Can anyone please tell me is he flirting or taking advantage of me
Q. hi, this guy and i have been friends for three years now.from the beginning all our mutual friends pulled us together and the guy blushes and i cant just stop laughing when people put us together. now i want to know if he is flirting or does he ...
A. 17 April 2009: He is a player so do not fool around with him. Enjoy the attention and tease him he is to shy to ask you out. never let him pressure you into fooling arround cause if he is a player that takes the fun away. make him marry you to fool around or ... (read in full...)
Should or or should I not, travel with him this summer?
Q. Ok, I know I may sound superficial, but in my culture, IMAGE is all that matters for a woman; the way she dresses, she talks, her actions and who she goes out with. I would like you to bare this in mind. My reputation is very important for so...
A. 17 April 2009: hey your culture is old and should be respected cause there is a reasons why years of history made rules.
if he loves you he will wait and do it the right way and if he is a short cutter than do you want to be with him and in the same token wo... (read in full...)
35 weeks pregnant and feel so alone.
Q. I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I feel so isolated. I feel like my friends don't wanna deal with me or talk to me. You know when you call or text someone and they don't answer or they just don't seem interested in what you have to say or how you feel. I ...
A. 17 April 2009: Ask your boy friend to stay and make up something he likes. See if you two can plan a wedding play cards, do babies room, some fix it around house only he can do whatever make up something and he will stay but make it fun. with friends if ... (read in full...)
How can I make my Mom trust my boyfriend/best friend?
Q. Hello! My mom doesn't like my boyfriend at all. She doesn't trust him. He broke up with me once for a day and I was shattered, but even before that, my mom never liked him, back when he was just my best friend. Any tips on how I can make her see...
A. 17 April 2009: moms have great instincts. you might not think of all she does for you and how much she worries about you but pull back and trust her. If she hates her have your guard up cause one thing for sure is she has been there for every fall and ki... (read in full...)
How do I keep my mind off him?
Q. Stupid question--please don't call me dramatic, I know, I am: My boyfriend will be leaving the country tomorrow for a while, and I'm going to miss him quite a lot. Usually we talk hours every day. Now that he's leaving, it seems as though I'll hav...
A. 17 April 2009: Excercise and the more you think the harder you tread mill soon you are so tired you are done.
Then read
It does not work for me either but i feel better
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I lost her, Please help
Q. Well first thing we had what you would call an ideal relationship. We were talking about getting married and having kids. It was perfect. But one day she broke up with me because she said "Do you think we were better as friends" I said no i don'...
A. 17 April 2009: She is in bad shape and you do not want her back. You and her are making each other crazy and she is in and out and yes and no cause she is still with the other guy. End it and find new friends and relax with marriage. settle down and wait... (read in full...)
Is This a Casual or not so Casual relationship?
Q. I have been sing this man for 5 months and he has been wonderful to me and we are very sexually active with each other. He wants to stay casual, but I know he really cares about me because I have been going through personal issures such as a divo...
A. 17 April 2009: i have friend at work and he is doing the same thing and says he is doing it for the sex and does not want the responsibities with the kids.
who knows... (read in full...)
Paranoid but want openness too
Q. My wife and i have been married fifteen years. Twelve years ago there was a guy at my house and when i ask her to explain it she says she does not remember. I was not to be home and he knocked at the door and i answered i was late for an ...
A. 17 April 2009: thankyou i agree i do not think or care if she did i would love her to be honest and trust the answer she gives me... (read in full...)
In Love and Uncertain
Q. My question: I'm single mom of 8 year old boy. He is also a fulltime single parent of a 14yr old daughter, and he picks his 9 year old boy (of another relationship) every weekend from out of state. It's been over a year. Most everything betw...
A. 17 April 2009: you have so much to do with an eight year old boy let the man be a friend and explain it to him.
Hang out it will give your son a father figure a little and give you some entertainment but focus on your kid he has hands full too.... (read in full...)
Paranoid but want openness too
Q. My wife and i have been married fifteen years. Twelve years ago there was a guy at my house and when i ask her to explain it she says she does not remember. I was not to be home and he knocked at the door and i answered i was late for an ...
