How can I overcome my shyness?
Q. i am 15 and i am dating a 12 year old i hav had a major crush on me for 9 months and a couple of months ago she told me she loved me, i asked her to b my girlfriend, she siad yes, we have been dating 3 weeks and we still havnt spoke face 2 face, we ...
A. 30 November 2007: Hello :)
No, its not wrong that there is 3 years difference between you and your girlfriend, if you love each other then thats all that matters. Try to overcome your shyness by practicing what to say to her in a mirror. Just try and show the girl... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl out face-to-face??
Q. If i ask out a girl face to face tell her everything how do i? After i tell her i like her, ask her out? We're both 17. Should i expect a reply? If she needs time how do i give her time? Won't it be awkward until i get the answer? Lol easiest ...
A. 30 November 2007: Hello :)
I think that you should ask this girl out face to face, if she needs time then yes give her time. She would appreciate you asking her out to her face than by a text message or something like that. If the girl does say no, dont worry, be p... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to ask a guy out??
Q. Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ...
A. 30 November 2007: Hello :)
Nooo, theres nothing wrong with asking someone to go out with you, if you like someone you should just go for it, you only live once so yeah i think you should ask this guy :)
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How can I meet new people online?
Q. I don't have much time to socialise by going out. How can I meet new people online? any sites that are good that you don't have to pay money to subscribe to? ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :)
You could sign up for myspace (www.myspace.com) it is good and you can search for friends and send comments to each other and get to know each other
Hope i helped :)
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Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Good luck :) x... (read in full...)
At the end of my second date with a boy, he kissed my cheek. Could he have been upset that I didn't do it back?
Q. hey guys!! today i had my second date with this guy. it all went good until we walked home. basically hes quite shy and weve done dares where we kiss each other etc but it wasnt serious. so i was like i need to go now and he was like same so i ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :) I know it says i'm older but i am actually 13. This guy shouldnt feel upset that you did not kiss him back. He should know that you wasnt ready to kiss him yet. You just both have to wait until your ready to go to the next step. i.e. Kissi... (read in full...)
Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :) It's good to know that you have arent label yet. And its a good thing you know your relationship wont go anywhere more than just friends. Because if you did then it would only leave you heartbroken in the end. Just try to forget about it... (read in full...)
Is she trying to get back at me or her ex??
Q. What is the deal with this chick? Alright so back in August I had a thing with a girl, then she suddenly stopped talking to me, wouldn't answer if I called or msg'd her, so I gave up. She had a boyfriend for a couple months, well today he dumped ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :) This girl seems desperate, her ex has just dumped her and she probably really liked him. I think that she is trying to get back at him, because if she gets a new boyfriend, that will make her ex think if he had done the right thing or not t... (read in full...)
I am 13 and like this guy. How do I get the relationship to move from friends to more?
Q. hi im 13 and i like this guy a lot and im sure he likes me too. It would be great if we could be more than friends and we flirt, but nothing is happening. Please could you suggest a way to move things along? thanks....
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :)
Talk to him, see how he feels about you. If you both feel the same, ask him out and see what happens from there. But i suggest you dont rush into anything therfore your only 13 and got years ahead of you for boyfriends. Also, be sure you ... (read in full...)
What can I get him for Christmas to show him how I feel??
Q. Ok here we go.....don't laugh lol.......im 13 and there is this guy......i love him soooo much and i think he likes me to.......i want to get him something special for christmas in hopes that he will ask me out on a date or something.......i really ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :)
You could get him
-Chocolates
-After shave
-Jewellry
-Clothes
Hope that helped you :)... (read in full...)
Being the older cousin... I have to give my little cousin (14) tips about making out. Any suggestions?
Q. hey my little cousin is 14 and hes been asking me on tips on making out for the first time. any help on what to tell him or a web site i can go to(no porn). K thanks!...
A. 25 November 2007: hello :)
You can't tell someone how to 'make out' it just comes naturally, but you can tell him that a girl wouldnt mind if hes kissed someone or not.
Hope i helped :)... (read in full...)
A boy from school said it's embarassing to be virgin. I do not agree. What do you think?
Q. a boy said at school in a pshe lesson that "if you are 14 and still a virgin its embarresing" although over half tutor are virgins.i dont think thats embarresing at all what do you think? its getting to me. ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :)
No its not embarassing, dont listen to that boy, you are underage anyway and the legal age is 16. Just wait until your ready and dont rush into anything you may regret later
Hope i helped :)... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend this, is it a big deal??
