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writes:I am 14 and one of my freinds has a boyfreind they have been going out for about a month. He has already cheated on her, which she forgave him for and recently in my drama lesson another girl was sitting on his lap who my friend dislikes. Should i tell her what he has done, is it a big deal? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kayleigh :) +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hello :)In a way it is a bit of a deal because the girl obviously knows that his girlfriend doesnt like her, shes just doing it to wind her up. The boy should of told the girl to get off as he has a girlfriend. but in other ways, its just sitting on his lap it doesnt really mean anything. they might just be really good mates.hope that helped :)
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reader, love-him +, writes (24 November 2007):
 Hi, it is a big deal yes, because this boy has clearly let her sit on his knee etc. Tell her because she is your friends, and a true friend would say, it is up to her to believe you. My boyfriend is also here with me and he says, if his friend was cheating on another person he would tell the girlfriend, because it is unfair. I hope we helped, and if you need to mail me about anything, feel free x
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reader, ~Foxxy~ +, writes (24 November 2007):
 Good luck ~x~x~
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reader, ~Foxxy~ +, writes (24 November 2007):
I think you should tell your friend about this boy.
If she finds out from somebody else it's going to hurt her more, But if you tell her as a friend she may feel a little upset but thankful that you did not keep it from her.
Also if she really likes him and she won't get rid of him gently remind her that if he has done it twice what's stopping him from doing it again, But don't pry too much. If she stays with him then she must figure out that she deserves better herself.
Hope my advice helps and good luck to you both.
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reader, bonniegal +, writes (24 November 2007):
hi, well look at it from her point of view if that was u wouldnt u want to know wat he is doing behind ur back,dont make out its a huge deal jus tell her wen she is on her own dnt do it where there is lots of peeps coz u might embarrase her chances r she probs already know and jus doesnt want to believe it, especilly as he has cheated on her b4. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): I think you should tell your friend. If she finds out anyway then she'd be angry and not just her boyfriend, but at you as well for not telling her.It will be better in the long run for you to tell her gently - as you are showing that you care about her and that you want to help her. It would be better for her as well to be rid of this guy who keeps cheating on her.Good luck to both you and your friend. x
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