How can I show that I am there for her, and that I truly care, without being overwhelming?
Q. I am a 20 yr old guy, and my girlfriend is 17. I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months, and things seem to be stuck in a rut. This girl is my first real girlfriend, and we were getting on so well up until about a month ago. Ever since then, ...
A. 19 March 2008: Try to help her with the workload. She'll be pleased with your attention and input. Be patient. And whenever you find it a suitable time, ask her whether she cares about you as much as she did before (don't do it when she has loads of work to do, ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel like I am making love with my dad, as he's 18 years older than me. Am I abnormal?
Q. I've just divorced my husband of 20 years. He is selfish and unkind. Then Im lucky to meet this man 18 years older than me. He helps me to get my life on track. He makes me feel loved and wanted which I've never felt before. However I feel sick ...
A. 19 March 2008: Maybe the thing is that you don't have enough feelings for that man? I know several couples where one of partners is older than the other, and it's pretty ok with them. Try to sort out your feelings, I mean gratitude and affection. Ta... (read in full...)
How are you supposed to keep a strong connection when you only see someone twice a week and no calls in between?
Q. Me and my guy have been seeing each other for 6 weeks now and we are great together but I have one complaint! He doesnt call me much at all I have noticed the last couple of weeks. He will call when I am supposed to come over and maybe a couple ...
A. 19 March 2008: That's crap that guy is afraid of getting sick because of phone calls. It's perfectly ok when you are dating smb to find out how his or her day was, how she or he feels, what he or she is planning for the evening and so on. Maybe these two times ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my worries about blow jobs?
Q. I really kinda need help with this now. When I was kinda young, I had a few problems with a relative, which involved him doing a few.... not so nice things to me at the time. In the start of my teens, I privately went and saw a counsellor, but she ...
A. 19 March 2008: It's not only blow job that can be pleasant to your guy. Have you thought about oral? sensual massage? or anything else that most guys like? If you don't feel like doing blow jobs now, just don't do them, there are many other ways how you can... (read in full...)
I keep on faking orgasms but I love my new partner, please help!
Q. I love my new partner. But I don't always have an orgasm with him so I fake it so as to please him. I've been doing for a while and find it tired faking it. What can I do? Please advise....
A. 19 March 2008: Why don't you tell him the truth? It's absolutely ok if you don't have orgasms always. A lot of women have the same problem. If your guy knows of it, he'll do his best you to have orgasms more often. Wish your great love and mutual understand... (read in full...)
No lectures please, I'm staying with him no matter what, I just need to know what to do with my bf who's smoking weed...
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Okay so here's the stich My boyfriend has lately started on weed again and it has changed him big time, its got to a point were he doesnt care what i say or what i do anymore... Hes yelling at me like everyday now,...
A. 19 March 2008: Take him to rehab. Try to talk to his relatives or his friends who you are sure want to help your bf.
That's the onely way out I can see. If your talking doesn't influence him, take help of others.
Wish you patience and strength.
kis... (read in full...)
Should I give him up because he beat up my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. There's this guy i realy like, but my best freind doesn't like him at all. What should i do? Should i risk a freindship for a relationship or try my hardest to get over the guy? Keep in mind she doesn't lik the guy 'cause he beat up her boyfreind....
A. 27 February 2008: Oh, it's really difficult to say for sure what one should do. First of all, give a good thought to your relatinship - is it what you value? Are you looking forward to meeting your BF? Or is it just a habit and a desire to be like everyone around? Se... (read in full...)
Why does a man just cut contact with you?
Q. why? what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? even when you havent done anything wrong. does it take a certain type of a man to not consider your feelings ...
A. 26 February 2008: Oh, I know pretty well what you feel... I dated a guy who was just awesome, he was the first BF whom I loved dearly. Everything was great though he had a very busy lifestyle. And one day he just stopped calling me, we hadn't seen each other for a... (read in full...)
Why does a man just cut contact with you?
Q. why? what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? even when you havent done anything wrong. does it take a certain type of a man to not consider your feelings ...
A. 26 February 2008: Oh, I know pretty well what you feel... I dated a guy who was just awesome, he was the first BF whom I loved dearly. Everything was great though he had a very busy lifestyle. And one day he just stopped calling me, we hadn't seen each other for a... (read in full...)
I want more, how do I tell him without scaring him?
Q. I have been in an on and off (mainly on) relationship for 9 years with a guy I truly adore. He makes me laugh, we know each other inside out, we have the same goals etc. But I am 25 now, and I am ready for our relationship to be a lot more serious - ...
A. 30 January 2008: I agree with Laura. No matter how it will look, be brave and show him that there's something frustrating you. sometimes we want too much of our BFs, believing they can read our thoughts. Be calm, offer him a walk in a park, or somewhere where ... (read in full...)
Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!
Q. I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X ...
A. 30 January 2008: The situation sucks... as fas as I understand from your letter you don't love your current bf madly, though he has almost any girl would dream, except tenderness. Anyway if you are pregnant that baby must be his. So wait until you know for sure ... (read in full...)
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