Q. I am 14 and one of my freinds has a boyfreind they have been going out for about a month. He has already cheated on her, which she forgave him for and recently in my drama lesson another girl was sitting on his lap who my friend dislikes. Should i ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :) In a way it is a bit of a deal because the girl obviously knows that his girlfriend doesnt like her, shes just doing it to wind her up. The boy should of told the girl to get off as he has a girlfriend. but in other ways, its just sitting ... (read in full...)
My friend has moved on...but does he still like me?
Q. I really like this guy from school. He used to like me but i turned him down because I knew my best friend liked him. She has now moved on, but the guy is ignoring me. All his friends are coming up to me and saying someone likes you. Does this mean ...
A. 25 November 2007: hello :) he probably still does like you, he's probably just un-confident about himself becuase you told him no the first time he asked you out. Talk to him and see what he thinks and explain to him that you only turned him down because you knew you... (read in full...)
He gets me in trouble but I love him so much...
Q. Hi my name is charley and im 14 years old. I have a bf named andrew and hes 13. People at school call me a pedo and other stuff and its been going on since ive been going out with him. People say stuff to him too and i feel like im geting him into ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hello :) it doesn't matter what people say. If you love him then no-one can change that. And as for the trouble he gets you in, thats what you do for people you love, you sometimes do wierd things to help other people, and thats what makes a good r... (read in full...)
We've been together since we were 5, now we are 13 and want to start having sex, what to do??
Q. hi im 13 and im going out with a boy the same age and we have known eachother since we were 5 and have always been close. We sneak around because we dont want everyone to know about us. not even our parents know because they will tell people. ...
A. 19 November 2007: Hello :) This is very sweet. But no, dont have sex, the law is that you have to be 16+ to have sex. You may feel that you want to but you can't. If you ignore this and do please make sure you use contraception of some sort :). Make sure this bo... (read in full...)
He gave me a pen for a gift, does it mean he likes me??
Q. this guy that i like gave me a pen for a gift does it mean anything ?...
A. 19 November 2007: Heya hun, Yes this could mean something. This guy might be showing him feelings through gifts. He may not know what you like so he buys anything. Rarely boys buy girls gifts unless they are best mates or going out with eachother. Just watch out for ... (read in full...)
What can I do about this situation?
Q. ok there is a this girl who i have been recently talking too and she has started to be mean to me.i have done nothing mean to her and she always says i look like 'karen' from the film mean girls and she always says i had sex with my cousin which is ...
A. 19 November 2007: Sweetie, This girl is pathetic and immature. She's just jealous of you and has to resort to making up lies about you. Just ignore this girl, however much it might annoy you just try, because soon she will know that it's not bothering you and she ... (read in full...)
Sexual remarks, flirtation and mind games from my teacher. I know it's wrong, but I'd go on anyway. How do I control myself?
Q. hi im 14 and hav had a major crush on my science teacher for well over a year.at first i hated his guts -he looked at me consantly and said/did innapropriate things(winks;sexual remarks;touching), i always felt really uneasy.however one day during a ...
A. 19 November 2007: Dear Jade. Please tell another teacher about this man, he seems very dangerous. He is a pervert, he shouldn't be doing this to girls that are so young, its wrong. Yes you may like this science guy but he is teasing you, you need to tell someone ... (read in full...)
I don't know if she fancy's me.
Q. hi i am 13 years old and theres a girl in my class and i used to bully her but now me and her r best friends and i sort of fancy her and i dont know if she fancys me and i dont know what to do if she does and i really need help we both have msn and ...
A. 18 November 2007: Hello.
This is a hard one.
how about talking to her about how you feel and asking her to tell you how she feels.
tell her you won't take it to offense if she just wants to be mates. But i think it is worth a try and see how it goes from there. ... (read in full...)
Some girls have said to my face I'm ugly. Will I ever have a gf?
Q. I find it difficult to be attracted to girls my own age .because some girls have said to my face im ugly. Now i find it so difficult to love myself. At one pointnice guy, but they say nice guys are not good looking. I once wanted to take my own ...
A. 18 November 2007: Hello :) Them girls who have said your ugly are immature and stupid. Dont worry, you will find someone, you just have to go out there and look. You are not ugly you are unique and different from everyone else, trust me you will find a girl that you... (read in full...)
How long should you wait until sex? I'm 12.
Q. I am 12 i have a felling to have sex but i know it is wrong and i wont do it. Just to tell you now my b/f is not pressuring me but we both know it is wrong so we will wait. what age should i wait until? My b/f and i have been going out for about 5 ...
A. 18 November 2007: Hello :)
The law to have sex IS 16. You are obviously not ready and should wait. Its great to know your boyfriend is not pressuring you into having sex. If anyone ever does make sure you are ready and if your not tell them and dump them.
Lots ... (read in full...)
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