The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: Thank you all for your kind words.
Chigirl:
Of course I wouldn't spill it out right away, but if she asks I just tell her?
maverick494:
20 does appear a long way back from where I stand now, but I do see your point and let me just say you'... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: Where I live people are not very... understanding. If I was to tell a girl that I am a virgin that will kill my chances at once. It's not like I'm proud of lying, but what to do?
Like chigirl said: Yes, I do admit, my alarms go off when I meet a... (read in full...)
Small penis is not satisfying my partner!
Q. i am 47 year old having small penis 2.6 inch erected length. i feel i am not satisfying my partner fully is there any technic by wich i can satisfy my partner. ...
A. 4 June 2010: I don't have any actual advice on this, but let me just say that I admire you. Your wife/girlfriend should feel blessed with someone who cares so deeply.... (read in full...)
How does a guy get that kind of attention?
Q. I'm a guy and I'm 24. The thing is I'm still a virgin and at this point it really feels like I'll never have a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I'm more likely to believe that I've got a better chance at ending world hunger rather than landing a date. ...
A. 7 October 2009: Thank you.
I keep coming back here with more problems every now and then, but you guys make sense. And the problems are more complicated each time so that means I must've gotten over the previous ones I had. Progress!
Again - thanks a million... (read in full...)
How does a guy get that kind of attention?
Q. I'm a guy and I'm 24. The thing is I'm still a virgin and at this point it really feels like I'll never have a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I'm more likely to believe that I've got a better chance at ending world hunger rather than landing a date. ...
A. 7 October 2009: Yep, seems that way. It's just that I'm slow to learn and I'm also slow to connect.
Just now I had a conversation with a great girl (colleague of mine), but I just couldn't keep it up. I was too stressed about what to ask her and what she woul... (read in full...)
I've let my insecurities get the better of me and just stuff everything up...
Q. I don't know what to do.. i feel as though my relationship, more myself has gone off track by a mile. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and am 19 and in the past year have become overly obsessive and insecure. i really don't kno...
A. 5 October 2009: Let me just say I am stunned by your level of self-awareness.
Insecurity is something we're all dealing with. With some of us it's worse, but I assure you that everyone has it.
So listen up, babe:
You're obviously very committed to this re... (read in full...)
How does a guy get that kind of attention?
Q. I'm a guy and I'm 24. The thing is I'm still a virgin and at this point it really feels like I'll never have a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I'm more likely to believe that I've got a better chance at ending world hunger rather than landing a date. ...
A. 5 October 2009: Alright, it seems like I put a lot of emphasize on the "sex" matter.
In reality, I don't even give a damn about sex. I'm just a bit tired of being single while other guys have to beat girls off with a stick. I'm pushing 25 and what've I got to s... (read in full...)
How does a guy get that kind of attention?
Q. I'm a guy and I'm 24. The thing is I'm still a virgin and at this point it really feels like I'll never have a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I'm more likely to believe that I've got a better chance at ending world hunger rather than landing a date. ...
A. 4 October 2009: That part with the 10 times makes much more sense. Thanks, dude.
Best of luck with your lady.... (read in full...)
How does a guy get that kind of attention?
Q. I'm a guy and I'm 24. The thing is I'm still a virgin and at this point it really feels like I'll never have a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I'm more likely to believe that I've got a better chance at ending world hunger rather than landing a date. ...
A. 4 October 2009: No, it doesn't work that way, see?
Women are messed up when it comes to "caring". If you're caring they walk over you, because you come off as "not manly", because a real man would not care. He takes what he wants, he doesn't ask for it. At least... (read in full...)
At this point she doesn't even know I exist!
Q. Hey, I'm a guy, 24 years old and recently I started a new job. The place is great and most of the people are really nice. THe HUGE problem is that I'm a total looser. I'm one of those introverted melancholy type of people. Not to mention I...
A. 13 July 2009: It's not fair to say that, Charlotte. The events that you've been through shape your identity. I am who I am, because of the things I've been through. Either way..
I asked around about her today and, oh what a surprise, she has a guy. Figures.... (read in full...)
At this point she doesn't even know I exist!
Q. Hey, I'm a guy, 24 years old and recently I started a new job. The place is great and most of the people are really nice. THe HUGE problem is that I'm a total looser. I'm one of those introverted melancholy type of people. Not to mention I...
A. 12 July 2009: But my idea of exploration is hardly that exciting. And I've tried being spontaneous and passionate, but I'm just not. I'm introverted and even though I've been told over the years that intro and extro are not bad or good, it seems that being ... (read in full...)
He talked non stop the entire date but never mentioned a second date. Now what?
Q. I recently went out with a guy whom I'd met online. We met up after about 1 week of emailing. The date was drinks only. There were no awkward silences and we spent about 2.5 hours together. The only thing is that he talked most of the time. I ...
A. 11 July 2009: That's weird.
Well, I think first and foremost you should come to terms with the fact that you two may not have clicked. That's what dating is all about, right? You put your cards on the table and hope for the best, but most of the time it doesn... (read in full...)
At this point she doesn't even know I exist!
Q. Hey, I'm a guy, 24 years old and recently I started a new job. The place is great and most of the people are really nice. THe HUGE problem is that I'm a total looser. I'm one of those introverted melancholy type of people. Not to mention I...
A. 11 July 2009: After a few weeks? Wouldn't that be kinda slow or...?
I guess I'm not that much of a looser, because I do smile and I did say hi to her a couple of times and so on, but it's just weird. She looks like someone who, unlike me, has a life and a re... (read in full...)
