Can I trust my lover not to tell my Bf? Or will my Bf find out the man I slept with recently is a player?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 14 (I am now 30) I have only slept with him and I have never cheated or thought about cheating before. I work with a lot of men and we get on while but lately I found my self flirting and then came the text...
A. 19 August 2012: To be honest I think you should tell your boyfriend, if this guy has bragged before why won't he again? What makes you so special. Also you say you boyfriend doesn't deserve this, but you have go on to do it on more than once.
He deserves... (read in full...)
It broke my heart and I cried my eyes out!
Q. Okay I've never done this before and don't know where to even begin. The other night I did something stupid and went through my boyfriends msgs on facebook. We've been together for just over 5 weeks. We have just started renting a property in both ...
A. 30 July 2012: 5 weeks is so short and he's already emotionally cheating I'd say cut your loses and leave him and find someone who loves you for you ... (read in full...)
Can cheating be justified?
Q. if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified ...
A. 30 July 2012: Below poster when you make vows you say for better and for worse. So no your point is wrong. Why stay in a relationship for materialism? And kids if you are not happy simply leave. ... (read in full...)
Can cheating be justified?
Q. if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified ...
A. 28 July 2012: No how can it be justified? It shows lack of integrity an commitment to another person. It's disrespectful and shallow. If you partner is not willing to talk about the problems then just leave. How can cheating fill an emotional void because let's ... (read in full...)
Is it too much fir me to want my wife to wear a little make-up?
Q. I really need advice.I have been maried for 18 years.my question is we have one dissagrement I would really like it if my wife would wear a little mascara, eye shadow and lipstick.Not everyday just like three or four times a year.l love her she is ...
A. 26 July 2012: Lots of nice responses here, I agree though if she doesn't have a reason to dress up she won't. I wear makeup most days but go that extra mile when I go somewhere fancy. Don't force it on her she may resent you for that ... (read in full...)
Should we get engaged when we are this young?
Q. Hey Cupids, me and my bf have currently been discussing getting engaged to a point where i even heard him talking to his mom about rings. Im in my sophmore year of college and he is a freshman in college as well. We have been living together...
A. 26 July 2012: I don't think a relationship is much different from a steady commited relationship. As long as you are both comfortable it just adds a new label with marriage at the end. May I perhaps suggest a long long Long engagement. You have to be sure and you ... (read in full...)
How do I make my arms bigger?
Q. i need to help that what should i do for getting a big arms ? and i have been gyming for last 3 year but it doesn't work? so can anyone tell me what should i do...
A. 26 July 2012: It's a combination of food and dedication. You need to talk to a body builder they will direct you to the right strength training that will help you bulk out your arms. But need I stress diet is so important to build muscle.... (read in full...)
Texting: What boundaries are acceptable?
Q. I was just curious what boundaries various people think is acceptable when it comes to texting, having a few issues in my relationship because of this at the moment. In my opinion when you get in bed together to watch tv etc phones should be left ...
A. 26 July 2012: There's a time and a place for text and cuddle time is not one of them. Rather than argue talk openly and confront it. She's not on a relationship with her phone she's with you. And if she values you then maybe she should me sensitive and give you ... (read in full...)
Should I cheat on him?
Q. Ok ok I can do this _ SO! This is my first question on a site like this so... If this question is dumb please be gentle.. Sooo I have a boyfriend I love him a lot! The thing is it's long distance and things get a bit... lonely.. He's a total video ...
A. 8 June 2012: Don't cheat, it's not worth it. Break it off with him and have your fun but don't be with someone and lie and decive them. Sex is just not worth the ultimate betrayal.... (read in full...)
He says the cheating was a wake up call but now I'm scared he will do it again.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend Stuart for 5 months but recently we had a few problems. A couple of weeks ago a girl named katie added me on facebook, she is in my sisters year and I've heard she has a reputation and that she sleeps around. I was ...
A. 8 June 2012: She could just be stirring shit, or he could be lying. At the end of the day you will never know. The fact that he's cheated only 5 months into the relationship is pretty sad I would call that the honeymoon period. My boyfriend cheated on me too and ... (read in full...)
My married lover wants to start having sex with her husband but she wants me too!
Q. Hello, I am in a unique and hopeless situation and writing here with the hope that some of my friends will help/advise me to overcome this problem. I am married and emotional person and in intense relationship with co-worker for ...
A. 8 June 2012: She cannot have you both it is unfair, you may love this person but if she wants to also be with the other person she clearly does not feel the same. She wants a normal life? That's not normal. From this I feel like you are her safety blanket. You ... (read in full...)
He cheated, and lied about it; I need advice!
Q. So last year my partner cheated so let me just start from there. Last April we were having difficultys in our relationship and we grew distant although we remained intimate and had sex things seemed off with us. Following that we had a night out he ...
A. 7 June 2012: To add I think he had forgotten about there conversation on Facebook or he would have deleted it I would assume x... (read in full...)
He cheated, and lied about it; I need advice!
Q. So last year my partner cheated so let me just start from there. Last April we were having difficultys in our relationship and we grew distant although we remained intimate and had sex things seemed off with us. Following that we had a night out he ...
A. 7 June 2012: Candycane he has only cheated once, and I agree Facebook has caused extra problems. I shouldn't have been snooping but then again he shouldn't have had anything to hide. There's always room for change. I know he won't do it again the problem now is ... (read in full...)
My baby daddy has moved in with a much older woman
Q. OKAY.... I am 23 years old.. had a 5 year relationship with my ex boyfriend... during that time, we had a break up but we were still seeing each other so I became pregnant and that's how we got back... the reason why we had broke up in the first ...
A. 7 June 2012: Sounds like he wanted the cake and to eat the whole thing. He may genuinely like this women. But he cheated on her with you also so this proves he's dishonest. If you can maintain a friendship for your baby, then you should. But move on he has and ... (read in full...)
He cheated, and lied about it; I need advice!
Q. So last year my partner cheated so let me just start from there. Last April we were having difficultys in our relationship and we grew distant although we remained intimate and had sex things seemed off with us. Following that we had a night out he ...
A. 7 June 2012: Everything is already out in the open and we Have already talked about it. I just feel like I'm making it worse now because I can't drop it. He's be nothing but honest about it since I confronted him. He told me he wasn't happy with the way the ... (read in full...)
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