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My ex has me very confused

Q.   My ex and I were together for 9yrs, we started dating when I was 17. We have 2 wonderful children together. 4yrs ago our relationship ended for a lot of reasons. We had been talking for quite sometime about how we loved each other but were ...

A.   25 February 2009: Yeah.. we had a long talk and I told him it was hurtig me too bad to have sex anymore. So that is stopped. And the fact that every chance he gets he tells me he NOT in love and I cant anymore. Cause wat if/when he does meet someone else..it will ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me... and I'm getting to like it.

Q.   Right my problem is that my boyfriend's best friend is always hitting on me and my bf never seems to notice so he just keeps on doing it, but now I'm confused! The other day I was at a party and I was looking for my boyfriend when I bumped into his...

A.   23 February 2009: If you value your relationship with your BF and you love him...STOP! Pull his friend to the side and tell him its flattering but you are taken and to pls stop. But make it stop!!! Four years ago I went thru the EXACT same thing!! I was on an all ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's convinced I think she's ugly and think her friends are hot...

Q.   My girlfriend has the worse self esteem issues. It all started when I check out her friend in front of her and say she (my gf) better looking then she is (I was a bit drunk as well). She didn't really care at first until we got home. She scream at ...

A.   22 February 2009: You never say someone is more beautiful than ur girlfriend. We all know that there are more attractive people than us..but when you say things like waht you said..we start doubting your love for us. Dont ask why .. we are women! Also remember this ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and the Dad wants me to have an abortion or give it up, what to do?

Q.   Im four months pregnant by another man which was a one night stand. at the time I was not with my kids father now we are back together and he knows about it because I told him, now he wants me to have an abortion or to give up the baby after birth. ...

A.   22 February 2009: hi I have three children, 2 different dads. they are 10,7,and 1. This last one was pure miracle..was never suppose to have kids again..but God had a different plan for me. I do not beleive in abortions, I beleive God never gives us a cross to heavy ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I'm marrying him for love, or for the kids?

Q.   How can i tell if i'm marrying this man for love..Or for the kids?I think i love him..But he always gives me a reason not to trust him..He has been unfaithful atlease 2 times that i know about..I have two boys with this man.I think alot has to do ...

A.   21 February 2009: If you do not have 100% trust in ur relationship, it is doomed from the start!! And in the long run you will only hurt your chilren. If you have to ask yourself this question seems to me you dont want to marry him!! If you dont trust him and along ... (read in full...)

Will you have orgasm as fast during sex as when masturbating?

Q.   While having sex, will I orgasm as quickly as when I masturbate?? I'm not thinking about having sex, but I'm just wondering....

A.   21 February 2009: Its a proving fact for most women, (and I mean the are very few lucky women that can) it is very hard to climax with intercourse alone. Most women get an orgasm by oral sex or masturbating during sex. And nobody knows your body better than you do. ... (read in full...)

On V-day I got my boyfriend having sex with my sister

Q.   My boyfriend told me not to come over to his place on Valentine's day because he said he wasn't feeling well and didn't want me to get sick. But I forget my phone there and I needed it so I went there anyway. I went get there (he give me a house ...

A.   21 February 2009: Wow .. first i am sorry to hear. Second drop his a@@ and never look back!! Its one thing to have a one night mishap, but Im pretty positive by the way he planned on being sick for valentines day..things between your sister & him have been going on ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to be friends with a married man who is your ex of 13 years?

Q.   Is it okay to talk to a married man who happens to be your ex 13 years ago? Its stricty friendship and platonic. We have no feelings for each other, but just want to be there for each other as friends. is that so wrong ..and his wifes knows of the ...

A.   20 February 2009: Personally I beleive that you never stop havin feelings for someone you were with .. especially if you were intimate. And I have been in several relationships when the man had an ex...and I would say "no it doesnt bother me", however deep down it ... (read in full...)

How did you know your significant other was THE one?

Q.   Hi, I'm wondering if anyone would like to share their story of when they found the person they wanted to spend the rest of their life with? How did you know? (whether you are still with that person or not it doesn't matter) I was talking t...

A.   20 February 2009: I am getting ready to be 30..and I found my true love when I was 17. We are not together and havent been for 4 yrs. We have 2 children together so we still talk...about them. We broke up after 9 years because we were both kids when we met..then we ... (read in full...)

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