I finally figured it out. I am melancholic!
Q. Yes. After all those years of suffering and headbanging, I got it - this is who I am. This is not exactly a question although it would be nice if it can develop a life of it's own. It's just that today it hit me and I had to share with someone. ...
A. 23 June 2009: I don't believe there is a way to change. You just accept who you are and deal with it. That's it.
And, yeah, girls are looking for talkative chaps. Somehow that's a sign for confidence or something. ... (read in full...)
Do you guys think I'm way in over my head with her or should I ask her out?
Q. Alrighty then. I'll try to make this as brief to the best of my abilities. I'm 24, she's 22. We met in a forum where artists gather and discuss... whatever it is we discuss. Few words about her: She's cute (I'd give her a 7 out of 10), sort of...
A. 22 June 2009: Hey,
I thought I'd give you guys an update.
So I asked her out (skype) and she said nothing. As if she chose to ignore me.
So uhm I went on the date and waited for about 45 minutes and she didn't show up. It was sort of bad at first, but th... (read in full...)
Do you guys think I'm way in over my head with her or should I ask her out?
Q. Alrighty then. I'll try to make this as brief to the best of my abilities. I'm 24, she's 22. We met in a forum where artists gather and discuss... whatever it is we discuss. Few words about her: She's cute (I'd give her a 7 out of 10), sort of...
A. 10 June 2009: Thank you.
I know you're only trying to help and I'm being a total d*ck about it. But come to think of it, I'll always have plenty of excuses not to go through, which is exactly why I'm gonna go for it.
Even if I fail at least I'll sleep better... (read in full...)
What are some good chat-up lines that aren't cheesy but work?
Q. Hi, I was just hoping that guys and girls could help me out with chat-up lines. I'm not really a fan of them but maybe something to break the ice. Good ones though, not cheesy ;) So girls: Any chat-up lines that have never failed to work? And ...
A. 10 June 2009: Not a pro at this, but it seems that it all stems from inside. So it's not that much about what you say, but how you say it.
Where I work there two young twins and I see them on a daily basis, but the other day I was feeling really cheery and as t... (read in full...)
Do you guys think I'm way in over my head with her or should I ask her out?
Q. Alrighty then. I'll try to make this as brief to the best of my abilities. I'm 24, she's 22. We met in a forum where artists gather and discuss... whatever it is we discuss. Few words about her: She's cute (I'd give her a 7 out of 10), sort of...
A. 10 June 2009: I know I'm self sabotaging this, but I've got issues :(
Among being really skinny (6ft 135lbs) I've got another thing that's really bothering me. I'm... I've never been with a woman before. I mean ever.
And, yeah, I know it's probably in ... (read in full...)
Do you guys think I'm way in over my head with her or should I ask her out?
Q. Alrighty then. I'll try to make this as brief to the best of my abilities. I'm 24, she's 22. We met in a forum where artists gather and discuss... whatever it is we discuss. Few words about her: She's cute (I'd give her a 7 out of 10), sort of...
A. 10 June 2009: It's not that simple. I'm really NOT cool. Actually I am boring most of the time and don't have lots of subjects to discuss. She, on the other hand, is very social. Events, concerts, you name it. It's like we're from different worlds. If I w... (read in full...)
Was he attracted to me or am I wrong?
Q. Dear Cupid readers well yesterday my friend and i went out yesterday evening we went for a wander down by a harbour we had a chat about this and that. anyways she's been texting a boy shes met up with before and she was texting him and told him...
A. 8 June 2009: If I had a nickle for every time that happened.
But, yeah, I'd say he fell for you.... (read in full...)
He's socially awkward, what do I do?
Q. hi my man is not very social. he is awkward in social situations and around my friends. when we are alone he is so nice and chatty and outgoing. it feels like he has a split personality. its especially hard when my friends etc are like "why are you ...
A. 8 June 2009: Well, let me just say it's very nice you appreciate who he really is and that you stick with him.
I know what you're talking about especially considering I am pretty socially inadequate myself, but maybe to not such an extent.
There are... (read in full...)
Do all men masturbate even if they have frequent sex?
Q. do all men masturbate even if you have frequent sex? my boyfriend does fairly often, and it makes me feel very insecure, unattractive, un needed,and unwanted.(should it make me feel that way?) he says he loves me and wants us to be together. he also ...
A. 8 June 2009: Whilst I have no experience is the bed acrobatics, I can tell you that probably 99% of the world masturbates. Frequency depends, but I should say that we all do it.
A really good friend of mine has an amazingly hot girlfriend, but he tells me... (read in full...)
Too skinny to date?
Q. Yeah, that's it. I'm 24 now and if you look at me, you'd think I stopped developing when I was 14. 6ft and only 135-140 lbs which apparently is a huge turn off for girls. I'm not going to say I've tried everything in order to gain weight...
A. 8 June 2009: Wow, thanks, you guys. That was really nice of you.
Confidence is something else I need to address ASAP, but it's one of those things I treat with the "if only" attitude. The same way most people approach happiness:
If I had this car, I'd be ... (read in full...)
Too skinny to date?
Q. Yeah, that's it. I'm 24 now and if you look at me, you'd think I stopped developing when I was 14. 6ft and only 135-140 lbs which apparently is a huge turn off for girls. I'm not going to say I've tried everything in order to gain weight...
A. 7 June 2009: No, see?
People always tell you that no one is judgmental, but those are lies. No one is their right mind would pick a smaller apple over a bigger one. It's in human nature to reach out for the best.... (read in full...)
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