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writes:Right my problem is that my boyfriend's best friend is always hitting on me and my bf never seems to notice so he just keeps on doing it, but now I'm confused!The other day I was at a party and I was looking for my boyfriend when I bumped into his friend who said he might be upstairs and that he would come help me find him, so we went upstairs and his friend was messing around and knocked me onto this sofa and then when I was laughing he leaned in to kiss me, it was completely unexpected so it took a couple secs before I could stop him.The next day I was in the spa with my bf and his friend and it was quite dark and his friend like rubbed his hand up and down my leg and slipped it into my bikini, I hit his hand away but he brought it back, this time it felt so good, way better than the feeling I get when my bf touches me so I couldn't bring myself to stop him again.Now I'm confused and don't know what to do as I still love my boyfriend but get this like electric amazing feeling whenever his friend is around me or touches me, I've told him to stop so many times but now I don't know whether I want him to!Please help what should I do?
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reader, chrissy121005  +, writes (23 February 2009):
well u might want to fell ur boyfriend, unless u really like his friend. if u like his friend then just end it with ur BF and dont tell him what happen cuz things can get ugly. but if u like ur BF alot, then tell him about his friend. cuz his friend needs to respect ur BF and u!!!
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reader, Kimberle +, writes (23 February 2009):
If you value your relationship with your BF and you love him...STOP! Pull his friend to the side and tell him its flattering but you are taken and to pls stop. But make it stop!!!
Four years ago I went thru the EXACT same thing!! I was on an all time high to have someone attracted to me.. other than my BF, it was erotic and exciting cause I could get caught. His friend wud do the same thing if we were playing cards he wud touch me under the table, if I would lve the party to go to the bathroom or anywhere there was noone else he would pop up and touch me. But I let it go too far and had sex with him!! It was very exciting and erotic..at the time. But til this day I live with MAJOR regret. My BF never found out.. and we have been seperated since about 4 yrs ago....but knowing I did that to him still haunts me to this day!! SO unless you just have no feelings or compassion for your BF and want a fling that has no meaning ..put it to a stop..NOW. Maybe your relationship needs some spice..or you would not feel this way. So talk to ur BF about exploring sexual adventures!!!
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