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Is This a Casual or not so Casual relationship?

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Question - (17 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, *miley1 writes:

I have been sing this man for 5 months and he has been wonderful to me and we are very sexually active with each other.

He wants to stay casual, but I know he really cares about me because I have been going through personal issures such as a divorce proceedings and had to move out of my living situation with the bare minimal and he has stepped up to help me out.

He takes me out to eat alot and we hand out at his house and he hands out at mine. He has met my kids and he likes them and they like him. He is receintly divorced and has always told me he like his independence and privacy and doesn't want to be tied down.

But what he says and his caring actions toward me and his texting me every night to say good night and sleep well has gotten me confused. What is your opinion of this relationship?

He talks about taking me out on his boat over the summer and that he likes hanging with me but wants to say casual.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (17 April 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntMmmmm.... sounds like this guys is just saying all the right things to keep you available for sex! He doesnt want any of the baggage that comes with a relationship and is happy to have things 'casual' which to me means that he is having sex with other women or plans on having sex with other women!

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A male reader, just wondering United States +, writes (17 April 2009):

i have friend at work and he is doing the same thing and says he is doing it for the sex and does not want the responsibities with the kids.

who knows

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