scared ul frighten him off ul prob find he feels the same ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but want to have sex with my boyfriend, I'm scared of the pain.

Q.   Hi I am a 20 year old virgin... I can get almost any guy but the problem is that I'm scared of the pain. My boyfriend and I try having sex a lot but it seems like he's killing me down there and it hurts... Should I take some medicine b4? I need some ...

A.   1 May 2006: hi i was a virgin once +remember feeling like you when you +ur boyfriend get together dont think about having full sex as it seems to scare you have lots of 4play explore each other till the time when ur so comfy with ur man then ul be more relaxed ... (read in full...)

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