How can someone be in love with a deeply selfish person?
Q. My friend is smitten with someone who cares only for herself. It's pretty clear to me that her girlfriend is a narcissistic con-artist but somehow she doesn't see it. My friend does have low-self esteem, but her girl is rude to her, rude to her ...
A. 9 June 2010: No, I haven't. That would be somebody else. I actually have a boyfriend who I love, but it makes me sick to see my friend treated like this!... (read in full...)
Husband cheated with his ex, insecurity and trust issues causing me problems, any good advice appreciated?
Q. My husband cheated on me with his ex of 6 years when we were only married two months i forgave him we are now going on three years and i just found out from these girls that he slept with someone else about a year ago but im not sure what to believe ...
A. 25 May 2010: Go to counseling (alone) and tell them all the details...being a disinterested third party they may be able to discern whether or not the girls were lying, and whether or not your lack of trust for your husband is making you doubt him more than you ... (read in full...)
He said I was the one for him but now he has slowed things down and says we should date others
Q. I've been dating this guy for 6 weeks now (he's 30 I'm 28). We had an instant spark and the chemistry between has been very strong mentally and physically.On our first date I ended up staying the night at his house, no sex just cuddling and kissing. ...
A. 25 May 2010: From what you typed, it sounds more like he wants YOU to slow down and make sure HE is what you want. If you had a fight and it didn't turn out well maybe you aren't suited for each other and he is pointing it out. However, as someone with with ... (read in full...)
My parents don't like that I am in a FWB relationship
Q. I'm in a casual relationship with this girl. To be blunt all we really do is meet up and have sex every few days. What I really don't get is that people dissaprove of it, especially my parents. They say it's not right and that I should be in a ...
A. 24 May 2010: Keep it a secret from them. Most people don't go around announcing that they're humping somebody nsa, especially to their parents. It's private and they don't need to know about it, like they don't need to know about the crap you took yesterday. ... (read in full...)
Is there's any thing I can eat or drink that would make my belly stop hurting?
Q. Hey, I'm 17 and i was wondering if there's any thing you can eat or drink that will make your belly stop hurting or not hurt as much when your on your period? I tried taken tums it dint help, Also is there drinks or foods that will make it worse ...
A. 18 May 2010: You can buy pms pain pills, different ones have different ingredients for different symptoms (like bloating). Some are just repackaged pain pills, so check the back.
I've also noticed that stretching and exercising for 40 minutes reduces my cramp... (read in full...)
I want to end this friends with benefits situation with my ex?? Suggestions?
Q. Hello, I've been in a physical relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past 3 months. Prior to this we had dated for almost a year, when I decided to break up with him. I did this because I felt my needs were not being met. He was thoughtf...
A. 14 May 2010: Tell him exactly what you said here, that you don't like meaningless sex anymore and you feel it should end. End of discussion, you don't owe him anything else.... (read in full...)
I'm sick of feeling alone
Q. I,m eighteen years old and finished school, unemployed and A bit anti-social. I,ve never had a relationship before and have never snogged/made out with anyone before its so embarrassing. And when i go out to a house party or a club I see a guy I ...
A. 8 March 2010: You'll need some confidence. Perhaps read a book about dating and flirting, join an internet dating service and read what people post there.... (read in full...)
What actually is a rebound? Am I his rebound?
Q. Hi Guys, I'm confused re 'rebound'. I've been dating this guy for about 6 weeks and I'm wondering if I am his rebound? What is the proper definition of a rebound? He was with his ex properly for 5 years then that last couple of years they were ...
A. 8 March 2010: Someone can be a rebound years after. It all depends on whether the man or woman has moved on enough from their previous relationship, and if they feel they can form a serious connection again. If the ex wants him back and is getting in good shape ... (read in full...)
I read messages on his phone that make me question his committment to me
Q. I was staying at my boyfriends last night and he was asleep but i couldnt sleep and i reached over to put something on the bedside table and found his phone.. i had to go thru it coz i did once before and found something i really did not like.. he ...
A. 8 March 2010: if those messages to the ex were from when you were officially together with him, it is very likely he cheated or at least was very much thinking of cheating on you. I would move on if you don't want games--he's lying anyway.... (read in full...)
How can I learn to ignore how other woman look and what my boyfriend thinks of them?
Q. I'm not a very attractive female. I'm 21 years old and I guess nature wasn't too kind with me when I was created, lol. It's not a weight issue. I have a healthy BMI. I won't get into details. But my face isn't attractive. And it's not like I can get ...
A. 8 March 2010: Men are wired to check out all women, and then our culture trains them well to continue it past their instincts. You should be glad your boyfriend cares enough about you and what you think to tell you about everything. Most men simply do not think ... (read in full...)
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