A. 17 April 2009: Thankyou and both answers are right. I have brought it up to her and i did let it spin out of control. I even contacted the guy that was there.
The guy said they did not do anythign and they that he was only there two weeks and that i was craz... (read in full...)
Give him a class ring?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend (14) and I (17) have been together for about two weeks short of six months. Despite our age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. We never fight, and we're always totally there for each other. The half-year mark i...
A. 17 April 2009: Wow three years difference and dating. He has barely hit pubardy and his growth spurt. In some states next year if you have sex you can go to jail for stagetory rape. You are hanging out as friends now and label it that for his sake and y... (read in full...)
Why does he use Porn to get off...and ignores me??I am more than willing!
Q. Hi... i feel kinda embarassed to asked this but i have to since i cant get answers from my bf.. We've been together for almost 7 months now, out of all that time he has been watching porn for like 1 1/2 almost EVERY DAY.. He didnt tell me he was ...
A. 17 April 2009: Do not compromise yourself by saying you will ever do any thing they are doing in the videos. it is amazing how addictive porn is like an alcoholic. It has nothing to do with you but habit and his own insecurity and now an addiction. I... (read in full...)
Approaching him about something new for sex?
Q. Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in an intimate relationship with a 17 year old guy. We aren't going out, we just have a mutual agreement to be what you would call "friends with benefits". It's an exclusive agreement, meaning we only sleep with ...
A. 17 April 2009: What if you get preganent. What responsibities does he have what do you have. Sex is such a small pleasure why not move on to real life and prepare for when you are on your own. IF it is not wrong would you tell your dad, mom etc. ... (read in full...)
Should I have done this? What are your views?
Q. I've fallen in love with this guy, A. We were seeing each other for two months and then broke up but we hadn't talked through it properly or cleared the air between us, he just seemed like he didn't want to know although he did say he still loved me ...
A. 17 April 2009: if your view of love is conditional on his mood and loving you to bits after he broke up with you that is not even right. If he wants you back he better be graveling and explaining cause you are worth it. Never date if your lonely and ... (read in full...)
I feel like something out of the Jeremy Kyle show, help!
Q. I feel like I am on the verge of a massive break down and everything is compouding onto my chest. I was sexually assaulted 3 years ago by someone who I thought was a mate, 2 months later my badminton coach and close mate of my dads started perving ...
A. 17 April 2009: Wow that is a lot.Sexual predators seek out low self esteem people. So when you sense it, straighten your posture, pull your head up and know God does not make mistakes. No matter how your parents treat you know you are uniqe and as long as you ... (read in full...)
Where are the guys my own age???
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm mentally mature for my age. I'm not conceited, yet I do know that I'm very attractive physically and my personality is a good one. Lately though it seems that I can't attract or meet any new guys, one's that are ...
A. 17 April 2009: Wow old guys like you but your age does not. At seventeen it seems like the world but who cares. When you are not looking for a relationship and trying to help others the right person falls into place. At this age you are so busy you do not want a ... (read in full...)
I have a massive crush on a work colleague which I seriously need to get over.
Q. I have a massive crush on a work colleague which I seriously need to get over. I've liked him for 18 months, I almost feel as though I am in a fantasy world with it because whenever he even remotely turns him head in my direction I'm tthinking he's ...
A. 17 April 2009: Wow what a lucky guy to have two girls that like him. Have you ever left a bowl of candy on the table and slowly ate all of it. That is what infatuation is. Stop looking at him, putting yourself in the way of him, thinking of him, in general take ... (read in full...)
First time help...
Q. First of all I'm a girl not a guy and so I've been with my gf 8 months now and it's a online realtionship, well right now I'm going in 33 days to go be with her.... I'm so in love with her, she's my everything... we talk about sex all the time and ...
A. 17 April 2009: Wow as a guy my intentions have not always been perfect so what if his are not. If you are so in love why can you not meet and enjoy each others company to see if he talks as well as he types. Once you have sex the intimacy over powers the hey ... (read in full...)
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