Why is he apologising now?
Q. My Exboyfriend texted me to say "I am truly sorry for all that I did to you. I hope things are well, I miss you (petname)." He cheated on me and left me for another woman 6 months ago. We were together 6 years. He has sent a couple messages like ...
A. 8 March 2011: "I am truly sorry for all that I did to you."
I wouldn't accept this. Such a weak statement and no apology at all. He cannot even say it to your face or in a silly text WHAT he is apologising for.
When it is sincere, people have the courage... (read in full...)
How do I start loving myself and feel worthy? my self esteem is at rock bottom
Q. Will I ever feel good enough is the question. I am nearly 36 and to cut a long story short, I feel pretty worthless and not good enough and not accepted and worry about being judged and people realising this about me. I am fairly sure it stems from ...
A. 2 March 2011: Hi,
You have a very sad story and I feel sad for you when I read all you have been through.
Life has not often been easy for me. A difficult childhood including abuse led to my own self-esteem problems and fear intimacy as i entered adulthoo... (read in full...)
Will he settle for second best?
Q. I really hope some of you kind people can help me out. Five years ago, I started a relationship with a man who wasn't completely over his ex girlfriend of 8 years. In the beginning, he played me around - going dating behind my back, not turnin...
A. 31 January 2011: so, what is your question to the people here? what feedback are you looking for? what are you trying to explore within YOURSELF!
how truthful were you being when telling him you accept and respect his relationship if it makes him happy? is that ... (read in full...)
Performance anxiety... what is it and how do I fix it?
Q. I am in a time of my life where I am so happy. I met a wonderful man back in early July at a time when I just ended a relationship with emotionally unavailable man. My boyfriend is a wonderful man. He makes me feel loved, adored, safe, respected and ...
A. 12 October 2010: hi all! thank you for taking the time to respond. we had this past weekend together and had some excellent intimate time together! i started it at a party we went to when a question came up of, 'if you were allowed one celebratory to have a 'pass'... (read in full...)
She told me she wants to see me again but she doesn't know when, am I just wasting my time here?
Q. I have this lady friend I'm very much in Love with, we have met and talked on the phone and text each other a lot at first. When I went to see her I stayed for three days. We made Love a couple of times and it was great, I enjoyed her company ...
A. 14 July 2010: hi,
you sound like a male version of myself! i fell in love with a man who behaved like this lady you describe.
what it boils down to is this. she cannot commit to being with you and she cannot commit to being without you and I am afraid this ... (read in full...)
How do you have anal sex painlessly?
Q. my boyfriend wants to penetrate me from the 'rear' can anyone offer advice on how to do it painlessly?...
A. 9 July 2010: lots and lots of lubricant, like KY Jelly and tell him to enter very, very slowly.
i would advise, don't go straight into the anal penetration, have some nice foreplay to get you both relaxed and in the groove.... (read in full...)
Is she scared because she thinks I want to be more than friends?
Q. *OP's Original Title* Hi. I've known this girl for 4 months; I'm 39 and she is 26; I work with her. We hanged out mostly in groups and she is the type of girl who has lots of male friends; we also hanged out together on a few occasions going fo...
A. 27 June 2010: Crikey - Nevermind what's going on with the girl...what is YOU want from her?
I've read your post twice and cannot fathom what you are after from her - friendship or dating? ... (read in full...)
Am I setting myself up to fail?
Q. Hi All Bit of a strange one this! I met a guy online about 3 months ago, and we met up in town for lunch, we spent the afternoon in town, then he text me that night, said he had a good time etc. I called him and arranged the next date, we met at ...
A. 25 June 2010: hello, i can only speak from my own experience of meeting a guy myself via online dating. we dated for around 4 months and the last two months i have spent trying to put some distance between us. i wish i had a sensible head as you do! i spoke... (read in full...)
Does he want a relationship or not?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, I met a man at the end of last year. He was eight months separated from his wife, with divorce pending. He is a loving dad and misses spending every day with his children terribly. He did try and work things out with ...
A. 15 June 2010: Thank you for taking the time to respond Jilly. I think I definitely have an 'emotionally unavailable' man on my hands. To answer your question, we met via an online dating site. We have both removed our profiles since meeting. Me, back in march, ... (read in full...)
Does he want a relationship or not?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, I met a man at the end of last year. He was eight months separated from his wife, with divorce pending. He is a loving dad and misses spending every day with his children terribly. He did try and work things out with ...
A. 15 June 2010: Thank you anon. Very wise advice and I appreciate it. I am not sure when we will next see each other and that is why I sent the letter. It was the first time I had admitted to loving him. I would rather have a face to face with him but, like you ... (read in full...)
How is it possible to start falling for someone so quickly?
Q. I have been divorced for about 2 years, and been on a few dates. The longest I have seen someone was about a month. I meet a girl at work (she asked me out) and we have been talking all week for hours till 1 or 2 in the morning. The weird thing is I ...
A. 14 May 2010: hello,
well, i can tell you a little about my experience with a man i adore who, when we met, was is a similar position to you. he was 1 year separated (now divorced), we met in December, talked on the phone a lot before meeting for a date in Janu... (read in full...)
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